Yintoni uMarilyn Monroe Syndrome

Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mntu uya kukhanyela ukuba nokuba ubuhle, amadoda ajikelezileyo aphuphayo, ubuncinane ngamanye amaxesha bemi phambi kwesibuko kunye nokuxubha ngenxa yokungena ngexesha lokuphuma kwipimple. Isizathu sesimo esifanelekileyo singase sibe sisithende esiqhekekileyo kwizicathulo zakho ezizithandayo, i-PMS, isityholo kunye nomthande wakho, iintsuku ezibucayi okanye ngokungafaniyo, ukungabikho kwabo (ukwesaba ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo), umsebenzi wokugqibela, lowo umphathi owakubonayo, ifowuni ephukileyo, i-tequila engaphezulu, ibha. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba ukungaxolisi kancinci naye kukhula kuba yintlungu yengqondo kwaye le ngxaki ibizwa ngokuba yi "Marilyn Monroe Syndrome."

Kutheni kwaye ngubani oMarilyn Monroe Syndrome

• Ngaba unamathele ebubudlelwaneni obude kunye nendoda eyenzekayo kwiimbilini zakho, okwenza ungonwabi?
• Ngaba uphupha ukutshata, ukwenza konke okufunekayo kuwo, kwaye umviwa ofanelekileyo kubayeni akabonakali?
• Ngaba uye wakha wakubona ukuba kuwo onke amadoda uhlala ukhetha utywala, ungenakufikeleleka, abathandi bokugxotha izandla, ukubanda ngokomoya, ukungathembeki, ukungabi nandaba, ukuhlambalaza isidima sakho, ongenakukufumana? Ngexesha elifanayo, awuboni abantu abafanelekileyo nabaqhelekileyo, kuba abachaphazeli intliziyo yakho.
• Ngaba uye wazibamba ucinga ukuba xa amathuba ehamba ezandleni zakho, unesiva sokungakhuseki, kwaye uqala ukudlula, udlulisele wena?
• Ngaba usebenzisa kakubi ukutya kunye / okanye utywala?
• Ngaba uzibheka esibukweni ngenyanyeko kunye noyiko, nangona abanye bethetha ukuba uyabonakala?

Ukuba uninzi lwemibuzo uphendule kwi-affirmative, ngoko mhlawumbi unayo "Marilyn Monroe Syndrome" - isifo sengqondo. Eli gama lacetyiswa ngabaphandi bokuqala bele ngxaki ngu-Elizabeth McCavoy weengqondo kunye nomlobi uSusan Izraelson, owaba ngabalobi bencwadi efanayo. Izizathu zokubangela ukuba abalobi bale ncwadi banike i-syndrome igama lomdlali omdumileyo, ulala kwizinto ezizodwa zobomi bakhe.

U-Marilyn Monroe waphumelela, wayenomtsalane kwaye enhle. Kodwa ekhangele kwisibuko, wayehlala ebona umntu olahlekileyo ongenakufanelwe ulonwabo. Malunga noMarilyn, phantse bonke abantu bephupha, kodwa wadibana nalawo madoda abo ubuhlobo bakhe obunxulumene naye buphukile.

Iingcambu zolu hlobo ziphatha ukususela ebuntwaneni. Ekubeni uninzi lwabasetyhini abanezi zifo zivela kwimisebenzi engasebenzi, iintsapho ezingasebenzi, apho abazali abazange banike abantwana uthando olungenamthetho, abazange banelise iimfuno zomntwana zabo. Ngako oko, unkosikazi ongenamhlanje onokuqinisekileyo, ukukhangela uthando - yintombazana encinci engazange ifumaneke kubazali bothando. Ngako oko, ngalunye ixesha uya kuzifumana ngumlingane oya kumkhumbuza uyise oyintanda okanye umama olahliwe, ngoko uzama ukufumana uthando. Uya kuphinda aphinde azame ukuzibonakalisa yena kunye nehlabathi lonke ukuba "ulungile", ukuba "yinto enokuyithanda." Ekubuntwaneni, engenalo uthando, ukufudumala nothando, i-onasama iya kuba yinyameko, inqwenela kwaye inothando, inelisekile, nangona kunjalo, imfuno yakhe yeemvakalelo ezikhankanyiweyo. Ngokukodwa kakhulu kuya kubonisa abantu abayidingayo, njengoko kubonakala kuye.

Indlela yokukrazula i-syndrome

Kukho imiyalelo e-10 eya kunceda ukunyanga iMarilyn Monroe Syndrome. Abasetyhini abanika isimo esifanayo kwigama, bakholelwa ukuba i-syndrome kaMarilyn Monroe iphathwa. Abaphandi bakholelwa ukuba ukubuyisela ngokupheleleyo umfazi kufuneka kuhambelane ngqo nemithetho elandelayo:

• Ibhinqa limele lizithande ngokuthanda okungenammiselo.
• Ukubuyisela kuye kufuneka kube ngumcimbi wobomi bonke.
• Ibhinqa lifanele lihloniphe.
• Yonke inkathalo ukuhambisa kuphela kuwe.
• Kholelwa kuwe ngaphandle kwehla lokungabaza.
• Yinyamekele umzimba wakho kwaye uyayithanda.
• Bonke amandla abo okunika ukuvuselela ingqondo yabo, umphefumlo nomzimba.
• Jabulela ubomi bakho.
• Yivuleleke kwiingcamango ezintsha, ngakumbi ezo zingatshintsha ubomi.
• Zi thembisa ukuba ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuwina uMarilyn Monroe Syndrome.