Indlela yokufezekisa ukulungelelaniswa kumntu owamthandayo

Kuyabonakala ngathi unayo yonke impawu ezifunekayo kwintombazana ... Isethi eliqhelekileyo: njengengqiqo, enhle, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile amadoda ahlale ekwazi ukukunikwa ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye ke ingqalelo ekulindelekileyo.

Ngoko mhlawumbi kuloluhlu oluqhelekileyo lwezithako lusekho nto? Ngokomzekelo, ukugqwesa kakhulu, apho wonke umntu eqhubeka ekhuluma ngokungakhathali. Ukuba udidekile, kutheni ufuna amadrafini, ufike kwindawo elungileyo - eli nqaku likulo!

Ngoko, ndikunika izizathu ze-metamorphosis yakho kwisitayela se "Bitch Charming" okanye indlela yokufezekisa ukulungelelaniswa kumntu owamthandayo.

Ukudlala, ukuthandana, ukungaboni kakuhle, nge-glint ekhangelekile emehlweni, apho kubonakala ngathi, ihlabathi lonke liyabonakala - le ntombazana iphupha lendoda. Abaqhubi beqhuba ibhasi ngendlela eqhelekileyo, kunye nabaqhubi beemoto zabo - akukho nto. Ngoko ke, lungela ukuba kuya kuba lula ukubamba imoto edlulayo ngamanye amaxesha, kuyo yonke indawo ulahlekelwa yimoto, mhlawumbi umqhubi onqwenelekayo kuwe, ngokukhawuleza uyalibala ukufuna i-fare, kwaye iingcango zebhasi ngandlela-thile ziyeke ukuvala ngokuphambi kwempumlo yakho.

Ukususela kwiphondo lobutyebi kuya kuba neziphakamiso zokutyelela umboniso omtsha, uye kwi-premiere yefilimu, uye kwibala lezemidlalo, kwaye uhambe nje nje-akuyiyo isizathu sokuba utshintshe lwakho?

Ifowuni yakho isebenza kwimodi engeyiyo yokuyeka, imihla yonke nonke ngoku nithanda ukuhamba kakuhle, usuku olumnandi, amaphupha amnandi ... kwaye ziphi ieholide ezininzi ezinokubongeza malunga nayo yonke imihla. Yeka indlela enhle ngayo: ukuziva ufumanekile, indlela enokukhetha ngayo, kwaye ungakhethwa ngumntu, ngokubanzi, akudingi nonke. Ekugqibeleni, iintyatyambo ekamelweni lakho ziya kuba ziziqhumiso kungekuphela ngomhla kaMatshi 8.

Kwaye ezi zipho ezintle ezinikwa ngazo zonke iimeko - akunjalo lo lonwabo? Ewe, awuzange uthathe isigqibo sokutshintsha into yakho okwamanje? Emva koko siza kuzisa izizathu ezinobangela ezithandekayo ... Mhlawumbi, nokuba uya kukwazi ukunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Ngokukodwa ukuba umphathi wakho ungowesiqingatha esinamandla sabantu. Hayi, akudingeki ukuba ufikelele kwinjongo ngobudlelwane obusondeleyo, ngoku unomomotheka. Incumo isebenza ezimangalisayo ukuba iyinyaniso, yendalo. Umbono wakho unokukwazi ukunqoba. Ngaba ucinga ukuba oku akunakwenzeka? Yonke into iyinyani - kufuneka ufune kwaye wenze umgudu omncinci.

Kwaye ngoku! Isizathu esibaluleke kakhulu ... Ngoku uya kuba nethuba phakathi kwesihlwele sabaninzi abanomdla kunye nabammangalisa ukuMhlangabeza. Lowo oya kwenza intliziyo yakho ibetha ngokuphindaphindiweyo ... Lowo oya kwenza ngawo onke amacandelo angaphantsi, okuya kuthi siphila kuwo.

Ndiyathemba, ngoku uqonda ukuba yiziphi ithemba elivula phambi kwakho? Ihlala yincinci nje kuphela - yokongeza intle. Hayi, asiyi kukufundisa ukuba uomise iidiliya! Siza kunika isantya esitsha sethu sokupheka.

Ngoko, makhe siqale:

Ukuzithemba, intombazana enolwazi ihamba kunye neempawu ezilandelayo: izithende (apho ngaphandle kwazo?), Izinwele ezilungele kakuhle, ukwakheka okufanelekileyo, iimpahla ezikhethiweyo, ezikhethiweyo. Yayazi kuphela umlinganiselo! Musa ukuba yindlela yakho yokubaluleka ukwenza kwiingubo kunye neetoni zokuzenzela. Nangona kusuka entloko ukuya enzwaneni, zibophe ngazo zonke iintlobo zamasongo, amabhonkco, amacici, amabhande kunye nezinye izigulane, akukho nto ongayi kufumana. Yinto nje yegobolondo yangaphandle ... Ngoko ukutsho, ukupakishwa, okuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo kunye nokugqitywa komfanekiso wangaphakathi, apho kufuneka usebenze khona. Musa ukuba nethemba lokuba amadoda angakwazi ukuwa ngothando njengaleyo, kungekhona into ethile, kodwa nangona kunjalo. Sekunjalo, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokuyisa umntu. Kwaye ukunqoba ngaphezu kweyodwa. Yinqoba le nto, yibambe-yinto enye. Ngoko ke, ukugqiba indlela yokufezekisa ukulungelelaniswa kwindoda oya kuthandana nayo, kufuneka ucinge ngendlela yokushiya nayo.

