Ukuba umntwana wakho uya esikolweni, emva koko xa ebuyela ekhaya, ubeka yonke imizwa kunina okanye ugogo nomkhulu, okanye ubagcina ngaphakathi, okuchaphazela isimo sakhe sengqondo kakubi. Ukuba umntwana usenenkampanini kunye nonogogo iintsuku ekupheleni, kunzima nakakhulu ukuba anike amava kunye neemvakalelo zakhe.
Nika kwicandelo elithile lezemidlalo - eli sisisombululo esona siphumo esiphezulu sokuba uncede umntwana wakho. Oku kuya kunceda ukuzinzisa isimo sengqondo somntwana, ngaphezu koko, ukuhamba rhoqo komsebenzi womzimba okwexeshana kukhokelela ekuphuhliseni okufanelekileyo. Ukuze uqeqeshe umntwana ukuba aqeqeshe, ukuqinisa ukukhuseleka, ukufundisa ukufezekisa injongo, iimidlalo zifanelekile.
Ithuba elifanelekileyo lokuthabatha umntwana wakho kwiqela lemidlalo lineminyaka emithathu ubudala, kwaye kuyacetyiswa ukuba uqale ekwindla okanye entwasahlobo. Ngeli xesha, umntwana ujwayele ukungaqhelekanga kubantu abangaqhelekanga, indawo kunye nomhlobo omtsha womsebenzi. Ukuba sele usuqumile ukuthabatha umntwana kumgca wezemidlalo - omkhulu! Akusikho nto: ukufumana icandelo elungileyo, utitshala owaziyo ukuvuselela umdla kumidlalo, ubeke ishedyuli, fumana umfaniswano uze ubambe umntwana kwisifundo sokuqala.
Luhlobo luni lwemidlalo onokuyenza? Iziphakamiso ezimbalwa kubazali kwizemidlalo kuba ngumthombo wemvakalelo emihle kumntwana wakho nakuwe.
Isinyathelo sokuqala kukukhetha umdlalo oza kuba nomdla kumntwana wakho. Okokuqala, qwa lasela indawo yokuhlala yehholo lezemidlalo, likhetheka ukuba lifumaneka kumgama wokuhamba, okanye imizuzu engama-2-3 yokuhamba ngezothutho, ukwenzela ukuba loo ndlela ingakhathazeki umntwana. Musa ukulibala xa ukhetha umdlalo ukuba uqwalasele iimfuno kunye nokukhethwa komntwana wakho. Kwimeko apho umntwana wakho efuna ukudansa, akufanele ubenike kwicandelo lobugcisa be-kartial, ngoko unokumnciphisa umntwana ukuba enze into ethile, kwaye ubonise ukuba umnqweno wakhe awuthetha nto kuwe. Ukuba umntwana akaniki ukukhetha okucacileyo, khangela umntwana wakho.
Umntwana wakho unokubandakanyeka kwimidlalo yeqela, njengebhola lebhola, i-volleyball, i-hockey, ukuba umbukele unamahloni. Amaqela omdaniso aya kufana nomntwana, othetha kakuhle neontanga zakhe, uthanda ukubonisa izakhono zakhe kunye nolonwabo unomdla kwabanye. Ukuba umntwana uvame ukubonisa ubugwenxa, imidlalo yamanzi iya kuncwina kwaye iyanciphisa ukukhathazeka ngokomzwelo. Umntwana onobuqili othanda ukulala emlonyeni wexesha elide, kuya kuba luncedo ukwenza ubugcisa bokulwa. Musa ukulibala malunga nempilo yomntwana xa ukhetha icandelo lezemidlalo.
Utitshala udlala indima enkulu ekuphuhliseni umntwana, isinyathelo esilandelayo siya kuba kukhethwa kwentloko. Okokuqala, jonga utitshala kwisenzo ngokwakho okanye ngomntwana, ukuba uyakuthanda bobabini ukusuka kwiintlanganiso zokuqala, ngoko unako ukunika umntwana wakho ukukhupha lo mntu. Ukuba kukho ukungathandabuzeki, ngoko kufuneka ujonge ezinye iinkokheli zezemidlalo. Khangela enye indawo yeklasini, ukuba awuvumelekanga ukuba uye kwiiklasi kuzo zonke.
Yenza umgangatho wecala xa ugqibelele kumfundisi kunye nemidlalo. Kuhleli ukulungiselela ishedyuli. Kucetyiswa ukuba usebenze kathathu ngeveki, ukuphuka phakathi kweeseshoni kufuneka kube yiintsuku ezingama-1-2. Xa ukhetha ifom yezemidlalo, qwabela ingubo - kufuneka yenziwe ngezinto eziphathekayo, kunye nokulula kwaye kulula. Kwaye, ngaphezu koko, ukwenza umntwana adlale imidlalo ngokuzonwabisa, kufuneka uvuselele iimvakalelo ezintle. Ibali elingazisebenzisa izakhono ezifumanekayo kwixesha elizayo kuya kuba luncedo, ukuba zonke izalamane zivuyiswa kakhulu ukuba inkunzi iya kuhanjelwa kwicandelo lemidlalo. Kubalulekile ukuvuyela kwimpumelelo yakhe kunye nokunceda ukulahla ukungaphumeleli. Umntwana uya kuba nemidlalo ngokuzonwabisa, xa uya kuziva uxhaswa ngabazali beenxa zonke.
Siyathemba ukuba iingcebiso zethu ziya kuba luncedo kuwe nangabantwana bakho!