Kutheni uphupha, usika njani izipikili zakho?
Ngokutsho kwengcaciso eyaziwa kakhulu yincwadi yephupha, oku kuthetha "ukusika" ezinye iimeko, ngokuqhelekileyo zifuna ukukhawuleza. Kodwa kunokuthetha nje ukuba umntu unomdla wokubonakala kunye nesimo emehlweni abo. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha isilumkiso esiphupha sinokunqunyulwa ngumntu onenkathazo eninzi. Xa umntu ebona oku, uya kufuneka asombulule iingxaki ngokwakhe, kuxhomekeke ngamandla akhe.
Kwaye ukujonga indlela izipikili ezinqumle omnye umntu kuthetha ukuba umntu kufuneka afunde kwezinye iimpazamo zabanye ukuze aphephe ubunzima kwixesha elizayo. Mhlawumbi, nguye owaba ligorha lombono wakho wobusuku, uya kukunceda ufumane amava obomi obuyimfuneko.
Ukulungisa izipikili zakho ephupheni - ukuzama ukulahla into engabonakaliyo, umzekelo, kwiingxaki ezingadingekile. Ingqondo engacatshulwayo njengokungathi iluleka ixesha elide ukuba uziphendulele ukuba uyayiqonda into ekufuneka iguqulwe.
Ukusika izipikili emilenzeni kunokuthetha ukunyakaza okungafunekiyo, kokubili ngokoqobo "ngeenyawo" kwaye ngokufuziselayo (ukutshintsha kwindlela yokuhamba). Kule meko, ukuba zide, ngoko ulinde ixesha elide. Yaye ukuba uthembeza izipikili emlenzeni komnye umntu, cinga ngako, mhlawumbi umsebenzi wakho ubiza ngaphezu kokuba ufumana. Kwaye umntu osika izipiko zakhe emilenzeni yakho, uya kwenza kube lula ukuba usebenze. Ukunciphisa i-marigold kumntwana-kwiinkxalabo kunye nokukhathalela.
Ezinye iinguqulelo
- Abaphuphayo bathi izipikili ezide zithembisa ubunzima obufanayo obude, kwixesha elide lokukhupha, kunye nexesha elide kakhulu kwiingxaki zemali, izinto ezingenakwenzeka. Kodwa futshane kuthetha indlela yokukhawuleza yokuxabana kunye neengxabano, ezidla ngokubangelwa ukunganakwa kwishishini. Xa umfazi ephupha, indlela esika ngayo izipikili zakhe, oku kuwuphawu lokuthengwa kwexabiso elizayo.
- Ukuqhawula izipikili kungaba ngumqondiso - ukuze udideke kunye nemicimbi ekhulelwe. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha umqondiso ontle, oku kuthetha ukulwa nokuchasene neengxaki, ezinokuthi zivelise iziphumo ezilungileyo. Kwaye ukujonga izikhonkwane eziphukileyo ezivela kwabanye abantu uthembisa ubunzima bokunxibelelana kuphela. Ukuchazwa kokulala, kanye imeko yesondlo sokubaluleka ibalulekile. Ukuba iyinto engcolileyo neyintlanzi, kufanelekile ukucinga ngeentlebo, ukuhleba kunye namazwi angaphezulu. Ukuvakalelwa kukuba neentloni ngenxa yezandla ezingahlanjululwayo kuthetha iintlungu ezifanayo kunye nomntu osapho.
- Ukuba izipikili zikhululekile, oku kubonisa ukuxhalaba ngenxa yokulwa. Kodwa ukuba zihle kwaye zikhangeleka ngokubonakalayo, ke lo ngumqondiso obonakalisa ukuba uqikelele ukuba uhleli kunye nomthandayo. Izipikili ezide kakuhle, ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha yekhulu lama-XXI-ukufumana ilifa.
- Ukuphula isilumkiso ephupheni kukuxhomekeka kwenguqu ebudlelwaneni. Ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha likaMiller, ikhonkwane ephukile yimiqondiso engathandekiyo, i-harbinger yehlazo okumele igwenywe, okanye ubunzima bezemali okumele kuthintele.
- Gnawing ephupheni le-marigolds ngumqondiso wokukhathazeka kumntu.
- Ukupenda izipikili ngumqondiso olungileyo; Iphupha elinjalo liphupha kubantu abaye endleleni eya ebomini obuhle kunye nokuchuma okupheleleyo. Umbala ubalulekile: ngoko, obomvu uhlale ephathekayo. Kwabanye umntu uphando lwe-betrothed, kunye nomntu-umzabalazo nesilingo. Izipikili ezimnyama zibandakanya iingcamango ezimnyama. Kufanelekile ukuthatha ingqondo yakho kwiimvakalelo ezibuhlungu ukuzonwabisa ubomi.
- Ukuqwalasela izipikili ephupheni kukuzisa umyalelo ebomini bakho. Iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukuba intombazana ilungele ukuqalisa intsapho yakhe.
Ekubeni ebomini bobugcisa bendima indima ebalulekileyo ekwenzeni umboniso oqhelekileyo womntu. Ngoko ke, qiniseka ukuba ucinga ngeemvakalelo zakho kunye neenkcukacha eziqhelekileyo zokulala apho ubeke khona okanye ulungise izipikili zakho.