Yiluphi iphupha lokudutshulwa ngemoto: ukutolika okuthandwayo
Ukuba ungexhoba yengozi yemoto ephupheni, ke le nto i-harbinger ecacileyo yenguqu ephawulekayo enxulumene nomsebenzi okanye ishishini. Kungenzeka ukuba umthombo wakho wokufumana ingeniso uza kuncipha, kwaye umsebenzi ngokwawo uza kuthatha ixesha elininzi kunye namandla okuziphatha. Kodwa ukuba ubhekisela kwincwadi yamaphupha yanamhlanje, ngoko le mcimbi ephupheni ibonakalisa iindaba ezimnandi ezikhawulezayo, kunye nentlanganiso nomhlobo osondeleyo okanye isihlobo. Xa kwenzeka ukuba ulwalamano kwimoto unokuyiphepha ngokumangalisayo, lithetha impumelelo ezayo kunye nokuchuma kwimicimbi yezemali.
Ngokutsho kwengcaciso yowesifazane oyintandokazi eyaziwayo: inqwelo yemoto-isilumkiso sokuba umntu osapho lwakho usengozini. Kukho usongelo kwimpilo. Ukubona kweli gazi lephupha - ukulahlekelwa yimpahla, iingxaki ezingenamsebenzi.
Ukutshintshela kwisichazimi esinobuqhetseba sifumana ukuchazwa ngokuthe ngqo, ngokubhekiselele ekubeni yiyiphi into ekuhlaseleni ngayo umntu wesini esahlukileyo, kuthetha ukuthandana nokuthanda.
Incwadi yephupha yengqondo ibonisa ukuba eli phupha linokudityaniswa neemvakalelo zangaphakathi malunga nomntu osondeleyo. Ngamanye amaxesha iphupha elinjalo lingaba ngumqondiso wokuphelisa emsebenzini okanye ukuxinzelela iingxaki. Zama ukuthatha ikhefu kwaye uphumule ngokukhawuleza kwi-hustle and bustle.
Ziyintoni na amaphupha xa imoto ibetha omnye umntu
Ukuchazwa kwamaphupha anjalo kuxhomekeke kuqala kwisicwangciso esabonwayo: ngubani na owenza umbingelelo kuwe, ingozi enkulu kangakanani, kwakukho umphumo obulalayo? Ngoko, umzekelo, ukubona isidumbu (nokuba umntu uyazi okanye ayinayo) kuthetha wena ubunzima bokuqala ngemali, isifo senhliziyo okanye imithwalo yegazi. Ukubona isidumbu sesizalwana kuthetha ukuba lo mntu uya kuba neengxaki zempilo ezinzulu.
Xa liphupha ukuba imoto ithatyathwa yimoto - oku kuwuphawu lokukhohlisa kwintetho yomntu othandekayo. Inokwenzeka ukuba, othembekileyo kakhulu uya kuba ngumkhohlisi. Ukubona umntwana ofileyo kuthetha ukuba uye waba yintlungu yesinye intlungu, iinyembezi. Ngokuqhelekileyo amaphupha aphuphayo amantombazana adibana nabasetyhini.
Iphupha apho umhlobo washaywa yimoto kuthetha ukuba lo mfazi uyamona ngokufihlakele kwaye uyabuhlungu kakhulu kule nto. Kungenzeka ukuba umona ubangelwa kukuziqhayisa kwakho kunye nokungaxhatshazi ebomini.
Kodwa khumbula, uzibuze umbuzo othi "kubonakala ngathi kubanjwe yimoto?", Qiniseka ukuba uhlalutye ukwesaba kwakho namava. Kungenzeka ukuba oku kusisisityalo sesiqhamo sakho, esingenakuphumla nangethuba lokuphumla ebusuku. Ngoko, landela iingcamango zakho namaphupha amnandi!