Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyikhumbule kukuba le holide ininzi kuwe, abazali, kwaye kungekhona kwintsana. Enyanisweni, umntu wakhe kufuneka acingwe ngqalelo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo ukuqonda - ukuhlanganisana komsindo, iinkampani ezinobungane kunye neeholide "ezipholileyo" kumaziko abantwana abantwana abanomnyaka ongenamdla.
Ucinga ntoni ngoko? Qinisekisa ukudala umoya wento ethile yemilingo neyolisayo - makumvumele umntwana avele ebuntwaneni bakhe, ukuzalwa kudibene neeholide. Vuka kusasa uze uxhomeke kwiibhaluni zeeflethi, izigulane kunye neefowuni ezihlekisayo. Vumela umntwana ngalolu suku abuyele kwimimiselo aze aphangwe ngaphezulu kweqhelekileyo. Khetha umculo - kulungile ukuba iyintandokazi yazo zonke iingoma ezivela kwiikhathuni. Kodwa ngelo xesha, qiniseka ukuba inqanaba lomsindo alidluli emngceleni othile - ukuba umntwana, ezama ukukwabelana nawe iimvakalelo zakhe, uya kukhwaza - unokuba neentlonelo kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Ukuba kunokwenzeka, kumangaliswa ukuvuswa. Inomdla othulileyo, kwaye xa kukho intandokazi, umculo, amathoyizi athandwayo ebhedeni - njengokungathi uza kuvuyisana, zihobise isikhalazo (oku kuphela oku kufuneka uyenze kwangaphambili - nangobusuku). Zama ukuhlala ecaleni kwaye ubukele umzuzu xa umntwana evula amehlo akhe - isipho esona sikhulu kunazo zonke ukuba uqalise imini kunye nokumamatheka noomama.
Makuvumeleke ukuba umsunguli wezazisi azimele. Mnike ilungelo lokukhetha ingubo. Ewe, unako ukubeka izinto ezimbalwa ezikhethileyo kuwe, kodwa ukuba umntwana akayithandi nantoni na - ungayinqandeli kukhetho. Ukuba umgwebi wembhiyozo ufuna ukuthatha inxaxheba ebalulekileyo kumalungiselelo - mnike imisebenzi elula, ngoko uya kugxininisa ukuba sele sele ekhulile ngokwaneleyo kwaye le yeholide yakhe.
Ukumboza itafile, khumbula ukunamathela kwimimiselo emibini-enempilo kwaye enhle. Ukutya kufanele kube nempilo kunye nempilo, ukuba ufuna isobho okanye into ethile, zama ukubeka izitya ngaphandle kwendawo yokufikelela komntwana. Ukulungiswa kweemali kunye nezitya eziphambili kuya kunceda imifuno encinane kwaye eqhelekileyo, isetyenziswe ngendlela engokomfanekiso. Ngoku kwi-intanethi unokufumana iindlela zokupheka ezithandekayo - i-salads ngendlela yokuqhuma kweentaba, iifatata ezihlambulukileyo kunye nomzimba ngendlela yelwandle kunye neenqanawa ze-pirate, i-sandwiches ngesimo sezilwanyana, izityalo kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Imemori ephawulekayo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo umhlobiso wegumbi - iipowusta kunye namaphephandaba edonga. Enye yeengcamango ezinomdla kakhulu ezihamba phambili phakathi kwabazali - umthi wofuzo lomntwana wosuku lokuzalwa - ngokwayo isipho esinye. Kukho isebe ngalinye kukho isihlobo kunye nomfanekiso. Kwiminyaka emininzi kamva, ukukhupha le poster ukusuka kumacangca eyimfihlo, umntwana wakho uyavuya yaye unokumangaliswa kukufunda.
Inkumbulo, kulungile ukuba wenze iintendelezo kunye neenyawo zentombazana encinci. Oku kungenziwa ngokuqhagamshelana neenkampani ezikhethekileyo, kwaye ngokuthenga isethi "yenza oko ngokwakho" kwaye uzimele ngokuzimeleyo zonke izinto.
Abazali abaninzi bembesa abantwana ngo-year nalyso, kukholelwa ukuba oku kuncedisa ekukhuleni kweenwele ezisebenzayo nakakhulu. Yaye ukuba unayo intombazana, kwaye iineengqungquthela ezimnandi, nangonyaka? Emva koko unokwenza ngokucokisekileyo uqoke umgca omnye uze uyifihle kwimemori ekhethekileyo yememori.
