Impumelelo
Ngaphambi kokuba bacinge ngoonyana, kubalulekile ukuba bobabini abazali bafumane imfundo. Oku kuya kuba lula ngakumbi kunabantwana. Kwakhona, phambi kokufika komntwana, umama kufuneka afunde amalungelo, ukukwazi ukuqhuba imoto kunceda kakhulu.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ebomini bethu bwanamhlanje ukuba babe nokuzinzileyo izinto eziphathekayo. Ubukho bendlu, imoto nemali kuququzelela ubukho bethu. Kodwa emva kokuzalwa komntwana, umama uya kufuneka ashiye umsebenzi ixesha elide. Ukukhulisa nokunyamekela umntwana kuthatha ixesha elide kakhulu, nangona emva kokuba uqale ukuya kwi-kindergarten. Ngako oko kunzima ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nabantwana. Kule meko, ininzi yemisebenzi yabo iya kuguqulwa kumntwana okanye ugogo. Abantwana baziziva bebuhlungu, abanalo uthando lomama nothando. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukwakha umsebenzi wakho njengomntwana. Nangona kungekho bantwana, unokuzizama kwiindawo ezahlukileyo, ekukhangekeni okufanelekileyo. Ekutshintsheni kwendawo yokusebenza okanye nokuba ngumsebenzi womntu ongeyikrakra, ngelixa ujongene nawe kuphela.
Umntu kufuneka enze umsebenzi ophumelelayo ngaphambi komzuzwana wokuzaliswa. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba yonke imbopheleleko yokuphila kakuhle kwintsapho iya kulala kuphela kumagxa. Ukukhuliswa komntwana kudinga imali eninzi kakhulu. Ngexesha lokubonakala komntwana, intloko yentsapho kufuneka ibe nomsebenzi ozinzileyo kunye nomvuzo ophantsi. Kubalulekile ukuzama le nto kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuzama yonke into.
Jabulela ukuphumla okusebenzayo kunye nokukhazimulayo
Iintsapho ezininzi, kuquka nabantwana abancinci, ziya kumazwe ahlukeneyo. Kodwa ngokubanzi, iihotele ezizolileyo zikhethiweyo, ubuncinane ubunobomi bobusuku. Kubaluleke ngakumbi ukubaluleka kwidama labantwana kunye nemenyu ekhethekileyo. Ngoko ke, nangona kungekho bantwana, kuyafaneleka ukuqhuba iindwendwe ezininzi ngaphandle kokuthintela kunye nokuthintelwa. Ukuba kukho imali eyaneleyo, ukhetho olulungileyo luhambo olujikelezayo lwehlabathi.
Abantwana abayithandi ngokupheleleyo ukutyelela iindawo zaseYurophu. Ukuqwalaselwa kwezikhumbuzo, iifriji zezobugcisa okanye ii-castle akukho konke okukholisayo. Bakhawuleza bakhathala kwaye baneengxaki ezininzi. Ngako oko, de kube umntwana ebonakala, kufuneka sizame ukutyelela ngokuzimela eParis, ePrague okanye naseVenice. Iimbulelo ezimnandi kunye ezinomdla ziza kugcina ubomi.
Yenza imeko enzima
Ukuxhomekeka kubantwana, abaninzi abantu banokubaluleka ngakumbi kwaye banomsebenzi. Bayeka ukwenza izinto ezingenangqiqo, ezinesibindi nezentliziyo. Abazali bazama ukucinga ngaphambi kwesinyathelo ngasinye. Oku kunjalo ngokukodwa kubasetyhini abanesimo esiqinileyo somama. Nquma kwisenzo esiyingozi emva kokubonakala komntwana kuya kuba nzima kakhulu. Kuya kuba soloko ukwesaba ukushiya umntwana wakho oyigugu njengenkedama.
Ngako oko, phambi kokufika komntwana, kulungele ukuzama ukuxhuma ngeparachute okanye ukukhwela kwi-coaster eyingozi kakhulu kwihlabathi. Ukuba kuwe akufanelekanga kwaye ukhulu kakhulu, ngoko unokwazi ukuya kwiblabhu yomgca okanye ukutyelela ulwandle olungenanto. Ngezinye iinkqubo, ngamanyathelo angalindelekanga maxa wambi angenziwa.
