Into ebalulekileyo ukuyikhumbula kukuba uthando aluyinto elula. Akuyena wonke umntu onokuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba ufumana iqabane lakhe (umlingane) ngaphezu kokukhangela ngesondo okanye ukuthanda. Kwakhona, akuqhelekanga ukuba abathandi bebini abathandekayo bahlule kwicala elifanayo kwaye emva kwexesha bafumane uthando lwabo kuphela. Akunabo bonke abantu abanokuvavanya iimvakalelo zabo kunye nokuqonda - lo luhlobo okanye uthando. Kule meko, ibhinqa linokumnceda, kunye nokuqonda kwakhe nokuqonda.
Ukutshintsha iimpawu eziphambili ezibonisa ukuba umntu uyabathanda.
Okokuqala, thobela ingqalelo yendoda yakhe
Ukuba umntu omnye uyamthanda omnye, uya kuhlala engakhange ajonge ubuso bakhe obathandayo okanye othandekayo. Emva kwakho konke, njengokuba uyazi, indoda ithanda amehlo akhe. Ukuba indoda ibheka umfazi wayo ngendlela efanayo, njengesihlalo, unokwenza isigqibo esisodwa kuphela, kule miba yobudlelwane uthando aluyombuzo.
Okwesibini indlela yakhe kunye neetoni athetha ngayo
Khumbula, indoda ethandwayo ayikwazi ukuthetha kunye naye ngokucaphukisa okanye ukunyaniseka. Nangona engavumelani ukuba uthetha, uya kuphazamisa, engafuni ukuxabana ngenxa yodaka. Kulungile ngoko uthetha ngezinto zonke ngokuzinzileyo, uze ungayifaki imeko.
Okwesithathu - iimfuno zakho
Umbuzo awukho nokuba iminqweno yendoda nomfazi ihambelana njani, ukungafani kwezinye izinto akubalulekanga, kuba bonke abantu bahluke. Uninzi unomdla kwiminqweno yentombazana esondele. Emva koko, ukuba akayithandanga, ukuba ufuna ukubukela le filimu, ukuba uchithe iveki yakho kuphela engaziwayo, okanye nje ngabantu ababiyo, le nto ayisona sibonakaliso esihle. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba akanamdla, okanye akanakhathaleli oko umfazi wakhe akuthandayo kwaye akunjalo.
Okwesine indlela ekunyamekeleni ngayo isiqingatha sayo
Yintoni esinokuyithetha apha? Ukuba umntu ucinga nje ngomgangatho wakhe kunye nentuthuzelo, kwaye uyayigatya ngokupheleleyo indlela uthando lwakhe lomlingane ngayo kula mabudlelwane aluvumba! Indoda ethandwayo ayikwazi ukucinga ngesimo sengqondo somfazi wayo, malunga nokuba unesimo sengqondo esibi, kwaye kuthini ukuthatha xa sele engayiva kakuhle.
Okwesibini - iingxaki zomntu okanye enye imeko enzima
Ebomi ziimeko ezahlukeneyo ezingafaniyo. Umntu osondeleyo ugula, kufuneka ngokukhawuleza ukuba ashiye ixesha elithile, njl. Ukuba umntu uyamthanda umfazi, uya kushiya yonke ibhizinisi lakhe, kwaye akayi ku-bar ukuba abukele omnye umdlalo weqela lakhe ozithandayo kunye nabahlobo, endaweni yokuhamba nomntu othandekayo, umzekelo umngcwabo kumntu osondelene naye.
Eyesithandathu - Ubudlelwane kunye ne-Isex
Ukuvalelana ubudlelwane akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kwesondo - kuyinyaniso. Kwaye indlela abalingani beziphatha ngayo ngexesha lesondo, banokuthi bathe. Ukuba umntu ngexesha lokulala naye akacingeli nje ngokwaneliseka kwakhe, kodwa nokunyamekela oko ukuze iqabane lakhe lihle kwaye likhululekile - lo luphawu!
Ngomhla wesibhozo - wasekhaya
Ukuba umntu ukholelwa ukuba ibhinqa kufuneka ihlambe, isinyithi, isondlo kwaye igcine indlu yayo ihlambulukile, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ivakalelwa njani, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba unalo lonke ixesha, uyazi ukuba ukuzingca kwakhe akupheleli nje yonke imingcele, unokucinga kuphela malunga naye. Indoda onothando ayiyikucekisa ukutshisa uthuli, okanye ukufudumala isidlo sayo, ukuba uyaphuma kunye nengxelo yonyaka, okanye ulala neqondo lokushisa elingama-40.
Isicelo sesithandathu
Ukuba umntu ubeka isigxininiso kwinkcitho yemali yakhe, ukuba ifuna i-akhawunti epheleleyo yokuthenga kunye nokuhlola, yodwa ingqondo engumfazi onokuqhelana nayo ingakwazi ukuqonda uthando kulo mbudlelwane. Imeko yezemali kwiibini ezihlukeneyo, kwaye ingqiqo kunye nokubambisana ngokukhethekileyo, ukugcinwa kuvumelekile, kodwa ukuba kuthatha umlinge wokutshutshisa ukulila i-alamu.
Zonke ezi zinto zikhankanyiweyo akuyiyo inyaniso eqinisekisayo ukuba ulwalamano oluhle, kuba nothando aluhlali luhlala luhlala njalo.Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ubudlelwane babo rhoqo, nawaphi na amanqanaba okuphuhliswa kwabo, badinga ingqwalasela eninzi kunye nomzamo kwizinto zombini!