Ndibeke izinto eziphambili, kwaye andizange ndibonise indlela engama-20 ukuya kwiminyaka engama-30 edlulileyo ekukhangela ukhetho olufanelekileyo kunye nezikhundla zeengcinga. Ngoku izinto zam eziphambili ngundoqo zentsapho, abantwana kunye nobuchule. Kule minyaka, umntu uqala ukuqonda ukuba ubomi bufutshane. Andiyazi ukuba ndiphi na inxalenye ebomini bam, kodwa ndifuna ukuhlala njengento enobuncwane kwaye icebile ngokusemandleni.
Ubomi bakho bomntu siqu kunye nobuchule - uchungechunge lwezingozi okanye ukulungiswa kwangaphambili?
Ukusuka kumava emendo ogqityiweyo, ndaqonda ukuba zonke izingozi zaziyimfuneko kwaye zendalo. Ndiqinisekile ukuba akukho zengozi ebomini babantu. Ukuba andizange ndiqale ndicule ndize ndiqalise ukudlala igitare, andizange ndibe kwi-studio ye-Mosfilm, andizange ndifumane indima yam yokuqala, kwaye ngenxa yoko andingeke ndibe ngumboniso we-movie kunye nomdlalo wezemidlalo. Ngokuphathelele ubomi bomntu, le yindlela yokufumana amava: iimpazamo, ukuwa, ukuphakama.
Bambalwa abantu abazi malunga nomtshato wakho wokuqala ...
Ngomfazi wakhe wokuqala, uMarina wahlangana emngceleni wesikolo sezemidlalo. Shchepkin, apho bafunda khona, kodwa ubudlelwane bethu abuzange busebenze. Akunjalo ngenxa yokuba wangcatsha, kodwa sahluke kakhulu kuye. Asikwazi ukuhlala kunye nonke! Kodwa eli liva landinceda kakhulu kwixesha elizayo. Ngoku ndiyaqonda: kulungile ukuba siphila kunye kwaye siphila iminyaka emininzi. Enye into yokuba siye sahlushwa ngayo yonke le minyaka ... Xa sahlukana, kwaba lula kubo bobabili: ufumene isiqingatha, kwaye ndiyakhe. Yonke into iyaziwa ngokuthelekiswa: ngaphandle kokwazi uhlangothi olubi, awukwazi ukuziva ugcwele uvuyo, uvuyo novuyo.
Isiqalo sokuqhekeka kobudlelwane nomfazi wokuqala kwakuyizuko emva kwefilimu "AbakwaMidshipmen, phambili!" Okanye ezinye izizathu?
Umfazi wakhe washiya ebudeni bexesha eliphakamileyo, iinyanga ezi-2-3 phambi kokuqaphela jikelele. Ngokukhawuleza xa saluqhawula ubudlelwane, ndafumana inkululeko yentliziyo yangaphakathi nangaphandle, ukuthobela kwam ukuphumelela. Ukungabikho kwenkululeko kwakungandithinte ukuba ndibe yedwa. Zonke zihambelana ngendlela emangalisayo! Uyazi, isiqingatha sesibini sinceda okanye siyathintela. Kwakunomntu ongenamnceda, kwaye ngaloo ndlela waphazamiseka. Ngenxa yoko, emva kokuqhawula umtshato, uzuko kunye nempumelelo yawela phezu kwam, ndaqala ukukhula ngokukhawuleza emsebenzini, ndatshintsha ngaphandle, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ndayeka ukusela. Nangona ukuba andingamthandi, kwaye sasingumthwalo komnye nomnye, ukuhlukana kwethu kwakungenxa yokubandezeleka. Naluphi na ukuphuka nomntu ahlala naye iminyaka emininzi ihlala ibuhlungu kwaye ibuhlungu.
Ngoku kunye nomfazi wakhe wokuqala kwindawo enobudlelane obuqhelekileyo?
Ukukhulumisana kuphuculwe, ngelixa intombi yethu uSasha ikhula. UMarina akazange angandithinteli ukuba ndidibane nomntwana. Ngoku intombi yam ineminyaka engama-26 ubudala kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuthetha nomfazi wam wangaphambili. Xa intsapho yahlukana, uAlexandra wayeneminyaka emine ubudala.
