Kutheni uphupha ukulahlekelwa yindandatho?
Eli bali, ngokuqhelekileyo, lubonisa utshintsho olubi ebomini bakhe, okwenyaniso, akusoloko ekhangele. Oku kungabonakalisa ukunganeliseki ngonyulwa wakho, umnqweno wokungena kumtshato omtsha okanye ukutshabalalisa okwangoku.
Ezinye iincwadi zokuphupha zihumusha lo mfanekiso njengesilumkiso malunga nosongelo lokulahlekelwa kwemali. Kungenzeka ukuba emva kwaloo phupha, umntu olalayo uya kulahlekelwa yinto ebengaphambili yabangane kunye nabahlobo abadlala indima enkulu ebomini bakhe.
Kwezinye iincwadi zephupha, unokufumana ukuchazwa okungakumbi, ngokubhekiselele ekulahlekeni kwendandatho kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kulahleka into ebalulekileyo ebomini boqobo. Eli lahleko luya kuthintela kakhulu ikusasa lakho kunye nobuhlobo bomntu.
Ukulahlekelwa kwindandatho ephupheni kunokuthetha ukungahambisani nolwalamano lwentsapho, ukungquzulana nabasemagunyeni okanye osebenza nabo. Kubantu bentsapho, esi siqhinga sinokubonisa uphawu olubi kakhulu kwindlu. Qaphela nayiphi na ingxabano kunye nokucaciswa kobudlelwane, kuba akukho nto ilungileyo iya kuphela apho. Ukuba umhlobiso wawunxibe ngamatye amancinci - linda iinyembezi.
Ukuba umfazi ongatshatanga ulahlekelwa yindandatho ephupheni, ukhetho olukhoyo okanye oluzayo luya kumdumaza kakhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ulwalamano nalo mntu aluyi kukhokelela kuyo nayiphi na into enhle.
Kubantu abadala, eli phupha liyakubonisa ukuba impilo yabo ibuthathaka kakhulu, kunokwenzeka ukuba ngexesha elifutshane umphupha uyagula kakhulu.
Kula madoda iphupha likhonza njengesilumkiso malunga nobunzima bezezimali. Ukongezelela, ixesha elithile emva kokubonwa, nakunoma kunjalo, unganiki bani na umbolekisi, kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba inxaxheba kunye nemali nonke. Ukulahlekelwa ephupheni indandatho enhle - uphawu lokungcatsha kwincenye yomhlobo omhle.
Ukulahleka ingubo yomtshato kwiphupha: ziza kuthini na iincwadi zephupha
Ekubeni umkhonto womtshato uyisimboli esingunaphakade, uthando lomtshato, oluqinileyo nolonwabileyo umtshato, ukulahlekelwa kwalo mhlobiso ephupheni akusayi kuxela into enhle.
Ukuba umntu otshatileyo okanye otshatileyo ulahlekelwa isandi ephupheni, oku kungachazwa njengokungcatshwa kwangaphambili kwekhethiweyo okanye ukushiya intsapho. Kuba amadoda abone eli bali, bayacetyiswa ukuba banake ingqalelo kwindlela abaziphatha ngayo yeqabane labo, ekubeni kunokwenzeka ukuba unomntu ohlangothini lwakhe. Amantombazana - oku kungabonakalisa ukuba kungekudala uza kuphulaphulwa ihlazo kwidilesi yakhe okanye umnqweno womthandayo. Kungenzeka ukuba kukho ubunzima obubudlelwaneni bakho ixesha elide, kodwa uye wavala amehlo akho. Zama ukuqonda ngokuqonda amabango kunye nezikhalazo kwidilesi yakho kwaye, mhlawumbi, uza kubuyisa uthando kunye nenhlonipho yalo mntu.
Ukulahlekelwa ingubo kwiphupha akusona uphawu oluhle kakhulu, kodwa nakwiinguqulelo ezingentla unokufunda isiluleko esincedo esiya kukukhokela kwinkqubo yangempela. Siyathemba ukuba uya kuqonda yonke into ngokuchanekileyo uze wenze izigqibo eziyimfuneko.