Kanye kunye nezithembiso zothando olungunaphakade kunye nokunyaniseka, ngamnye umfazi uya kuthatha uxanduva kunye nezibophelelo, eziya kuthotyelwa ngokuzeleyo ngoku, kungenjalo akukhoxolo okanye ukuvumelanisa kwintsapho.
Oku kusebenza nakwimisebenzi yasendlwini ngamnye womtshato. Indlela yokwabela iimbopheleleko kwintsapho, ngelixa uyenza yonke into ngexesha nangelungileyo, oko kuya kuba bubuhlungu buhlungu ngenxa yeminyaka engapheliyo.
Kungekudala, bhetele.
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba indlela yentsapho yokuqhuba indlu kwintsapho nganye iyahluke. Ukudalwa kwintsapho entsha kuthetha ukudala umyalelo omtsha oza kusekelwe kwiimpawu zokuziphatha kwabazali, ngokuqwalasela iimfuno zecala. Emva kwakho konke, uya kuvuma, kuvela ngokungathembekiyo, xa umntu onobubele kunye nemvakalelo efanelekileyo enakekela yonke into, kwaye okwesibini kuphela kufuneka amkele iziqhamo zomsebenzi wakhe. Emva koko, ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva iqela elisebenzayo liya kufuna ukuba kubuyiselwe imali, kodwa ayiyi kuhambelana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, indima yomqeshwa ohloniphekileyo ithathwa ngabasetyhini. Ukulungele ngenxa yintanda ethandekayo ukuba ithwale nayiphi na umthwalo phezu kwakhe, de kube ngoko, amandla anele kunye nomonde.
Ngoko ke, ukusabalalisa imisebenzi kunye nokubeka umyalelo wokuziphatha kwekhaya. Emva koko, ubomi buyingxenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bethu. Ngaphandle koko, othembekileyo uya kuthunyelwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba "mna", kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akayiqondi izizathu zokubandezela kwakho ngale nto.
"Ibhinqa kufuneka" kunye "nendoda endlu."
Kwangexesha elide yonke imisebenzi yomsebenzi iye yahlulwa ibe yindoda kunye nesetyhini. Olu lwahlulo kunye nomsebenzi wezoqoqosho kunye nomsebenzi wabasetyhini abadlulileyo. Ngokusekelwe kwixesha elide lookhokho, unako ukuhlangabezana nabo banenene ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kukho iimbopheleleko zebhinqa, kwaye indoda ayifumananga kunye nabo. Kakade, imfundo idlala indima enkulu apha, kodwa ilungiselelo elifanelekileyo lezinto eziphambili ngokukhawuleza emva kokuba umtshato, okanye phambi kwawo, uncede ukusombulula le ngxaki kwingcambu. Ngokuqhelekileyo le ngcamango iyabonakala kubantu abazibona bodwa kwindlalifa yesondlo kunye nenkosi endlwini, xa kulungiswa umsebenzi wokwakha. Nangona kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ukufumaneka kwenani elikhulu leenkonzo ezihlukahlukeneyo, kukhula ubuvila kule ndawo. Kodwa ibhinqa kufuneka lihlale limele kwaye limele. Ngelo xesha, into yokuba ngaphambili kwakukho umfazi ongenalo ilungelo lokusebenza elityalwe ngokupheleleyo, ngoko ke wayehlala ehlala ekhaya. Abasetyhini banamhlanje banamalungelo alinganayo namadoda, baphumelele kwishishini, kwaye kwintsapho yabo banokufuna ukuba bahanjise imisebenzi, benze umsebenzi wesikolo ovela kumadoda. Ngokukodwa ukuba banomsebenzi ofanayo kunye nomsebenzi ongekho omkhulu kumanqanaba emisebenzi.