Ngaba ucinga ukuba kulula ukushiya intsapho xa umntwana engasenangqondo okanye xa umntwana sele ehlalutya imicimbi kwaye unokuchaza yonke into?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ndicinga ukuba kulwaphulo-mthetho lokuzala abantwana abangenalo uthando! Ngelishwa, kukho imishado enjalo, kuquka umanyano wam osapho wokuqala. Xa umntwana engathandanga, kodwa nje "kwenzeka", xa unokungabaza ukuba uya kudibanisa ngonaphakade ubomi bakho nalo mntu, uyaqonda ukuba awuhlose ukuba uqhubeke nobudlelwane obukhulu, kwaye umntwana uzalelwe - oko kwenzeka ngexesha lonke, ngakumbi kuluntu apho Ndihlala kwaye ndisebenza. Olu luhambo olungonwabileyo, olukhutshweyo, kwaye ke-kunye nabantu abadala. Kulo mntwana, abazali abahlukanayo ababuhlungu kakhulu kuncinci, ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu, ngenxa yoko akayikhumbuli. Okanye emva kweminyaka eyi-16 ukuya kwe-18, xa kudlula iminyaka yobuguquko kwaye umntwana unokuhlalutya iziganeko. Abazali bam baqhawula umtshato xa ndandineminyaka engama-6 ubudala, kwaye kum mna kwakuyixinzelelo yengqondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, izibini ziyaqhekeka xa abantwana bebanamzala okanye bakuba ngabantu abadala, ngoko akukho nto yokuthintela. Ngamanye amaxesha abazali bahlala kunye ngenxa yomntwana, kodwa le nto iyisizathu esiphindwe kabini, nokuba yingozi, kuba abantwana bajikelezwe ngomoya ongathandekiyo. Ukunyaniseka, simele sishiye, xa uqaphela ukuba akukho mandla kunye namathuba okuhlala phantsi kophahla olulodwa.
Unokubandakanyeka kancinane kangakanani ekukhulisweni kwonyana kaIvan kunye nentombi kaSasha?
Akukho mntu! Ngomzekelo wodwa onokukunceda. Andinaso ithuba lokunyusa ukukhuliswa kwabo. Inkqubo yemfundo yinkqubo echanekileyo, efuna imizamo yansuku zonke. Ndiyabona ngento engumntombazana kunye nendodana, amaxesha amathathu ngonyaka siphumla iintsuku eziliqela kunye. Indlela yodwa yokuphembelela abantwana bam babini: "Ndilandele, yenza njengoko ndenzayo." Ukuze abantwana bakhule ukuze babe ngabantu abahloniphekileyo, akudingeki ukuba enze izenzo ezidibeneyo kwaye ube ngumntu ohloniphekileyo, ohloniphekileyo.
Intombi yakho sele ikhulile. Ukulawula ubumfihlo kwaye ufuna umyeni wakhe?
Akunakuthandabuzeki ebomini bomntu kaSasha. Le yindlela yakhe, kwaye kufuneka idlule yedwa. Ukongezelela, andiyiqondi ukuhlukana okungaqhelekanga kwabadlali kunye nabaqhubi beekontrakta. I-Professional, okwenene, iyichaphazela umlingiswa womntu, kodwa uthando lobubi ... Into eyona nto ayikho into eyenziwa ngumthandi, kodwa luhlobo luni lomntu kunye nendlela ofuphi ngayo. Intombi yam ayinomdlali wokudlala, unentshisekelo ebomvu, nezinye iinjongo. Uyomnotho, uphumelele kwi-MESI, kwaye ngoku ufumana imfundo yesibini-umvelisi womculo.
Unyana u-Ivan - ikopi yakho ngqo. Ngokomntu wakhe, ukufana oku kwabonakala na?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, andiyiboni nayiphi na into ecacileyo yam okanye umfazi kaMarina. Ngokwe-genotype, uVanya unjengaye nomfazi wakhe, kodwa ungumntu ohlukile kwaye akayikho ikopi. Yenza imbonakalo ekhohlisayo yindoda enhle kakhulu, inkwenkwe efanelekileyo. Enyanisweni, iVanya yinto engathandabuzekiyo, ngohlobo lokuhlekisa, ufunda ngeenguqulelo. Ukususela kwimvelo yemvelo, iqukethe umculo, ubugcisa, ukuva kakuhle. Kuzo zonke ezinye iinkalo, unyana unomntu onelanelekileyo kwaye, ndiyathemba, kuya kuhlala kunjalo. Andiyazi ukuba uya kuzinikela kwizobugcisa: into ephambili kukukhulela umntu ohloniphekileyo.
Ookhokho bakho babe ngabaphathi bamanxweme. Ulwandle alunakunyanga?
Ndadlala kwi "Midshipmen"! Naluphi na, kodwa waya kwisihloko samanzi. Inyaniso yokuba utatomkhulu nomkhulu-makhulu babe ngabaphathi bamanxweme, ndafunda emva kokufayiliza. Oku akukona nje ngengozi nje, kukho uxhulumaniso lwengqondo phakathi kwezizukulwana kunye neenkulungwane. Emva kwakho konke, ukususela ekuqaleni ndingazange ndivunyelwe inxaxheba ka-Alyosha Korsak, kodwa umhlobo wami u-Yuri Moroz. Kodwa konke kwavela ukuba ndadlala indima, nangona andingafuni. Ngendlela, xa umkhulu-makhulu uBoris Petrovich wadutshulwa, wayeneminyaka engama-27 ubudala, kwaye ekuqaleni kweefayili "Midshipmen" ndandingama-27! Mhlawumbi umkhulu wayefuna ukukhunjulwa ...
