Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba indlela eya entliziyweni yomntu ilele esiswini. Yaye idlula emzimbeni onzima, isisu. Amadoda akhathazeke kakhulu ngesisu kwaye ahlolisise ubuchule bokuphelisa abo bafazi ababethetha iintliziyo zabo. Kwaye ukuze umdaka wakho angakuxeleli ngexesha lokutshata, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uqinisekisa njani ukuba akunandaba naye ukuba uyazi ukupheka okanye cha, ungakholelwa kuye. Kwaye nangona isidlo sakusasa, isidlo sasemini nesidlo sakusihlwa, ulungele ukunikela ngenxa yezocansi kunye nawe, othandekayo, le idyll ayiyi kuhlala ixesha elide. Ngokukhawuleza uya kuqala ukukusikisela, kwaye sele sele ufuna ukuba uyondle. Kwaye ukuba unenkani, ngoko uya kukumemezela ukuba ulwabelana ngesondo, uchaze ngokunyuka kwakhe.
Yintoni enokuyondla umntu kwinto enqwenela ngayo, emva kokuphakamisa intloko yakhe kwisitya sokutya okumnandi, kunye nokupheka kwakho, wathandana nawe ngonaphakade? Okokuqala, kufuneka siziqonde ngokwenene ukuba abantu abafani nathi, zizinto ezizodwa. Abanelisekanga nge-yogurt, i-oatmeal kunye neqhekeza lekhekhe. Uyabona, banomnye umzimba. Ukongezelela, bachitha amandla amaninzi (cinga nje ukuba kuhamba kangakanani kumbono wesondo omnye). Ngoko ke, kufuneka banikwe isayensi.
Indoda idla ukufumana ngokwaneleyo, kwaye ingadlulanga uxinzelelo (kuba kukho ezinye iindlela ezifanelekileyo). Emva koko, indoda elambileyo, lo ngumntu ongendawo. Kwaye, akufanele uhlekise. Inyama kunye nenyama kuphela! Ngaphandle kwayo, akukho ndoda enye (ngaphandle kokuba iyinkozo yokutya). Kwaye inyama kufuneka ibe yendalo, kwaye ingezantsi zonke iintlobo zee-sausage kunye ne-sausages. Intlanzi, i-carbohydrates kunye nemveliso yobisi - isebenza njengesongezo kwisondlo sokutya. Amadoda alondolozekile. Zitya izitya ezizithandayo, ziyakudla imihla ngemihla. Ngoko musa ukunyuswa kunye nezobugcisa, kodwa kondla loo mntu nento ayithandayo.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ezandleni zakho - ubuchule bomntu. Yaye ukusuka ekusebenziseni ngobuchule ulwazi kule ndawo kuxhomekeka ukuba uza kukuthanda kaninzi kangakanani. Ukuqulunqwa kwamabhinqa eesini zesini kuchaphazela inyama. Zama ukungondli umntu wakho ngokutya okungenani iintsuku ezimbalwa - kwaye ngokukhawuleza u-sneknet. Kodwa kukho zonke iintlobo ze-aphrodisiacs (ubusi, iisuthi, kunye nokunye okungaphezulu - zithengise kwaye ufunde incwadi yokutya ezinikezelwe kuyo), ngoncedo lwabo unokufikelela kwimiphumo emangalisayo. Qaphela, kwaye akuyi kuba nzima ukuba umqhube!
Yehla othandweni - ngoko ukumkanikazi
Kuqala nje ukukhangela kubonakala ukuba izidalwa zindoda ziyimpumelelo, kwaye zifuna kuphela ngesondo. Kodwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ulala njani embhedeni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unomdla onjani owenzayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi into ebangela ukuba uyenze apho, awunalutho, ukuba unobungcali, uya kutshatyalaliswa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo emehlweni omntu.
Andifuni ukuthetha ukuba kusasa uvuka ebhedeni, kufuneka ubeke iimpahla ze-monastic, kwaye inqaku elincamisayo kufuneka litsalwe ebusweni bakho. Yonke into ilula kakhulu apha. Yiba ngowesifazana kunye neentlovu emehlweni endoda, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukukholisa, kwaye ungaboni ukuba ngabahlobo bakhe. Okhethiweyo wakho kufuneka aqiniseke ukuba wonke umntu uyakudumisa, kodwa nguwe kuphela. Kunomdla ngakumbi kuye ukuba akubone kuwe injazana (xa ungekho yedwa), kodwa ngexesha elifanayo khumbula into okhululwa ngayo naye ngobusuku bokugqibela. Oku, uyazi, kuyonwaba kakhulu. Ngokwemvelo, ukuba ungacingi malunga nokuqhubeka kobudlelwane naye, ngoko unokuthatha uluma kwi-make-up, kunye neengubo zakho ezingenanto. Kodwa, njengomthetho, amadoda awakuboni abafazi abanjalo njengabahlobo bobubomi.
