Umntwana ongasebenzi kakuhle: iindlela zemfundo

Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlambalaza indlu njengengqungquthela, ehlutha yonke into endleleni yakhe, kwaye kubonakala ngathi uyakwazi ukuhlala kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo ngexesha elifanayo, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba umthinte ngokudweba okanye ukukhupha iipuzzles - ukuxilongwa akungathandabuzeki. Emva kokuba usuphelelwe usuku, ulindele ngokulangazela umphangi oza kulala, ephenduka ingelosi ekhulileyo, kodwa umntwana uyakwazi ukukubuza ukushisa ebusuku: uyaphonsa aze athulume aze aphume ephupheni, avuke rhoqo kwaye akubize okanye alala nomama wakho. Umntwana ongasondelanga, ziziphi iindlela zokukhuliselwa?

Baby Motors

"Ngubani na?" - ucinga, ukusela ngaphakathi. Kukho iindlela ezintathu ezinokwenzeka - mhlawumbi kuwe, okanye kuPapa, okanye kuwe. Ngokwezibalo, i-57% yabazali bezingane ezinobungozi ebuntwaneni babenempawu zendlela yokuziphatha. Iingcali zenzululwazi zikholelwa ukuba i-predisposition to it is programmed by genes ezise-chromosomes yesi-5 ne-11. Zilawula ukutshatyalaliswa kwe-nerv impulse kwi-cortex ye-cerebral ngoncedo lwezinto ezizodwa-i-dopamine kunye ne-serotonin. Ukungaphumeleli ekusebenziseni le nkqubo kuholele ekuchaseni ukuziphatha nokuqwalasela. Akunjalo kuphela! Kuphawula ukuba iintsana ezingenasiphako zizalwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo kubasetyhini abaneengxaki ze-asthma, i-pollinosis (i-pollenosis), i-atopic dermatitis (neurodermatitis) okanye i-migraine. Zonke ezi zifo nazo zihambelana nokungalingani kwezofanayo ze-serotonin kunye ne-dopamine. Ukungalingani kungabangelwa kuphela ngenxa yezinto ezizalwe ngumzuzwana, kodwa nangenxa yezinto ezingekho phantsi kwezinto ezichaphazelekayo kwi-system central nervous system yengane elizayo ngexesha lophuhliso lwe-intrauterine. Kwindima yezinto ezinjalo zivame ukukhupha amagciwane, i-oksijini yindlala (i-hypoxia), i-toxicosis, i-rhesus-conflict, ukuxhatshazwa kokuzalwa, ukunyuka kwezifo ezingapheliyo kumama ozayo. Zikhokelela ekubunjweni kwintsana ye-syndrome ye-reflex nervous excitability. Ngokusondeleyo kunyaka lukhula ekungabikho kwengqondo engapheliyo (MMD) ne-syndrome ye-hyperactivity-umda phakathi kwempilo kunye nokugula. Kulophi ulwahlulo umlinganiselo uza kuguquka, kuxhomekeka kakhulu kubazali!

Kungcono ukuqiniseka

Ukuxilongwa okungafanelekanga okunikezelwa kwintsana yakho kunokunyusa iingxaki ezikhoyo. Ungaziqonda njani isifo sokungabikho kokungaxakali ngaphandle kokudideka ngokuhamba, inzululwazi kunye nomntu onzima? Isibonakaliso esibalulekileyo sesi sifo kukuba umntwana akakwazi ukuvavanya iziphumo zezenzo zakhe. Ngoko ke, abantwana abane-syndrome yokuxhatshazeka, sebenze ngaphandle komzuzwana bacinge ngeendlela zabo zokuziphatha, bengabonakali kwixesha elizayo. Olunye uphawu olungathandekiyo lwe-syndrome yokuxhatshazwa ngumnqweno womntwana wokulimaza okanye ukutshabalalisa impahla yomntu kunye nokungafihleki kwalo mnqweno wokulawula. Kwi "indawo yengozi" yesifo se-hyperactivity, ininzi ngabafana. Le ngxaki ivela kuzo ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunamantombazana.

Gcoba kwi-fidget!