Ngaba kuyinyaniso ukuba ukholelwa kwimilingo yamanani?
Andiyena umfana. Kodwa iinqununu ezingama-21 no-22 zihamba kunye nam ebomini: Ndazalelwa ngomhla wama-21, 22 - umfazi wam ka-Marina oneminyaka engama-21, intombi ka-Sasha (ngomhla wokuzalwa wam), siphila kwi-number number 222, inombolo yetikiti yama-21. Ndiyabona kule nkqubo ethile. Kodwa ebomini bam, kungekhona kuphela amanani afanekisayo, kodwa kunye negama elithi Marina. Ngaphezu koko, abafazi bam banamagama apheleleyo, bobabini u-Marina Vladimirovna, ndandingumhlobo nomdlali we-actress u-Marina Levtoj iminyaka eyi-16, uthando lwam oluvela kwenkampu yobuvulindlela kwabizwa ngokuba nguMarina ...
Kwirekhodi yakho yerefilimu ethi "Muzzle", efumaneka kwikhosi yaseSoviet eyenziwa ngumbutho emphakathini. Ngaba sele ukholelwa ukuba ube nomfanekiso wegigolo?
Akukho mntu uzame ukundinyengela. Ndiyifunde le script, indima ibonakala ithandeka kwaye ifundisa kum. Ndagqiba kwelokuba ndivumelane, kuba ngo-1991, ekuphakameni kokuthandwa kwe "Midshipmen", kum wonke umntu wayebonakala nje njengeqhawe lomshukela. L kwanoma yimuphi umdlali wokuhlala elayini omnye ngumda wokuphuhliswa kobugcisa. Ndivuma ukutshatyalaliswa, ndaqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ifilimu yayiza kuba yintliziyo kwaye umfanekiso wam kuwo kuyo yonke into ebhekene nendima ebalulekileyo. Isipho sokususwa kwi "Morashka" safika ngexesha. Kwakuyilingo lovavanyo lomsebenzi kunye nokuzikhethela ngokupheleleyo ukuvumela ukuba umbukeli aqonde ukuba ndiyakwazi ukuhluka. Ngenxa yoko, kumfilimu yam ikhona ama-comedies, i-melodramas kunye needrama, amaqhawe kunye namaqhawe amanqabileyo, amakhwenkqonkqo anomnandi kunye nezikhulu zothando. Ababukeli basakhumbuza "Umbhobho", ngoko, kukho enye inzantsi kulo mfanekiso.
Amava asabela njani kwishintsho esicacileyo somfanekiso?
Emva kokukhululwa kwe "Umbhobho" wathola inani elikhulu leencwadi ezivela kumantombazana amancinci ngemigca ecinezelayo: "Usifungele! Njani unako? Usidumise ... "Kodwa andinalo ulwalamano lwam uhlobo lwamaqhawe am" kwi-Midshipmen "kunye ne" Muzzle ". Ndingumntu ohluke ngokupheleleyo! Ndingumdlali, kwaye ubugcisa bam bubuchule ngokudala imifanekiso eyahlukeneyo kunye nabalinganiswa babantu. Wayephantse azidlale. Kwakungekho nendima enye apho ndazibandakanya khona: kukho imbonakalo ethile yodwa, iimpawu zobuntu.
Emva kokuba ifilimu ethi "Umbhobho" yaqala ukuqonda ukuba kutheni amadoda abe gigolo, kwaye abafazi bahlala kunye na?
Imbali yegigolo yinto eneminyaka eminyaka ubudala xa umntu esebenzisa idatha yakhe yangaphandle ukufezekisa iinjongo ze-mercantile. Lo ngumntu olwachasayo. "Umbhobho" - ifilimu yohlobo, kodwa inqanaba eliphezulu. Ukongeza, ibali elifundisa kakhulu. Ndiyaqonda kakuhle ukuba kutheni abafazi behlala kunye namadoda amahle okanye amadoda edonsa kubafazi abalungileyo. Kukho okuthiwa libido! Amadoda abe gigolo, ngenxa yokuba ayinayo enye impawu, kwaye awazi ukuba yintoni na enye into, abafuni ukusebenza. Abantu abanjalo basetyenziselwa ukufumana ubomi ngohlobo luni na owanikezele, kwaye bajonga ukuba luyamkeleka.
