Yintoni eyenzekayo xa umfazi etshaya ngexesha lokukhulelwa


Nangona izibheno zamazinyo, izazi ze-cardiologists, i-therapists kunye nabafazi, abaninzi abantu bayaqhubeka bebanjwe inyoka eluhlaza. Ukubhema kunobungozi kakhulu kubaomama abalindeleyo. Yiyiphi imvakalelo onayo xa ubona umfazi okhulelweyo otshaya igqabi? Ngaba uyazi iziphumo? Ngokuphathelele oko kuza kwenzeka ukuba umfazi utshaya ngexesha lokukhulelwa, uza kufunda kwinqaku lethu.

Ngaloo nto inobungozi ukutshaya, ngamnye wethu uyazi ngokuqhelekileyo ukusuka kwi-diapers: sixelelwa ngengozi yecuba ngabazali, izilumkiso ezimangalisa kwiipakethi, iincwadi zezifundo kwi-biology esikolweni. Siyicinga ukuba ayimfuneko ngoku ngokuphinda ubhale zonke iifomsi zokutshaya, kodwa ungathanda ukukuxelela ngecala "langaphandle" le nhlekelele, oko kukuthi, umfazi otshaya.

1. Ukutshaya kuyisidenge.

Kungekude kudlulileyo, isikhulu esizimeleyo saseMoscow senza uphando phakathi kwamadoda. Iziphumo zatshitshise, kubonakala, konke, kuba uninzi wenza isigwebo esingekho emthethweni kumfazi otshaya. Ukutshaya kuyisidenge. Bawakhumbula umfanekiso oqhelekileyo kubo bonke intlungu: umfazi otshaya kwindawo yokuyeka okanye esebenza kwakhe. Phakathi kweempendulo zendoda eziqhelekileyo esizibonileyo: ukungakhathaleli, ukwehla kumsebenzi wesini somzimba, ukungabikho komzimba.

2. Ukubhema kuhamba kunye nenkohlakalo emlonyeni. Songeza ukuba iphunga emlonyeni wendoda kunye nomfazi unokwakhiwa kweekhemikhali ezahlukeneyo. Abambalwa bethu bacinga ukuba kutheni inkulumo eyaziwayo yaseRashiya "phakathi kokumanga intombazana kunye ne-ashtray ayikho impahluko ebonakalayo" kwiingcamango zowesifazane ocolileyo, kungekhona wesini. Njengoko uyakubona, iifolthi ayikho ubutyebi bantwini nje kuphela, kodwa nayo iyimithombo yobulumko.

3. Ukubhema kungamazinyo ezingahambi kakuhle. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubeka njani umlenze womlomo, i-nicotine iya kusenza umsebenzi wayo ongcolileyo: i-eam yakho yezinyo iya kuhluma. Oku kuthetha ukuba unyaka wonke uya kuncwina ngaphantsi nangaphantsi. Kwaye kwakhona, bonke oothixo ngokuchasene nabasetyhini: izazinzulu ziye zaqinisekisa ukuba ababhemayo abafazi baqothula amaxesha amathathu ngokukhawuleza kunamadoda!

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Ngokukodwa oku kusebenza kumama obalindele! Masichaze ngokufutshane imeko namhlanje. Intombazana ifumanisa ukuba ikhulelwe, kwaye kwimiba engama-8 kwimizuzu engama-10 iyayeka ukutshaya. Kodwa ngaba okwaneleyo? Intombazana encinci yayingafaneleki ukutshaya ubuncinane ubuncinane inyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokukhulelwa komntwana. Kwaye kubonakala ngathi kukho inyanga okanye unyaka kunye nesiqingatha sele sele "i-podymila" kwaye yabangela umonakalo wezempilo kumntwana ozayo.

Kwaye ukuba umfazi akayeki ukutshaya? Yintoni umntwana onempilo esinokuthetha ngayo. Masiqwalasele ukuba ukutshaya kunokuchaphazela kakhulu ukuzalwa komntwana. Ngamanye amazwi, akuyinyani ukuba ibhinqa linokuzala umntwana. Abantu ababhemayo emngciphekweni wokulahleka kwezinto eziphambeneyo, sele singathethi malunga neengxaki ezinokwenzeka emva kokuphazamiseka komzimba! Ukuba uthe wazala? Ngezifo ezingapheliyo, ukukhawuleza, ukuthukuthela, ukuyeka emva kwentlalo. Yaye xa isifuba sisondliwa, nayo, ayiyi kuyeka? Ngaba intombi enjalo okanye unyana wayenokukubulela kumama? Kwaye ngoko simangalisa ukuba lo mntwana wethu unobungozi kakhulu kwimathematika ukuba uyisombulula ingxaki kwaye, ngokuqhelekileyo, unobuthathaka! Ngoxa utshaya ugwayi, umama onokuqonda uyaziqonda ukuba uyazilimaza yena kunye nosana lwakhe, kodwa kuphela ukuyeka umkhuba ongekho amandla aneleyo.

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