Ukuqonda kwamhlanje inkululeko yothando-ngaphandle kweentlobo zeengcamango "zabantwana beentyantyambo": isondo sokuqala ngaphandle kwezibophelelo. Futhi ngaphandle kokuthandana ngokomoya, oluyintando. Oomama nootata kumbuzo othi, "nani, ndawonye?" Ukwenza amehlo awonayo kwaye uthi: "Ewe nje ngobulili, akukho nto." Bafihla baze bafihlile iimvakalelo ngoku, ngenxa yabo kunokuba neentloni, kodwa ukukhangeka ngokwenyama - kakuhle, yintoni, ucinga ukuba, ufana nokutya. Ngokubonakala kwimoya, kunye nabo kunye nethemba lokubuya kweemvakalelo kwifom. :)
Ulapha.
Yintoni na? Kwiimeko 'zothando olulodwa lwangaphandle-uthando,' abaqalisi bavame ukuba ngabafana, kwaye amantombazana abelwe indima yokulinda ngokuthobeka iPenelope. Kukho amaninzi ama-pretexts: umzekelo, "Ndiyindoda yokudala." Musa ukucaphukisa, kuba ivesi entsha, iya kubonisa kuphela wena!
Kutheni ufuna yona. Unogam omntu ongenalutho ungangqineka nje ngobudlelwane "obukhanyayo" bohlobo kunye namaqhawe angama-serials ukuze ahlasele. Ndingathini? Kufuneka ukwazi ukuphulaphula kunye neminqweno yakho. Nangona oku akulula, kunjalo. Enye into ukuba uvumelane ngokukhawuleza "Ewe, masiziphathe ngokukhululekile, ngendlela, ndiyithande le ntombazana ixesha elide." Nonke ngokucacileyo ningabuthandani, kodwa ubuhlobo. Okanye mhlawumbi awulungele ukuvuma ukuba bobabini baye baqhawula kwaye bengasathandani?
Yaye ukuba uthatha ithuba? Gcina ulwalamano kunye nokufudumala, ukuba isibini sakho sisesimo sokuthandana kwamahhala, kunzima kakhulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhululiwe unqatshelwe ubandlululo, wena kunye nentombazana yakho kungekhona ngamazwi, ukwazi ukuba yonke iminihlwa umlomo wakhe uyamanga enye intombazana, kwaye, mhlawumbi, uyathanda ukumanga ngaphezu kwakho.
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekileyo kwisiza