Akunakwenzeka ukugcina endlwini njengememori inwele yomntwana-indawo yokuhlala izakutsala izifo. Kwaye iinkolelo ezinjalo zininzi kakhulu. Iphupha ngabo ngabo ububulumko abazange baphume. Inombolo enkulu yokuchazwa kwamaphupha ngokweengcaciso ezifanayo ziya kuthatha, kodwa ukuhlalutya ngokubanzi kwephupha lakho, sincoma ukufunda apha ngezantsi.
Zibukeka njani iinwele zam?
Kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwinjani yomntu ebona iinwele. Ingaba yintloko enhle kunye neenwele ezininzi, eziza kubonisa ukuba i-destiny yakho iya kuphucula ngokukhawuleza kwiindawo ezininzi. Ingaba yimiba efana nobomi bomntu, umsebenzi kunye noshintsho oluthile. Ngokukodwa iphupha liya kuthatha isenzo xa ebomini bokuba inwele zakho zifutshane kwaye zincinci kunokuba uphupha ephupheni.
Kwakhona ubuhlungu obukhulu baphathwe inwele ephuphayo. Abatokiki badibanisa lo hue ngobumsulwa kunye nococeko lweentlanzi. Ukuzibona u-blonde ephupheni, awukwazi ukuxhalabisa - iinjongo zakho kunye neengcamango ziya kuzaliseka, kwaye ngendlela oya kubakho abantu abanomdla kunye nabahle.
Izinwele ezimanzi - uphawu lokuba ulwalamano lwakho nosapho lwakho okanye othandekayo luninzi olungabonakaliyo kwaye olungavumelekanga, abantu abasondeleyo abakuchulumanga kakuhle nezenzo zakho ngokuziphatha. Iinguqulelo nazo zibonisa ukuba, mhlawumbi, ube yintlanzi yokuhleba kunye nengxoxo. Akuyimfuneko ukuxoxela nabani na ukufumanisa iimfihlelo ngexesha leenyanga ezintathu, oku kungakubi kuwe.
Ukuba inwele zephunga zachithwa
Ngoko, ungalindeli nto enhle. Njengoko kubhaliwe ngasentla, oku kuwuphawu lobuhle, impilo kunye namava okuphila. Ukunciphisa ephupheni (nokuba uyenzile okanye omnye umntu) kuthetha ukuzihlawulela ngempilo embi okanye nakwezinye izifo, kubi ukujonga ngaphandle, ukwenza iimpazamo kwimicimbi ebalulekileyo. Ezinye iincwadi zephupha ziyichaza oko babonayo nangona isifo esingenakunqanda kwixa elizayo. Indlela yodwa yokuzikhusela kwimiphumo yale phupha kukuhlamba ngamanzi. Mxelele nje amanzi aphuphayo kwaye uya kuthatha onke amandla ambi naye.
Ukubukeka kweentwele kubonakala ngathi?
Kwakungekho nokulala okulungileyo. Kubonisa ukuba kwixesha elizayo elizayo uza kuba neentlungu kakhulu, okufunwayo akuhambelani nangoko, ukukhuseleka kuya kuba buthathaka, oku kunokukhokelela kwizifo ezahlukahlukeneyo. Kwakhona, kufuneka ucinge ngako, kuba ngokuqhelekileyo la maphupha ayiphumo lobomi bakho boqobo. Mhlawumbi wenza into ephosakeleyo, cinga kakubi, uphukise abantu, ungabukeli impilo yakho. Zama uhlalutye into engafanelekanga kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kuya kuba sisisombululo kwingxaki, kwaye loo maphupha akayi kukuphazamisa ngakumbi.
Ukuba umphuphi ubona inkqubo yokwenza umonakalo, lo ngumqondiso wokuqala wokutshintsha. Yilungele ukutshintsha indlela yokuphila, uye kwenye idolophu okanye utshintshe uhlobo lomsebenzi. Akubalulekanga nakakhulu, yintoni umbala ogqitywa ekugqibeleni - oku kuqhutyelwa njengengcaciso yephupha njengenguqu ecacileyo kwimeko.
Ndicinga ukuba ezi ngcaciso zikuncede ukuba uqonde kangcono oko ubonile ngalobu busuku. Kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba amaphupha amaxesha ambalwa amafilimu amancinci, kodwa akusoloko. Ngamanye amaxesha, ingqondo engqondweni, ngoko, izama ukudlulisela into ebalulekileyo kuwe, isilumkise kwaye ikhusele iingxaki.