Inani elipheleleyo
- Ukutolika okuqhelekileyo kweencwadi zephupha kuthetha ukuba umntu uya kukwazi ukwenza yonke into ekhulelwe, njengoko iimeko ziza kuba negalelo kulo.
- Umama okhulelweyo unokuthetha ukuba umphuphi uya kuba nekhono elimncedayo oza kunceda ukufezekisa ezi njongo. Kwaye, utshintsho lungaxhalabeleli kuphela ubomi bentsapho, kodwa nolwazi.
- Enye inguqu malunga nale maphupha inzuzo yenyama. Uninzi lwamaxesha amaninzi, i-influx engalindelekanga yethembiso-mboleko yokubona umama wakho ukhulelwe (oku kungaba lilifa elingalindelekanga, ukuphumelela kwikottery).
Ingcaciso ecacileyo: ukubona kumama okhulelwe okhuphayo
Kuninzi kuxhomekeke ekubeni uneminyaka engakanani umama wakho enyanisweni kunye nezinye izinto ongazifunda kwiphupha.
- Uninzi lwabaguquleli beliphupha lichaza loo mbono njenge-harbinger yempumelelo kuyo nayiphi na ishishini onokuyithatha kulo mzuzu.
- Ukuba, ngokwenene, unyoko ulindele ukuzalisa, ngoko iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukuba ukubeleka kuya kudlula ngokulula kwaye kungenabuhlungu.
- Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela umoya jikelele wokulala. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba wayengumntu ongaqhelekanga kwaye engenako ukuphumla, ukulungiswa kwempahla akufanele kulindeleke. nangona kunjalo, imicimbi yakho yezemali ingonakalisa kakhulu kangangokuthi uza kufikelela kwimeko ephosakeleyo.
- Ukubona indlela unyoko ozala ngayo kuthetha ukuba uza kuba neengxaki ezininzi phambi kokuba uzalise umsebenzi.
- Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba umntu waphupha ukuba wayezalela umntwana. Lo ngumqondiso obonakalisiweyo, obonakalisa ukuqhelana nomntu onokwethenjelwa onokuthi abe ngumlingane wobomi bakho.
- Ukuba, ekuphumeni kwakho, unyoko ongekho kwisimo esibucayi, kodwa ephupheni ubonile oku, ngoko ufanele uthethe naye, kuba kuye kukho ixesha elihle lokuqala nokuqala kweengcamango.
Kwezinye iingubo zokutolika
Uninzi lwabaguquli bavuma ukuba unina, njengowona mntu ungokoqobo, akakwazi ukuzisa umphuphi wengxaki ebomini bokwenene. Kodwa ke, ukuchaza ngokucacileyo iphupha lakho malunga nomama okhulelwe, kufuneka uqikelele ngokucophelela ulwazi oluvela kwiincwadi zephupha ezithembekileyo.
- UMiller ubhala ukuba ukubonakala komama ephupheni kuphumelela impumelelo kunye neziphumo ezintle kuyo nayiphi na into eyenzayo. Ikhathalela ngokukodwa ishishini.
- Ukuthetha naye kuthetha ukuba umphuphi uza kufumana imilayezo emnandi kakhulu, enokukunceda ukuqonda oko akuqalayo.
- Kwincwadi yephupha likaVanga kuthiwa umama usempilweni ephosakeleyo njengophawu lobomi bentsapho obonwabileyo kumntu ophuphayo.
- Ukuba ibhinqa ephupha libuhlungu okanye lide, lilungele ukuxabana okukhulu kwintsapho. Ngenxa yoko, inokutshatyalaliswa, kodwa ekubeni ufumene isilumkiso kwangaphambili, uya kuba nexesha lokukhusela ubunzima.
Ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka kuthethwe ukuba amaphupha anjalo awanqabile. Ngokuqhelekileyo umama okhulelweyo ubonwa ngabantwana abalindele ukuzalwa komzalwana okanye udade. Iingcali zengqondo ziqwalasela oku kubonakaliswa kobukhwele. Kubantu abadala, ekukhulelweni okuphuphayo, unina unokuthetha ukungathandi ukufumana abantwana babo okanye ukwesaba ukwenza njalo.