Jabulela uluntu ngobumnandi bakho
U-Umam akanalo iiveki neeeholide, uhlala exakeke ngento ethile. Kuya kuba nzima ukufumana iiyure ezimbalwa ukufunda iincwadi ezithakazelisayo okanye ukhangele i-movie ekhangayo. Ngoko ke, ngelixa intsapho ingenabantwana, kulungele ukunyamekela ngokukhululekileyo ubomi bokukhulula kunye nethuba lokuzimela ngokuzimela ixesha labo. Unokubukela uboniso bakho obuthandayo ubusuku bonke, uze ulale ngaphambi kokutya. Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, uya kulala ngesikhombisa kusihlwa ukuze uvuke kwaye ujabulele ukusa. Kukulungele ukuhamba malunga nomzi ebusuku okanye ukushiya iphela ngeveki ukusuka kwibhedi. Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana avele, umama uyazimela ngokuzimeleyo ukuba angasebenzisa njani ixesha lokuphumla kwakhe, ngoko oku kungaphupha kuphela.
Uninzi lwabasetyhini, kunye nokufika kwabantwana, baqala ukuchitha ixesha elincinci kubo kunye neengaphandle zabo. Akuyena wonke umntu unethuba lokuchitha iindleko ezinkulu kwiingubo, ukuzakhela kunye neendandatho zokuthanda. Ngoko ke, nangona kungekho ncinane, kufuneka ufune ukuhlala ubutsha bakho nobuhle bakho. Ungazikhanyeli uthengise izinto zefashini kunye nezinto eziphathekayo. Sifanele sihanjelwe kwiivenkile kunye neentloni zobuhle kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kuphela umfazi ongenabantwana unako ukunciphisa yonke imivuzo esitolo kwinye imini. Ungasebenzisa iinkonzo zomfaki-zithombe ochwepheshayo kwaye wenze izithombe eziphezulu, mhlawumbi necebo elingenanto.
Ngokukodwa kubalulekile ukuba usebenze kulo mfanekiso kunye nempilo. Oku kuya kunceda ngexesha elizayo. Kubalulekile ukufunda ukuba kungekhona kuphela impilo, kodwa nokufumana uvuyo kunye novuyo ebomini. Oku kunokukunceda nge-yoga okanye uqeqesho olukhethekileyo. Ubomi obuhle ebomini bubaluleke kakhulu.
Ukuzalisa zonke iiminqweno namaphupha
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, umfazi uqala ukufumana uvuyo ekubonakaleni kwezinyo zokuqala okanye igama lokuqala. Okuthandayo ngaphambi kokudibana nabahlobo okanye ukudansa i-dutra kunokucaphukisa kwaye kungabikho uvuyo. Zonke izifiso kunye namaphupha zinokutshintsha. Ngako oko, musa ukuwayeka emva koko.
Jabulela isiqingatha sakho sesibini
Emva kokuvela komntwana, izibini ezininzi zithi kukho ixesha elincinci eliseleyo kubundlelwane babo. Unqabile kakhulu unokwenza uthando okanye usebenzise isidlo sothando kuphela.
Kubalulekile ukwenza umtshato omhle nonokukhunjulwayo, ophelela ngohambo lomtshato. Kuliphi na ithuba, kuyafaneleka ukuba ushiye amabini ukuphumla nokubandakanya othandweni. Kubalulekile ukuba uzame ukuba nesidlo kunye kunye, emva koko konke kwenzeka kwintsana kuya kwenziwa nzima.
Abanye abazali abavumelani ncamango nembono yokuba ubomi emva kokuvela kwabantwana kuyahluke kakhulu. Kuxhomekeke kuphela kumntu ngokwakhe, umlingiswa wakhe kunye nomoya. Ukuba kukho umntwana omnye kuphela kwintsapho, ngoko kukho izinto ezininzi kuya kuba nexesha. Uncedo lwalamane lunokunceda abazali abancinci ukuba bangenzi utshintsho olukhulu ebomini babo.