Ukuvuka ekuseni, ngokukhawuleza uyazi ukuba unomphumo "othakazelisayo" kakhulu. Ngaphambi kokuba uvuke, wawuyiqashwesa le-padishah, uzalisekisa zonke izinto zakhe. Yenza umdanso wesisu, ngokukhawuleza ukuphosa zonke izambatho zabo ezibonakalayo, uze uthabatheke kwigumbi lokulala.
Kwaye emva kokubamba iqabane elingalindelekanga. Ngokukhawuleza ube neentloni phambi kwakhe ukuba "ungumfazi otyumkileyo." Kodwa ungazitshitshisi ngazo zonke izono ezifayo ngexesha elilodwa, awuyena wesifazane ococekileyo, usuke uphupha iphupho. Amaphupha ama-Erotic awesifazana amlethela ukuthokoza ngokokubona kwakhe.
Kutheni kufike amaphupha ahlaselayo? Kwaye bathetha ntoni?
Okokuqala, musa ukuzithetha ngokukhawuleza, amaphupha agugu - oku kuqhelekileyo. I-10% yazo zonke amaphupha, unobungozi obunobunzima-obufihlakeleyo okanye obunqabileyo. Ukubonakala kwamaphupha anjalo kumaphupha akho kungabakho ngenxa yeemeko ezahlukeneyo. Ngokomzekelo, egazini kunokwandisa izinga lamahomoni - kwiintsuku ezithile zomjikelezo okanye ngexesha lokukhulelwa, - umnqweno ufumana ukuphuma kule fomu.
Esinye isizathu sinokuba sisengqondweni, ngoncedo lwamaphupho okuguquka, uyabonakala njengowesifazane. Ubomi bakho abuyi kuba grey kwaye bukhululekile, imibala eqaqambileyo yobuthongo yongezwa kuyo.
Musa ukuphatha amaphupha anjalo ngokuthe ngqo, ubona njengesikhokelo sokwenza okuthile. Musa ukucinga, ukuba ulele embhedeni nomphathi wakho othandekayo, ukuba uqale ngokufihla ekuthandeni naye. Musa ukukhawuleza ukufikelela kwizigqibo.
Ukuthethelela kwenkwenkwezi. Xa ufuna ukufikelela kwezinye iindawo eziphakamileyo, ungaphupha ngoRichard Gere. Oku kudukisa iintliziyo zabesetyhini, kuya kuphumelela intliziyo yakho ephupheni. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nomntu onjalo kungabonakala ngathi yinganekwane, kodwa ungayithwali loo mvakalelo.
Uthando nomfokazi. Ubomi bobubomi, awunalo ukuvakala okwaneleyo kobomi, uxoshe emva kokubonakala kunye nokungabonakali. Emva kwaloo phupha, cinga ngezinto onokuzenza kwaye ufuna ukutshintsha ebomini bakho.
Isondo kunye nolwazi oluqhelekileyo. Enyanisweni awukwazi kakuhle, kodwa ephupheni uyabathanda. Kodwa akukho uxhulumaniso olufihlakeleyo phakathi kwakho. Yaye inyaniso yokuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuba ube yinto efana naye. Ephupheni, uyaziqonda umzimba wakhe nomphefumlo wakhe, njengokungathi uhlawula ubuhlobo bokwenene.
Umdlalo wesithandwa. Musa ukukhawuleza ukufikelela kwizigqibo. Unesiqhelo esiqhelekileyo. Xa uphupha ukuba wenza uthando kumfazi, kuthetha ukungahambi komfudumalo nomsa.
Musa ukuxelela wakho othembekileyo ngamaphupha akho, nakwimoya yamahlaya. Akunakukuqonda kwaye uya kucinga ukuba uthetha ngokungafanelekanga ebhedini. Kwaye kuya kuba kude kakhulu ukugubha kuwe ngenxa yomcimbi ololo hlobo ephupheni.
Kungcono ukucinga ngephupha lakho, kutheni uphupha malunga nale nto okanye loo mfanekiso. Yintoni oku kuthetha ntoni? Ukuphendula imibuzo, ungayifumana intambo ekhokelayo esuka kumaphupha ukuya kwinyani, ngokubheka ukuphela komgca onokuwunqumla umgca.
Ukuba ukhumbule ixesha eliqaqambileyo ebuthongweni bakho, ovuyayo kakhulu. Buza iqabane lakho ukuba lizame ngokwenene, ndicinga ukuba uya kuyithanda kakhulu. Kha wuleza, icebiso, ungatsho ukuba usuyenzile kakade ephupheni noRichard Gere.
Yaye ungesabi amaphupha akho, kodwa uyaneliseka kuphela ngokuziphatha komfazi. Ngosizo lwabo ungazifumanisa ubunzulu obungaziwayo bomphefumlo wakho. Kukhangeleka kwihlabathi elikujikelezayo, kwiqabane lakho elithandekayo. Emva kwamaphupha, umphefumlo wakho uhlabelela kwaye ufuna ukuphuma, kwaye umfazi onolonwabo uyisibambiso sezo zonke izinto ezilungileyo.