Akunakwenzeka ukunika isiluleko esifanelekileyo malunga nokukhethwa kwesipho esiya kuhambelana nomfana wakho, kuba izinto zokuthanda abantu zihlukileyo kwaye azikwazi ukuqatshelwa ngaphandle kokwazi umntu, kunzima.
Oko akufanele kunikwe, kubalulekile ukukhumbula
Okokuqala, ukuba uqale ukuphandana kwaye ufuna ngokwenene ukukholisa intombazana, musa ukuchitha imali. Musa ukuthenga izipho ezibizayo, nje ukumangaliswa okuncinane nokuthobekileyo, kuba ngumhla wokuzalwa okanye i-Christmas present. Kodwa musa ukulibala malunga nokuthandwa komntu othandekayo, iqhosha eliqhelekileyo le-sock alimangalisi.
Okwesibini, musa ukwenza iziphiwo ngezipho, ezifana nokuqoshwa ngendlela yentliziyo yabathandana nothando okanye ukunika isithombe sakho esibambene kwisakhelo esininzi. Isipho esinjalo sinomotheka umntu, ngakumbi xa uhlala kunye nje. Emva koko, wonk 'ubani uyazi ukuba abaninzi abameli besondo esomeleleyo bayesaba ulwalamano olunzulu.
Okwesithathu, xa wenza isipho, ungalindeli ngokubuyisela. Yilungu lakho lokunika isipho, ngoko umthandi wakho akudingeki anike nantoni na kuloo mzuzu. Yaye ukuba wakwenza umangaliso, kodwa kungekhona owakulindele, akudingeki ukuba ubonise ingqondo yakho. Umntu oyi-Smart uya kuqonda ukuba abazange bayithokoze ngelinye ixesha ukubonisa into ebaluleke kakhulu.
Ngoku kufuneka senze isigqibo sokuba yini enye into?
Xa ukhetha isipho kumntu omthandayo kufuneka uhlale kwintleko yakhe, izinto ezithandwayo kunye nomlingiswa. Ngokomzekelo, umgijimi akayi kuthanda ukumangaliswa ngesimo sempawu ezithile zekhompyutha, yena, ngokuchaseneyo, uya kufumana isipho esiza kubonisa iimpawu zakhe zezemidlalo.
Ukuba umfana wakho usebenza okanye usebenza kwishishini, ngoko ke xa ukhetha isipho, akubalulekanga, ukuba ube ngumhla wokuzalwa okanye unyaka omtsha, ukhethe izinto zezoshishino kuye. ukubaluleka kwayo.
Abafana abathanda imidlalo, unokwenza i-T-shirt yezemidlalo, izitya okanye i-baseball cap. Abathandi beendlela bangenza isipho sokuqala ngendlela yesigxobo esasiphakamileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, kugxininisa kuphela kwiminqweno yomntu othandekayo, umlingani ufanelekile ukuba uqikelele.Abantu abanomdla okonwabileyo banokumangalisa ngokuhlekisa, umzekelo, i-lighter yasekuqaleni ngendlela yencwadi okanye ibhastile. Amadoda angamaxabiso adinga izipho aze anikezele.
Ngoku sekuyisikhathi sokwenza izipho ngezandla zakho. Unokwenza iposikhadi elihle kunye nefayili efafaziwe. Ngamantombazana asebenza ngokubamba, unako ukubopha umfana osemfakamfudumfudumele okanye iiglavu - umthandi uya kuxabisa isipho esinjalo, kuba wenza ngezandla zakho.
Ukunika ngokufanelekileyo umthandayo isipho, kufuneka uqwalasele izinto ezithile:
- ukuba isiqingatha sesibini asiyithandi imimangaliso, kufuneka umxwayise kwangaphambili ukuba ulindele into ekhethekileyo namhlanje. Emva kokuqonda ingqiqo yakho, uya kukwazi ukuwuthabatha isipho kuwe ukuze ngethuba lokutshatyalaliswa kuye, uyaziva engakhululekile kwaye unokufumana into ekubonayo kuwe ngokubuyisela;
- ukuba umthandi wakho uthanda nje izinto ezimangalisayo, uze umnikeze izipho ngokungalindelekanga, ngaphambi kokuba isenzo sibe njengesiqhelo. Kule meko, uya kumangaliswa ngqalelo yakho kwaye wenze isimangalo esingalindelekanga kuwe ngokuzayo.
Into ephambili eningayi kukulibala xa ukhetha isipho, okanye kwintetho yakhe, ukuba yenziwa ngayo yonke intliziyo. Ngoko unike izipho, zifumane kwaye ujabule.