Musa ukutyhola umntwana osweleyo! Akakwazi ukuhlawuliswa aze ahluthe ngokumemeza nokubetha. Kodwa kwakhona ukuqala ukuziphatha kwayo akufanelekanga nokuba kunjalo. Umgca ophezulu wokuziphatha ukuba izazi ze-neurologists zikwacetyiswa ukuba zihambelane nalo mzekelo ukuzola umonde kunye nokuthiwa "ukunyamezela." Ungabuyi kummandla welo suku. Ukuze unqobe imeko yeengxabano apho umntwana wakho ehlala khona, kufuneka uhlaziye ubomi bakhe. Beka eceleni ixesha lokulala kunye nokuvuka, ukutya, ukudlala imidlalo, ukuhamba nokusebenza kwaye ungabuyeli kwishedyuli, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzekani! Musa ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza. Yilumkele imbuzi ngaphambili ukuba ixesha lokutya, ukubhukuda okanye ukulala. Yithi ixesha liphela, uze ukhumbuze kwakhona okanye ezimbini. Inkunzi engenakuchukumiseka ayikwazi ukuphazamisa ngokukhawuleza izifundo zayo, ukuguqula umsebenzi omtsha. Nceda uqaphele: naziphi na izicelo kufuneka ziphindwe kabini. Musa ukucaphukisa - akusiyo iphoso lakhe, mane ube nomonde.

Hlaziya imifanekiso yakho

Ukugqithiselela kwabo ngumthwalo wengane. Ukumnciphisa ngokupheleleyo ukuzizonwabisa akufanelekanga, kufuneka nje ususe umntwana kwiindwendwe okanye ngeesksi ngexesha - ngaphambili, xa sele ekhululekileyo, uya kuqala "ukushiya ibhanki". Emva koko unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho iya kuba nemibulelo emihle yokubonakala ebantwini.

Shintsha kwaye uphazamise

Ukuba umntwana uyangena umsindo, uya kukwazi ukuyilawula, ucinezele yona kwaye ushicilele into ethile, ucele indlebe yakho: "Uthobekile, ucebile ... Uthobekile, linda, lungile, phulaphule, ndinguwe Ndiza kukuxelela ... Uyazi into esiya kuyenza ngoku ngoku? Siza kungena egumbini kunye nawe ngoku, thabatha incwadi, funda incwadi kule khasi, yifunde ... "Ukuphindaphinda kwamagama afanayo kusetha isigqi sesigxina, kwaye umnxeba uphinde uxoshe umntwana - oku kuthiwa yi "mamatherapy".

Zama ukwenza umdla

Zama iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokufunda, zenzele umzuzu wokudala, ngaphandle koko umntwana wakho akayi kukwazi ukufunda ulwazi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba imimandla ayimphazamisi kwizifundo. Beka itafile kungekhona kwiwindow, kodwa eludongeni. Musa ukulenga nantoni kuwo, ngaphandle koko, ukubamba ingqwalasela, umntwana uya kuphazamiseka emsebenzini. Kule tafile, awukwazi ukushiya izinto ezingadingekile - kuphela umntwana ofunekayo okwangoku! Ukuphelisa imithombo yengxolo.

Gwema yonke into ekhangayo

I-TV kunye nekhompyutheni zikhupha kakhulu inkqubo ye-nervous child, ekwandiseni ukubonakaliswa koxinzelelo. Ngokufanayo, umntwana unokuhlaziywa kwigumbi lomntwana. Gwema utshintsho oluzenzekelayo - umntwana ongenasiphelo abayi kuzuza.

Iitrobhu kunye neenkcukacha ziya kunceda

Ukukhulisa umntwana ococekileyo kunconywa kwizandi zikaMozart, ngokweengcali zeengqondo zezingane, umculo wakhe usebenza kumafidgets angcono kunanoma yiyiphi i-valerian! Izilungiselelo ze-homeopathic zincedo, i-phyto-tea yabantwana kunye ne-mint, motherwort, i-wort yase-St. John, i-lavender, i-fennel. Kwaye ungagcwalisa enye yalezi zityalo ngephini yelinen kwaye uyibeke entloko yomntwana - le aromatherapy engabonakaliyo iya kunceda ukulungelelanisa ukulala. I-calme neposideu iya kunceda kunye nokutya okhethekileyo kwindlovu evela kwingcambu ye-valerian (okanye u-motherwort utshani), i-mint ne-sage. Thela 1 ithisipuni nganye. iipuni nganye imifuno kwi-thermos, yenza iikomityi ezimbini zamanzi abilayo, unxinzelele isiqingatha seyure, upholile kunye noxinzelelo. Nika umntwana uneminyaka engama-6 ubudala ukuya kwi-tea ye-1. i-spoon, isikolo esikolweni esincinane - 2, umfundi weeklasi eziphakathi-3, kunye nomfundi ophakamileyo - ii-4 teas. iipuni 2-3 ngamaxesha phakathi kokutya.