Kutheni ukukhangela isiqingatha sesibini injongo yobomi bethu bonke? Indlela yokufumana uthando lobomi? Khangela okanye uhlale kwaye ulinde? Khangela, ukhangela ubuso bomntu wonke kwaye ubuze ukuba uyisiphelo sam - siyisithakazelo. Akazi ukuba uyisifo sakho okanye umfazi oza kwiintlanganiso zakho. Kwakhona akazi ukuba ungubani, ngubani na umphumo wakhe.
Ndiyathanda umzekeliso omnye wesiGrike malunga nokuba abantu babengenjalo ngoku. Kwaye zineengalo ezine, imilenze emine, ubuso obini kunye nemiqondiso yesini, okokuthi, kwakukho umfazi kunye nendoda, badibana, babenye. Ngako oko, bebanamandla, kwaye behlala behlala banobuchule. Bayazivelisa.
Oku akuzange kumkholise oothixo, kwaye uZeus wagqiba ekubeni awanqamle. Ngombane owodwa, wahlula izidalwa ezinjengabantu kwaye wahlakazeka emhlabeni. Kwaye ngoku simele sijikeleze ngaphaya komhlaba size sijonge ezinye iinqunithi zethu, sihlasele singabangamaziyo. Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva isiqingatha sesibini siya kuqinisekiswa , kodwa endleleni eya kwesi siqingatha sinokuva intlungu, intukuthelo, zingaphi iinyembezi esizichazayo, zingaphi na eziphosakeleyo, sicinga ngesiqingatha somnye umntu, apha! Uyingxenye yam. Kwaye, yena uvela, uyamkhangela, iqabane lakhe, kwaye, ukukhubeka phezu kwakho, kwakuphosakeleyo, nje kuphela. Kwaye wenza iphutha, intlungu ihlaba intliziyo yakho, intliziyo yakho iphuka kwiindawo zokuhlala kwaye ikhefu njengefomini encinci.
Wonke umntu uzalwa aze akhule ukuze athole umphefumlo wakhe umlingane aze azinike bonke ubomi bakhe obuxabisekileyo kule njongo, ajikeleze emhlabeni aze afune umphefumlo wakhe. Ngomntu ngamnye, eli njongo ithatha indawo ethile ebomini. Kuye umntu oyintloko, kunye nomntu oyisibini. Nangona umntu ephika yonke into, kwaye uthi konke oku kungenangqondo, usenethemba elisezantsi lokuphefumula umphefumlo wakhe ukufumana uthando lobomi bonke ngokumangalisayo. Kulo lonke ubomi bethu sifuna, sizulazula ekufuneni okungaziwayo, njengokuba ku-fantasy story "ndifumene oko, andiyazi, ndizise oko, andazi."
Yaye uyazi njani ukuba nguye ofunekayo? Uyazi njani ukuba esinye isiqingatha safunyanwa? Mhlawumbi kunele ukufumana umntu onokudibanisa nobomi kunye nezibophelelo zesitampu kwipasipoti yakho kwaye uzale abantwana, qalisa iinkukhu uze utshale iinqotyi? Mhlawumbi esi siqingatha sikulungele ukukhangela ubomi. Kodwa emva koko, abantu bayatshata kwaye baqhawule umtshato, ukuba kungekhona neenyanga ezimbalwa, kodwa kwiminyaka embalwa. Bathetha amazwi esifungo, ukuba ndiza kusondela ngentlungu, kwaye ngovuyo, de kube sekufeni ukufa. Ewe, ewe, ezi zizwi nje ezazingcwele, kodwa ngoku zingamazwi nje, yinto.
Indoda inikela ngesandla nangentliziyo yakhe, kwaye emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa uyishiya omnye umfazi, okanye uhamba ngaphandle kokuchazela nantoni na, uthatha zombini kwaye uthatha intliziyo yakho. Okanye ibhinqa eligcina indlu, libalekela kumyeni wayo, okanye liye lishiye, lisithi liyakhathele konke, liphukile intliziyo kunye nazo zonke iiplati endlini. Unokukhatheka njani nomntu oyikhethile? Emva koko, uthe: "Ewe, ndiyavuma." Akukho mntu wakuphoqa. Kwaye ngaphambi komtshato, awuzange uhlangane naloo mini, kungekhona ezimbini. Abantu ngaphambi komtshato badibana iminyaka, baqala ukuhlala kunye, sele bezanazana ngakumbi kunabo. Ngoko kutheni isifungo kunye nesitampu kwiipaspoti ziphuka ubudlelwane obude?
Kungenzeka ukuba akukho mitshato engaphumeleli. Ukushiya intsapho esasifuna bhetele kunokuba sinakho. Emva koko, umntu uyacwangciswa kangangokuthi akahlali esoloko anakho, kwaye umzekeliso othi "ukunyuka kwe-fraera" kuye kwaphazamiseka. Kwaye sele ulahlekile sele ulila, kodwa uya kubuya, ukuzingca akuvumeli. Ukuziqhayisa kuyindlela ehloniphekileyo yokuzihlonela, kwaye sithatha inyathelo ngokuchasazela phantsi kwesidima sethu. Unamandla kunomxholo wokuzithemba kuthi, ukuphakama kwempumlo yethu ephakamileyo, kwaye ngaphezu koko asiyikubona okwenzeka ngaphantsi kwempumlo yethu. Kwaye ngaphantsi kwempumlo yethu ingxande yesibini emadolweni akhe kunye neentyatyambo ze-roses kunye neenyembezi emehlweni akhe ufuna ukubuyela, kodwa asiyikubona. I-injabulo ego ivala amehlo ethu, kwaye siyeka ukubona oko kwaye siqala ukubona okuchaseneyo. Ngenxa yaloo mvakalelo, bonke ubudlelwane bahlukana, kwaye asivumeli ukuba sibuyele into endiyithandayo, kwaye ngenxa yoko siyakholelwa ukuba senze ukhetho olubi ukuba lo mntu akayiyo yonke injongo yobomi bethu bonke. Elinye igama, elinye ibinzana lingalimaza ikratshi lethu, kwaye isikhalazo esinokubangela ukuzithemba singonakalisa yonke into esiyisebenzise ngayo kwaye siyigcine.
Kwaye ukuba, nokuba uqaphela ukuba zonke izikhalazo zilibalekile, umntu akufanele acinge ukuba akukho ndlela yendlela. Umzila usoloko ukhona, kunye nokuhamba phambili. Emva kwakho konke, xa uhamba kwisitrato kwindlela, ujikelezo olusemva kwakho aluyikukhupha kwaye aluyi kutshabalalisa. Unokujika nanini na ixesha kwaye ubuyele emuva. Abantu abancinci, bethintela baze bathuthuzele ngokwabo, beza ngeli binzana: "akukho ndlela yokubuya". Indlela isoloko ikhona, kwaye ngasemva nangaphandle kwaye ikhohlo kunye nekunene kunye neqela elipheleleyo lendlela ofuna ukuyikhetha ngayo kuphela. Ebomini, indlela isoloko ikhona, kufuneka nje ufunde indlela yokujika xa ufuna.
Kwaye ke, xa ubuya, unokuphinda ufumane isiqingatha sesibini, owashiya ngokutsha okanye esidlulileyo. Kufuneka sifunde indlela yokuthetha nokuva igama elithi "xolela" kwakhona. Ukuhlangabezana - ngaba le mfihlelo yobudlelwane obuhle?