Ukukhanya, ukukhulula - ezi ziimpawu ezimele zivele kuwe. Yiba lula, zama ukuxhoma ukubaluleka okubalulekileyo kwizinto ezincinci. Khumbula, zingaphi izihlandlo ngenxa yeepibble zakho kunye nezigulane ezihlala uzifungela kunye nentombazana. Kodwa wonke umntu, nangona othulileyo, unxiba ezi zibango ezingapheliyo kwishishini kwaye kungekho sizathu, ubuso bakho obubi, njl njl. Hayi, ewe, ahlale 'uthula' iingxaki kwaye uqokelele ixesha elibi kuwe, ngelinye ilanga liya kuthululela kwaye kuya kuba kubi ngakumbi. Kukho ubuncinane iindlela ezimbini zokusombulula le ngxaki. Okokuqala: unako ukuthetha onke amabango akho kumntu oyintanda kumhlobo wakho othandekayo, khalaza kuye, umgxeke ngokulibala malunga nosuku lokuzalwa lwenja yakho eyintandokazi kwakhona. Futhi uphonsa yonke into eqokelelwe kwaye ngexesha elifanayo unake umhlobo. Inketho yesibini (kubonakala ngathi yinto ekhethwayo): mayeke le ngxaki, oye wacinga ngayo, ibe yinto engathandekiyo kuwe. Ewe, ukuba nje yinto eyingqungquthelwano, kutheni unyathethe intloko yakho kunye nawe kwaye uxoxe ngawo?

Ndicinga ukuba awuyi kukhanyela into yokuba amantombazana angenanto ayithandekayo. Ngamanye amaxesha masenze ezinye izinto ezingenakubungozi. Yilapho ufuna khona inqwelo yendiza. Into ephambili akuyikuyidlula! Yiyo ke, akunjalo, akufuneki ukuba unyule intlanganiso kwindawo ethile ngaphandle komzi, ehlathini kaninzi ukuba ungabonakali kuwo, ukungabikho kwakhe ukuphikisana nesithende esiphukileyo kunye nempembelelo yezigulane zamagneti kuwe. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba le ndlela yokuziphatha, kunoko, ibonakala ukuba indoda yakho ayikho into ekhohlakeleyo, kodwa isisidenge kwaye ayinelise ngokupheleleyo.

Ngaba uyazi enye into enokumnceda umntu? Bu budenge bowesifazane. Ewe, kwiingxenye ezilinganisiweyo, kunjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha udinga ukukhulula ekujuleni komphefumlo wakhe umfanekiso weso "blonde", ehlala nganye. Kule meko, umbala wezinwele zakho awunandaba. Ungesabi ukubonisa ukuba awunayo le nto ngesihloko, ukuba uqondise ngakumbi. Musa ukuyinkimbinkimbi, ukuba awukho ncam na ingcamango yokuba kuthatha ixesha elingakanani uLeonardo Da Vinci, ukubonisa ihlabathi ngobugcisa be-Monolysis. Buza le ndoda! Into eyona nto yokwenza ngokukhawuleza kwekhontrakthi, i-charm, i-coquettlyly smiling and slapping cilia nayo. Ukutya kuphela, kulungele ukutshatyalaliswa okufutshane, kwaye ubuqhophololo bakho obuqaqambileyo buya kubonakala ngathi ulwaphulo olupheleleyo lweengcaphephe.

Hlalani uhlala kuyo ingenakufikeleleka kwaye imfihlelo. Le yinyaniso elula ininzi labesifazana bayazi ukusuka kumntwana. Kodwa, ngelishwa, kuphela kwiingcamango, ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abambalwa bayisebenzisayo ngobuchule kwaye banokwazi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ungayinikeleli kwinani lamadoda owawunayo phambi kwakhe. Izihloko ngeendlela ezintsha zokususa iinwele ezingapheliyo - shiya intombi. Iinkcukacha ezinjalo ezibuhlungu akufanele zihlanjululwe kwaye indoda enomdla ngokuhlala ne-N-nnnoe inani leminyaka, kwaye kwinqanaba lokuqala lobudlelwane bokwakha - nangaphezulu!

Ewe, yikho konke. Ndiyathemba ukuba uqaphele olu lwazi ngeendlela zokunqoba umntu, kwaye, mhlawumbi, ungeze iiluleko zakho. Inhlanhla kuwe!