Yintoni enye engafanelanga umfanekiso wesinenekazi? Okokuqala, yonke into engafanelekanga yembonakalo: umbala womntu ongeyonto, ukubhoboza, ukuzenzela, ukuzenzela, ukucoca, kunye neengubo ezingenakulungiselekayo, ukugubungela phantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi, ingxube enkulu ye-silicone. Ewe, omncinci umfazi uyazikhukhumeza. Ukuba unesiqinisekiso sokuba konke oku kulungile, thabatha umdla ekuphumuleni kwimbono yendoda yakho, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuvuma nawe.
Kwaye, ke, ukuziphatha kwakho. Unokufungela embhedeni (amanye amadoda awakhuphayo), kodwa ungazami ukufumana oku kuluntu. Yiba nenhlonipho kunye nobungane kunye nabahlobo bakhe, kwaye ngakumbi kunye nonina (nantoni na into ebonakala ngayo kuwe) - kholwani mna, iya kuhlawula ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye unokuyiqhuba ngokulula. Umfazi onxilisayo akayi kubona ngenxa yeentliziyo eziphazamisayo. Ukukhulula okhethiweyo wakho kule nto, ukuba ngaba kunjalo, inenekazi.
Uthikazi wesini
Kule ntsimi, sonke sizicingela njengengcali. Kwaye nokuba upheka kakubi, kwaye iimpawu zakho zishiya into enqwenelekayo, ngocansi ungcono. Nangona kunjalo, akudingeki ukuba uzikhukhumeze. Emva kwakho konke, nokuba ufunde lonke i-Kama Sutra, oku akuthethi ukuba loo mntu akayi kuphuma kuwe. Ayezona nje zilula njengoko zibonakala, kwaye ubugcisa bobulili kubo akuyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, uyazi oku ngaphandle kwethu. Sifuna nje ukukukhumbuza oko amadoda axabisa kwiibhedi, kumaqabane abo ezesondo.
Bafuna ukulala ngesantya kunye kunye namaxesha athile. Musa ukuzikhupha (xa kungekho mfuneko nakanjani). Bafuna ibhinqa lingabi lihlazo ngumzimba wakhe. Naluphi na amabele akho kunye nomfundisi wakho, ungenzi le ngxaki (phambi kwendoda). Amadoda athanda abesifazana abathanda imizimba yabo kwaye banethemba lokungazinzi. Musa ukuzidlalela ngento yokukhohlisa ukuba, ukufihla phantsi kweengubo, ufihla kuye iingxaki zabo. Uvele esazi konke malunga nawe. Yaye uyakuthanda ngendlela oyiyo, kuba esalala nawe.
Bafuna ukuba ube yindalo kunye nenhle. Ilinen ecocekileyo engenakho ukuphawula. Simele sitsho ukuthi "hayi" kunye neendlovu, kunye neepjama kunye nobusuku! Kodwa akukho konke. Izinwele eziboyiweyo zivunyelwe kwi-theatre okanye kwi-ofisi, kodwa zicaphukisa ebhedeni, njengokuba ziqhumisa, zigugu kunye neyakhe. Amadoda alondolozekile. Bathanda ukusikeka. Kakade ke, oku akuthethi ukuba unako ukuwunqanda ukukhutshwa kweenwele (apho akudingeki) kunye nococeko. Bafuna ukuba ibhinqa lingabi namkhethe - oku kunako "ukuphuka inqaba yakhe" kwaye imqhube. Ukuba ugxininisa rhoqo xa elala nawe kwindawo yezithunywa zevangeli, ngoko kusasa ngolunye usuku angamfumani. Zama ukuqalisa ukwenza into akunika yona, uze wenze isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukuqhuba njalo.
Sebenzisa ezi ngcebiso, kwaye uya kufunda indlela onokuziphatha ngayo ngesondo emehlweni omntu. Amadoda afuna ukuziva ethandekayo kwaye engatshatanga. Ngako oko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ulala njani embhedeni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yindoda engumfazi onjani, awuyiyo inkosikazi efanelekileyo, ukuba ucinga ukuba uyamthanda, kungekhona yakhe, kodwa imoto yakhe, indawo yokuhlala kunye ne-akhawunti yebhanki, zonke iitalente zakho aziyi kukunceda. amaqhinga. Ngaphandle koko, akayiyatha. Ukwazi ezi mfihlelo, unokukwazi ukumqhubelela.