Oomama abathandekayo, ngaphambi kokuba ubuze, into ethile evela kumyeni wayo imele ithathelwe ingqalelo, kunye nokuba yonke into yokuphila kwakho okuthembekileyo inokholo, kwaye ingabi nolwazi malunga nobunzima bemihla ngemihla kunye nokukhathalela, njengoko beyenzelwe ngempumelelo ngabazali bakhe . Ngoko ke, phambi kokunikezelwa kweembopheleleko kwintsapho, kwisibini sokuqala sinomonde nokunyamezela. Yaye ungamangaliswa ukuba isicelo sakho sokuqala siwuthathe udoti, okanye uhlambe izitya ukudibana nokudidanisa ngokwenene, kwaye ukuba kuyenziwe, ngoko kunjalo, ukuba kwakucingelwa kuphela. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ukuba unako ukumelana nexesha elibizwa ngokuthi "ukulungelelaniswa", umyeni uya kufakwa kwiimbopheleleko zakhe, kwaye akayi kubonakala enzima kwaye uza kungena kwingcamango yesiqhelo kunye nemigangatho.
Isicelo kunye nesikhumbuzo.
Izibini ezitshatileyo kufuneka ziqwalasele enye into yokuba isicelo sakho sesikhathi esisodwa, malunga nento ethile, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo ukuphunyezwa kwayo, asiyi kuba kwisiqingatha sakho sesibini ngokukhawuleza rhoqo. Oko kuthetha ukuba ukuba ufuna, umzekelo, ukuba umyeni uthatha izicathulo zakhe esitokisini esinezihlangu kwaye engashiyi iinyawo zakhe kwikorridi, ungalindelanga ukuba emva kokuqala ukuthetha, izicathulo ziya kuhlala zimi . Isicelo sakho sokuqala sokuthotyelwa komyalelo othile kufuneka sixhaswe zizikhumbuzo ezihlala zikhulile, kuphela kule meko unokufezekisa umphumo oyifunayo. Into ephambili ayiguquleli izikhumbuzo kwizinga lokuba ziya kubangela umsindo nentukuzelo.
Zama ukusabalalisa yonke into ngokulinganayo, kwaye ulungiselele yonke into ngendlela nganye yesibini esitshatileyo iza kwenza zonke iintlobo zomsebenzi wesikolo oya kuthi ziqhelekileyo. Kule meko kuphela uya kukwazi ukuhlolisisa umsebenzi weqabane lakho kunye nombuzo othi ngubani na xa "usebenza ngokugqithiseleyo" akuyi kuba nzima.
Xa ugqiba indlela yokuhambisa yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya kwintsapho, unokuqwalasela ukukhetha kwakho. Kukho abantu abafumana ukuzonwabisa okanye ukucaphuka ngokukrakra xa wenza oku okanye uhlobo lo msebenzi. Ngoko ke, ukuba bobabini bomtshato bavumelana, imisebenzi ethile inokwahlukana ngokwezinto ezikhethiweyo, ukuzaliseka njengoko besithi kwizizathu zokuzithandela.
UkuPhakanyiswa.
Nayiphi na umsebenzi kufuneka ivuzwe. Akukho nto kunye nokusebenza kwemisebenzi yasekhaya. Ngenxa yoko, akukho imfuneko ukuthumela uluhlu lwamaxabiso kwisiqhamo, kunye nokuhlawula umvuzo (okwenene, oku kuyindlela enomdla), okwaneleyo, nje ukubulela uncedo, okanye umsebenzi owenziwe, ukudumisa ukuba umphumo womsebenzi uphumelele, kwaye ufumane indumiso - kwimeko apho akuyiyo yonke into eyenziwa kakuhle. Ukwamkelwa kwakho kunye nokunyaniseka kwezenzo zesiqingatha sakho sesibini kuya kuba yinto engcono yokuphindaphinda. Emva koko, siyavuya kakhulu ukuzisa abantu esibathandayo kwaye sibone ukumemeza kwabo, ukuba ndifuna ukukwenza ngokuthe rhoqo.
Ngaloo ndlela, sinokugqiba ukuba into ephambili ekuhanjisweni kweembopheleleko zentsapho kukuhlonipha, ukunyamezela nokunyamezela. Kwakhona, isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kunye nobuchule asiyi kuphazamisa. Ndikholelwe, ukunyamekela okufutshane kwaye uya kuphumelela. Uthando, hlonelelane, kwaye nilungele ukunceda, kuba ukunceda umntu othandayo kukubonakalisa ukunyaniseka nokunzulu kweemvakalelo zakho.