Kwaye maxa wambi kubonakala ngathi akukho nto inokuyilungisela oku, kwaye ukuba akukho namandla okwaneleyo nesibindi. Into ephambili yokwenza kwaye uzame! Ukunyaniseka, kulula ukulungiselela usuku lomtshato, wonke umntu unokukwazi ukujamelana nalo msebenzi. Kwaye ke, indlela yokulungisa umhla omhle wokuthandana? Makhe sijonge kwiimpawu ezikhoyo.
Ukuba uchithe ixesha elide ucinga malunga nendlela yokulungiselela intlanganiso yokuthandana nayo yonke into. Akukho zizathu ezibalulekileyo eziye zavela. Kuyafaneleka ukusebenzisa amava omnye umntu. Imizekelo yokutyelela ngothando oya kufumana kuyo yonke indawo - kumaphepha eencwadi, kumabali obaziyo, ekubukeni kweefilimu.
Musa ukukopisha yonke into ngokuchanekileyo, ngokwezinto ozibonayo kwi-movie okanye ufunde kwincwadi. Ukubukeka kweemifanekiso kwi-movie kusekelwe ekubuyiselweni. Ngesizathu esithile kubonakala kum ukuba awuyi kunika iqabane lakho okanye umhlobo ukuba ufunde iskripthi somhla wokuthandana. Thatha "isikhali" nje ngcamango, kwaye ukuhamba kwayo kukushiya intuition kunye neminqweno.
Akudingeki ucinge ngoluphi uvakalelo owenzayo, luyinto engonwabanga nje. Kufuneka ucinge malunga nobani owaqalisa le nyathelo. Uninzi mhlawumbi, nakuba uncinane, kodwa sele sele unalo ixesha lokufunda malunga nezinto ezikhethiweyo zonyulo lwakho. Yintoni endiyithandayo, uthini ukuba uyithandana nomntu ongathandanga naye.
Ukuba uyayazi kakuhle kwaye uzimisele ukudibana "ngaphandle kwamanye amazwe", ungabeki umngcipheko wokumisa ukhetho lwakho kwinguqulelo engqalileyo yomhla wokuqala. Kwi-banal "iintyatyambo - ivenkile" nazo aziyeki. Injongo yakho kukufumana ingqwalasela, kwaye ungabonakali njengenye yezihlwele ongenakukwazi ukuzibala.
Indlela yokulungiselela umhla omhle wokuthandana . I zi mbululo.
Usuku lomtshato - into ebusondeleyo, kungekhona kubaphulaphuli, yinto entle kwaye iyamnandi. Bambalwa abantu bacinga ukuba uthando luyingozi. Ngako oko, kufuneka ukhethe umhla ozolileyo, ongathathi hlangothi, ngekhandlela kwindawo ebumnyama obumnandi kunye nomculo othulileyo.
Indawo ekufuneka ibe ngumhla wokuqala kufuneka kubekho ukuthembela kunye nokudibanisa - le njongo yakho. Kufanelekile ukukhetha i-cafe yasemanzini kunye nomoya ococekileyo kunye ubuncinci beendwendwe.
Iiklabhu kunye needosksi njengendawo yosuku kufuneka zibonise izinto ezidlulileyo, ezingabalulekanga.
Iqonga lezemidlalo lingafika ukuba uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukusebenza kwakho uthenge amathikithi okubhenela kuzo zombini.
Iimangalelo
Utshaba lwazo zonke iintlanganiso luyakhathazeka kwaye lube ludumo. Nangona uququzelele isidlo sesidlo ngokukhanya kwesikhanyiso, ngoko ubuncinane akufanele ubeke isisitya kwi "emsebenzini" ukuncoma. Zizenzele zona. Kwakhona kunokuba luncedo kakhulu ukuza kunye nokumangalisa into enhle, kungcono akukho nto enkulu, kodwa incinci encinane kwaye ingenacala.
Ukuba iqabane elihlala lihlala linokuthi linike into enendleko ngokuhlela umhla, ngoko umntu ongaziwayo oku akuyi ku fa neleka. Njengezipho-iziganeko, iziqhamo ezingavamile, imithandazo encinci, iincwadi okanye iiCD ezinemifanekiso emihle okanye umculo onokuyenza-apha into ephambili ayiyikulahleka.
Ukuba unesiqinisekiso ngamakhono akho, funda umlingane ngokwakho imibhalo ebhaliweyo, ubonise umdwebo othile, kwaye ungcono umfanekiso owubhala ebusweni bakhe. Imisebenzi engenazo ingxaki, into ephambili kukuba uqiniseke ukuba unokuyenza. Kodwa yonke into idinga umlinganiselo. Ukudideka akudingeki wena kunye neqabane lakho, ngoko uhlabelele ii-serenades phantsi kweefestile akufanelekanga.