Iyiphi indlela yokuphila enempilo?

Ngokukhawuleza, phezulu ... Reluctance!
Ingqondo Ndiyayiqonda ukuba kufuneka uhlawule ngakumbi, kodwa umzimba nomphefumlo uyawuxhathisa.
I-alamu ibuhlungu kakhulu: sele isithoba, ingaba baninzi abangalala! Kwaye andinakukwazi ukufumana ingcambu emilenzeni ... Ngokutsho kwam ukuziva, kukho ubusuku obunzulu egcekeni. Ezinye iiyure ezimbalwa zokungahambi kakuhle! Ewe, ke, ukuba andisebenzanga ezisibhozo, zininzi. Kodwa akusindisi. Andifuni ukuhamba!
Into engalindelekanga: Ndiyakhumbula indlela yokuphila ndikhokele esikolweni esiphakeme nakwiziko. Khumbulani ubuncinane ukuba uNyaka omtsha onobuqhophololo kunyaka wokuqala, xa ndingazange ndilale ubusuku obumqolo kumnye: omnye wabhala isicatshulwa, okwesibini ndafunda amathikithi ama-100, kuze kube sekuseni- "imidanso yasendle" kwi-disco ... kwaye yonke imihla iinyawo! Okanye ngomnyaka wesihlanu ... Emva komcimbi wokutshitshiswa, ndichitha usuku kwikhompyutheni, ukwenza umsebenzi wexesha elikhawulezayo. Emva koko, ngoko ke ndafumanisa ngamandla ubuhlobo kunye nesoka lakhe, ukuba sasibalekela ukuba sihluke ... Kwaye, sifinyelele, sifumane isimo sothando esishisayo.
Ngexesha elifanayo yonke le minyaka ndiyidla, ndicinga, iipaye kuphela, "zithathwa" kwiitrakthi zesitalato. Indlela yokuphila engafanelekanga, utsho? Kodwa ndaziva ndikhulu! Azikho izilonda, akukho zintlanzi, ezonwabileyo kunye nokuvuya. Mhlawumbi, umzimba omncinci uphathelene nantoni na iimeko ...
Ukususela ngoko, ndikhulile kwaye ndiqaphele ... ndicinga. Kodwa ke ndiyayiguqa intloko yam emlanjeni, ndinyuka kwindawo yokuhlambela - kwaye ... Ekuseni, ilizwe! Ziziphi iingqondo zengqondo zicebisa malunga neendawo ezifanelekileyo zomhla? Ukumamatheka kuwe? Hayi, ukumamatheka akuyi kutyumla, kwaye ukubonakalisa kwisibuko akuphefumlelanga nonke. Kwaye i-muzzle iyamkhathaza. Kwaye kwinqeni elincinci. Kwaye ukukhathala kuqala ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ithoni ngokubanzi ayikho phezulu. Isiphelo sibonisa: kufuneka unakekele impilo yakho.

Amava aphumelele
Ndizama ... Akunjalo! Naluphi na ukusebenza ngokomzimba, ukuba luhlobo luni ... Umele uzinyanzele ngaphandle kwintonga. Kwaye ixesha elide andinayo. Malunga nonyaka nesiqingatha esedlulileyo, intombi yam yandiqhelisa kwi-gym. "Ndawonye kunye novuyo, kwaye sihamba nesilingo esincinane!" Ukuhamba - ngombono wokuxoxwa kwendlela kunye nekamelo lokuprinta - kwakunjalo, kwaye kuyinyani, kungeyonto engathandekiyo. Kodwa kwi simulator umxhesho wahamba waya kwindawo ethile ... Ekugqibeleni, ndadonsa umsizi - kwaye ndivale kumgqirha wezemidlalo: "Mntanami othandekayo, kutheni uthathe umgaqo wakho ngensimbi yentsimbi?" Ngovuyo "wabamba" amagama akhe kunye nentliziyo ephihlileyo walibale indlela eya ehholo.
Emva koko waziva entloni ngesimo sakhe esibi waza wanquma ukwenza i-yoga. Kwakubonakala ngathi iyangifaneleka kangcono: ukunyakaza kuyaqaphela, ungaziveki njengebhobhothi yeewashi, ukugcoba izitho ezingenangqondo. Wayeyidonsa kwiiklasi zendoda yakhe ... Yaye yahamba nayo. Yaye umyeni wam uyaqhubeka efunda!
Yaye umbhoxo wam uqokelela uthuli e-hall - andinakuziphoqa ukuba ndihlale esitrateni esincinci ukuze "amandla aqale ukunyuka kwi-chakras".
Ndazama, kwaye ndoba, ndiza. Nendawo apho ndiphosakele khona. Edameni, iphunga le-bleach, ukuya kwinqanaba lide. Kodwa into ephambili - ayifuni ukuyenza! Ufuna ntoni na? - Khawubuze ngokucokisekileyo umhlobo kunye nomhlobo, xa ndikhalaza ngekhondom yam engeyiyo imidlalo. Musa ukuzithuthuma, kodwa ukubuyela kwi-sofa encwadini yakho oyithandayo - yiyiphi into! Ewe, ndandiva: "Ngoko rhoqo ngokuzikhandla ngokomzimba - okokuqala kunzima, kodwa ke indlela yokubandakanyeka, kusenjalo!", Kodwa ... andiyikukhangeka. Awuyivuyo! Ndaya e yoga iinyanga ezintandathu. Kwaye ndivuya kukuba ndishiye. Enyanisweni, ukubonakalisa kwisibuko kusenakucaciswa ngakumbi.

Umzekelo ophilileyo
Ndacinga ukuba: unako ukuyeka iinzame zobuqhawe kwaye uphile ngaphandle kwemfundo? Akunabo bonke abadlali bezemidlalo-kwaye ngandlela-thile baphila kwaye baninzi baphilile ... Kodwa kungekudala umzekelo ombi uvele phambi kwam amehlo. Thina kunye ne-darl shenxisa ukulala kwindoda enye. Ndacinga ukuba lo mhlaba wayeyindoda endala. Ngomgangatho wesithathu, i-Inna Petrovna iphakamisa isiqingatha semini, kunzima ukuba aye esitolo ngokwakhe ... Kwaye kwathiwa akanalo 60! Indlela yokuphila engapheliyo "yefa" ithinta ...
Ndandicinga ngcembe kwaye ndacinga: emva kwakho konke, njengoko ungafuni ukuqala ukuba "ngamatye asendulo" kwiminyaka elishumi!