Yiyiphi imikhwa emibi oye wakwazi ukuyichitha?
Yeka ukusela nokutshaya kukukhetha ngokuzithandela kunye nokuphumelela okubalulekileyo kwintsapho yaseDmitry Kharatyan. Ndakwenza ngaphandle koncediso lwabantu, nangona umendo wawude kwaye unzima. Andifuni ukukhumbula ngale nto ... Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntu uphumelela yonke into ngokwakhe: banokumnceda, kodwa wenza izigqibo ngokuzimela. Andizange ndiyeke ukusela nokubhema egameni lomfazi, kwaye andihlali kubafazi. Inyaniso yokuba abantu benza zonke izenzo zokukholisa abafazi bafana neepathos. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umlinganiselo wokuvavanywa kwindoda egcweleyo yintokazi, kwaye ezininzi izinto azifezekisileyo kunye nempumelelo eyenziwa ngumntu, kubandakanywa, wayejongwa ngumntu obuthathaka. Indalo ilungiselelwe ukuba indoda izama ukuyenza kwimeko yowesifazane, kwaye andiyikho. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ndibeka ngaphantsi ubomi bam bonke ngendlela abafazi bam abaya kusabela ngayo kwizenzo zam. Kuya kuba mncinane.
Ngokwemvelo, abafazi bayakhuthazwa kakhulu ebomini bamadoda, ukuba akukho nto eyona nto, kodwa umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba ubomi abugcini nje ukukhanga kwisiqingatha sobuthathaka bomntu, kodwa kukho ezinye izinto eziphambili, inqwenela yokuzifeza, ukuqonda, ukuphuhliswa kwendalo yonke.
Kodwa ke, ngabahlobo buni abafana noDmitri Kharatyan?
Andiyithandi iindoda eziyinyabi, ezingenakunqwenela kunye nezingenakunyusa. Ndiyathanda amahle, amahle. Kukho ukuqokelela okungabhalwa phantsi kweempawu zeentlobo zamabhinqa, kwaye enye yeengongoma zokuqala kukuthobeka. Esi sibonakaliso sibonisa abafazi, kodwa abayiqondi le nto. Nabani na umntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unqulo kunye nobuzwe, njengabo bafazi abanjalo. Kwaye abafazi banamhlanje bahlala bekulwela amalungelo abo, nangona kungekho mntu uwathathayo. Iintlobo eziphambili zowesifazane-uthando, ububele, ubumnene, ubufazi. Xa ezama iimpawu zomntu, iyayiphendula. Kukho amacandelo amabini abhenkcezayo. Into yokuqala umntu ayenayo kumfazi yi-libido (ukukhanga), ukukhwabanisa, ubulili, inzondo yemvelo kunye nezilwanyana. Icandelo lesibini liyingqondo. Ibhinqa lingahle libe lihle, lingabi nesibalo esincinci, kodwa sinesithandwa esithile, umkhonto kunye nento efihlakeleyo, kodwa ekhangayo kakhulu. Le nto inqanaba lomhlobo wemiphefumlo kunye nobudlelane. Kwaye ke umntu sele esele akhathazeke ngenxa yenkanuko yezilwanyana, emva kokuyaneliseka, okungazange kube mnandi kude kube ngoko, kuphinda kubekho umnqweno, kwaye enye, into enqabileyo. Ngako oko, amadoda aphethe iindoda zeentombi kunye nabo babenza intsapho. Nabokuqala baxhatshazwa kuphela ngesondo, njengoko iimpazamo zithandwa, ukwaneliseka kwezifiso zomzimba. Batshata ngokukodwa: abathembekileyo, abathobekileyo, abasemakhaya, ezoqoqosho, abo bangasindisa indawo yokukhusela nokukhulisa abantwana.
Iindwendwe ezenzayo ezinqabileyo zinqabile kakhulu namhlanje. Wena nomfazi wakho wesibini sele utshatile iminyaka engama-14. Kunokwenzeka njani ukufumana ukuqonda okufanayo?
Kubalulekile ukuba uhlaliswe rhoqo. Ngaloo ndlela, mna noMarina sasinenhlanhla. Ndisoloko ndiphuma kwaye asibonanga ngeveki, iinyanga. Oku kuyinto ekhuthazayo engasivumeli ukutshabalalisa intsapho yethu. Iqabane alikhwele xa ndingekho ekhaya. Nangona sasinamaxesha ahlukeneyo ebomini: sahlukana, kwaye kwakubonakala ngathi yonke into iyahlukana, kwaye asiyi kuphinda sihlangane kwakhona. Nangona sisapho, awaziwa ukuba umbutho wethu uza kuhlala ixesha elingakanani. Ngokubanzi, akukho mntu uyazi apho isiphelo sobomi!