Inani elongeziweyo lokuthunyelwa ngokukhawuleza alinakunxibelelaniswa kakhulu kunye neenkqubo ezithile zokucwangcisa ubomi kwentsapho njengempembelelo yeyeza kwinkalo yokuvelisa, okwavumela abafazi abaye baphathwa ixesha elide ukuba babe nolonwabo lwabo lonina. Kwaye ngoku, ukukhulelwa kwexesha elide, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngummangaliso okwakulindeleke kwiminyaka emininzi.
Ingxaki
Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, abasetyhini kwiminyaka emashumi mane baba yi-hypochondriacal, hypochondriac, bahlala bebeka isohlwayo ngenxa yokuba banempilo engafanelekanga. Musa ukuyeka umkhwa wokuhlala phantsi kolawulo lwezonyango olungapheliyo.
Isisombululo
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yengane nomama ukuzola kunye nemizwa emihle. Ngenxa yoko, xa umfazi ekhulelwe eneminyaka engamashumi amane, umntu kufuneka aqale ukulwa noxolongo, ehamba esesikweni somntu ohlala ebuza imibuzo kwiqela labantu abenza into ethile. Oko akumele ukothuswe: "Kutheni ndixelelwe ukuba ndilale kwakhona, ndibeke iinyawo zam emlanjeni, mhlawumbi yonke into imbi kakhulu?", Kodwa ukuthetha: "Kuya kuthatha iiveki ezimbini ukulala, kuba kuya kuba ngcono".
Kubalulekile ukutshintsha yonke imithwalo yemfanelo yempilweni kwimpilo yamagxa oogqirha, ngokulandela ngokucacileyo imimiselo, emva koko, lo msebenzi wabo! Akumangalisi ngempilo yakho kwaye ubuze okungakumbi, ngenxa yokungaqiniseki kunye nemfihlakalo oogqirha abanqwenela ukuyeka kuyo, kwandisa kuphela ukukhathazeka.
Uzelwe umntwana
Ingxaki
Uthando lukaMama nokukhulelwa komfazi kumashumi mane mhlawumbi luqine kakhulu. Ekugqibeleni kwakukho umntwana wam! Nanku ingozi enkulu enkulu yokukhulelwa kowesifazane kwiminyaka emashumi mane kunye nosana: umntwana, okwenene, kodwa, kungekhona impahla, kungekhona into yakhe! Umfazi othanda umntwana wakhe, owamvumela yonke into ehlabathini, elindele zonke iiminqweno, ukutshabalalisa izithintelo endleleni, ingozi yokukhulisa umntwana omdala, ongaswelekanga, umntu oxhomekeke kuye.
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Unina onjalo, ephupha umntwana obonwabileyo kwihlabathi, ukususela kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi bakhe kufuneka afunde ukuhlula iminqweno yakhe kwiminqweno yomntwana, funda iimpawu azinikayo, kwaye ahloniphe izicelo zakhe, nokuba usemini, iveki, inyanga ubudala.
Ingxaki
Xa ukhulelwe umfazi kwiminyaka engamashumi amane unqabile ukuphawula yonke indawo-umyeni, abahlobo, uphosa izinto zokuzilibazisa zangaphambili. Uqhuba umngcipheko wokuziva engenangxaki okanye nokuba yedwa.
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Utata oshiya intsapho akayi kwenza umntwana onwabe ngakumbi. Umama-hen akayi kuba ngumthombo woqhayisa ngomntwana okhulile. Kuyimfuneko ukuphoqa ukuba "uphule" ukusuka kwintsana.
Ingxaki
Abafazi abadala babeka ingozi "bathandana" nabantwana babo, kwintengo yempilo yabo.
Isisombululo
Ibhinqa ifuna ukufumana umncedisi ongeke nje athathe umthwalo oyimfuneko wokunyamekela umntwana, kodwa uya kuba yintlanzi emele endleleni yokuthanda kwakho konke. Umntwana kufuneka aqaphele ukuba, ngaphandle kwakhe kunye nonina, kukho abanye. Ngako oko ke unokukhula akonwabile. Yaye le nto ibaluleke kakhulu.
Icebiso
Nika umntwana ikhefu ... evela kuwe! I-paradoxical njengoko itywina, nokuba umntwana uswele isidingo sokuba yedwa. Xa eguquka kuwe, musa ukuhamba ngekotya ngaphesheya uze uqhubeke "udibanisa." Umntwana nje ufuna ukuphumla! Ukunyamekela umntwana akuyi kukuvumela ukuba uphoswe.