Akunjalo, ungafuni ukudibana. Kulo mfana, oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlangane kwaye uthandane. Mxelele ukuba inkxaso yakhe ibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, emva koko, awukwazi "oomama" imihla ngemihla. Shiya ukugxeka kunye nengxoxo malunga nokusilela kobuso bakho okanye ukufumana esinye isikhathi. Ukwenza kwindlela eya kwintlanganiso kunye nonina kuyisimo esibi.
Zi lungise.
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Buza kusengaphambili kumfana osemfana into ongenakukwazi ukuthetha nomama okanye ngabazali bakhe. Kwiintlanganiso, ziphathe ngokwemvelo. Musa ukuthetha kakhulu, ungazityumkisi njengaye, kwaye ungazakheli "nun." Xoxa ngendlela othetha ngayo nabazali bakho, udade wakho omdala. Ungasebenzisi "i-slang yolutsha" kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zamagama othetha ngazo ku-Odnoklassniki okanye iVKontakte.
Ukuba uya kutyelela umfana, musa ukummangalela ngokumanga xa udibana. Ukuchukumisa lula idama kuya kukwanela. Ngokukhawuleza umyalelo wakhe unina?
Intlanganiso.
Mhlawumbi imeko efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuhlangana kunye nomama womfana uya kuba yingxoxo malunga nobuntwana bakho. Bonke oomama bathanda ukuthetha ngobuntwana babo oonyana kunye neentombi. Bonisa ii-albhamu zentsapho okanye iividiyo. Wena, nawe, unokuthetha okufutshane malunga namabantwana akho kunye namabali ahlekisayo ayenzeka kuwe. Sitshele nge-hobby yakho okanye emsebenzini, sifundo.
Umama ahlukeneyo. Ngenxa yothando olukhulu ngonyana wakhe kunye nokuqinisekiswa ngokupheleleyo ukuba akukho ntombazana ehlabathini ifanelwe ukuba nomntwana wakhe, baninzi babo balungiselela ukuphenywa ngokwenene.
Ukuba incoko yakho ithatha inguquko engathandekiyo kuwe, zama ukutshintsha isihloko. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, musa ukunyanzela kwaye ungabikho. Oku, ubuncinane, akukho nto. Kwimeko embi, awuyi kuthanda umama wakho.
Qinisekisa ukuba uncedise abazali okanye umama wentsha malunga nendlela epholile kwaye ehle ngayo endlwini yabo. Zama ukubuza indlela yokunyamekela izityalo okanye ukupheka ipie enjalo. Ukuba kukho izilwanyana, ungacela ububele bakhe, imikhwa. Ngelinye igama, zama ukuguqulela intetho kwisiteshi esithakazelisayo kumama womfana. Ngoko uzibonakalisa njengentombazana enhle kwaye iyingqondi.
Izicwangciso ezifikelela kude.
Intlanganiso yokuqala kunye nentsapho yoweselula yashiywa emva kwayo. Unobusuku obuhle, uthetha ngeendidi ezahlukahlukeneyo, ngaba uvakalelwa kukuba wenze impembelelo? Ewe, ngoku kufuneka uqikelele ngezicwangciso zakho zesoka lakho. Ukuba uyakubona ngokwenene ixesha elide, okanye ngaphezulu, cinga ngomtshato, ngoko kulungele ukuqhubeka ulwalamano nonina.
Mbonise ukuba ungumfazi omhle kwaye unokunyamekela unyana wakhe. Mnike ikhekhe ebhakawe ngezandla zakho. Okanye umkhonto oboyiweyo. Ukuba uye waya kwi-dacha yabo ndawonye, nikela uncedo lwakho ekuphekeni isidlo okanye uhlambe izitya.
Ukunyaniseka yizona zixhobo eziphambili zookumkani, kunye nawe. Soloko uthi "siyabonga", "mva ntambama", "nceda udlule". Ukuba ucela uluvo lwakho malunga nendlu, malunga nomyezo, ukhukhukhamba, i-sunset izandla zomama, wonke umntu kufuneka adunyiswe. Nangona kunjalo, lonke ixesha "podlizyvatsya" alifanelekanga. Ukuba unombono ochasene ngokupheleleyo, yichaze, kuphela ngobumnene. Vumela umamazala kamva azi ukuba unombono wakho wezinto.
Ngomfana wakho oselula uthetha kuphela. Ukungavumelani kwakho kwangaphakathi akukhona ezindlebeni zikayise, uyise, umzalwana, udade. Ungabonakali ukuziphatha komphathi kumntu. Wonke umntu kwaye uyaqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba uhlangene.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba isiphumo somhlangano kunye nomama womfana, yazi ukuba udibana naye, kungekhona wena nabazali bakhe. Nguye owakhetha wena, kwaye iimfuno zakhe kufuneka zihlonishwe ngabazali bakhe.