Isipho esihle kakhulu sinokuba ngumlando wonyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Ngowuphi umzekelo umzali ngamnye ukuba azenzele isigqibo. Ingcaciso elula yile albhamu "Ndizalelwe / ndazalwa" kwaye "Unyaka wokuqala". Basivumela ukuba sibhale ngokucacileyo zonke iinguqu ezibalulekileyo, ngokutsho kwabahleli, kunye nosana. Ukukhula, ubunzima, xa kubonakala okokuqala kwaye onke amazinyo aphuma, amagama okuqala, azama ukuvuka nokuhamba. Konke oku kuhamba kunye neefestile zezithombe kunye nemigca yokuchaza. Ngandlela-thile, abazali bethu benza okufanayo, kodwa ke kwakungekho i-albhamu ekhethekileyo kwaye babhala konke oku ngokwabo kwincwadi kunye neencwadi.
Izipho kufuneka zikhethwe ngokucophelela, kukulungele ukucebisa iindwendwe ezihlangabezana neemfuno neemfuno zomntwana kule minyaka. Kungaba njengezinto ezilula zokuzonwabisa - izihlalo zamasondo, iinqwelo, iimathoyizi ezithambileyo. Ngoko ke kuphuhlisa imidlalo - umculo wombhoxo, abaqulunqi, ii cubes, iincwadi kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Xa ukamema iindwendwe, khetha abo bantu baqhelana nosana, abesoloko ebona, kwaye akayi kuyika. Inani labadala libhetele kangcono-abantu abahlanu okanye abathathu baninzi okwaneleyo ukudala umoya weeholide engavamile.
Ukucinga malunga nendlela yokulungiselela usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana oneminyaka elilodwa, zama ukuyenza iholide ibe ngumthendeleko oqhelekileyo kunye neendwendwe zikhumbula umsunguli wokubhiyozela. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ufikelele ukhuphiswano kunye nezabelo. IJaji, kunjalo, kufuneka ukhethe inkwenkwe yokuzalwa. Kunokwenzeka ukwenza umjikelezo wemincintiswano ngokuqaphela izinto ezikhethiweyo - ukuba uyathanda ukutya, yintoni omele uyenze, ithoyizi yakhe eyintandokazi, igama lakhe elithandayo kunye nokunye, umsunguli wokubhiyozela. Ngokwemvelo ngeempendulo, kuba akukho mntu owaziyo ubutyebi bakho, ekubeni wena. Ukhuphiswano lomdwebo obalaseleyo, mawuthathe inxaxheba kwaye uthathe ukubandakanyeka kokubandakanyeka kwayo ngokuzonwabisa ngokubanzi.
Kuxhomekeke kwixesha, ungalungiselela iziganeko ezincinci kwisitalato. Ebusika - unokwenza umlilo, ubeke umlilo kwii-Bengal izibane uze ufefe inyoka, kunye nemidlalo yangaphandle ekhephu iya kunceda umntwana ukuba aphumule kwindlu engqongileyo. Ehlotyeni kuhle kakhulu ukukhulula izibane ezikhethekileyo okanye iibhaluni eziqhelekileyo emoyeni.
Ngethuba leeholide, ngokukhawuleza uvumele i-carapuse iphumle kwisihlwele - uye naye kwelinye igumbi-ngoko uya kubelana nawe, oye waqokelela ngokubonakalayo ngokuthe ngcembe, kwaye akayi kukhululeka. Ngoko ukuba akayi kuhlwaywa okanye akhuphe ngexesha elifanayo, unokumbiza ngokuba ngumxhelo wokukunceda ngento ethile.
Umzuzu wokufotowa ubaluleke kakhulu. Sonke sifuna ukuthatha imini ebalulekileyo ebomini kubantwana bethu, kodwa yintoni enokuyenza xa inkwenkwe ingafuni ukuthatha imifanekiso ize ibaleke, ingazange ibone ikhamera. Kwimeko enjalo, zama ukuthatha imifanekiso engabonakaliyo xa into emele ithathwe. Ungazami ukwenza isicwangciso esikhulu kakhulu okanye ukufuna ukumomotheka. Kungcono ukuvumela iifoto zivuyiswe kunye ne-panoramic kunokuba zonakalise umntwana ngomthendeleko ongekho.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni ndiya kuthi - into ebaluleke kakhulu yindlela engayisebenzisi ngayo le mini, yintoni ophekayo, oza kuza - into ebalulekileyo kukuba namhlanje kuya kulonwaba, ujabule kwaye ujabule ngomntwana wakho nakuwe. Yaye indlela oyenzayo ngayo ayiyi kuba nantoni na.