Phantse kwisithathu sobomi bethu sonke esiyichitha ephupheni. Amanye amaphupha avelisa ingcamango ecacileyo kuthi kwaye sikhunjulwa ixesha elide, ngelixa ezinye zikhohliwe kusasa. Ngoxa belinde amaqhekeza, oomama abaninzi bokamva banamathele ngokukhethekileyo amaphupha abo, kwaye amaphupha wona ayashintsha kakhulu, kaninzi ayinto engavamile. Kwaye oku kuyinto engokwemvelo, kuba ukukhulelwa ngenye yexesha elibalulekileyo ebomini ngamnye umfazi. Ngeli xesha, kubangela ezininzi iimvakalelo ezingalindelekanga, iimvakalelo, ukubonwa ... Ngoko ke, unokuphupha ntoni ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwaye kukho na ukungaxhomeki ngokubaluleka okhethekileyo kuyo? Njengomthetho, izifundo zamaphupha zivela kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo: ukusuka kumfazi we-intrauterine amava ukuphindaphinda umcimbi weentsuku zedlulileyo. Makhe sixoxe ngezinto ezithandwa ngabasetyhini abasetyhini baze baphendule imibuzo ephakamileyo kumama ozayo ngokuphathelele kwimicimbi engaqhelekanga, enomdla, enomdla okanye yansuku zonke ephuphayo.
Ukuqala ukubiza
Xa ndingazange ndikwazi ngokukhulelwa kwam, ndaphupha ngentlanzi. Ndayazi ukuba leli phupha liliphi. Kutheni i intlanzi?
Ewe, ngokwenene, nogogo kunye nogogokazi bathi xa umfazi ephupha intlanzi, oku kukhulelwa. Ubulumko bexesha ngoku sele buqinisekisiwe ngokwesayensi. Umzimba wethu udlulisa ulwazi malunga nokukhulelwa okufike kwingqondo ngaphambi kokuba kufike ixesha lokuya esikhathini. Ngokwolu lwazi, ingqondo ihlinzeka umyalelo wokudlulisa zonke iinkqubo zomzimba kwindlela yokusebenza yokubeletha. Ngeli thuba, iimpawu ezithile zingabonakala ngamaphupha, zibonakalisa kwizinga elingaziwayo ukulungiswa kwakhona komzimba wesetyhini. Iimpawu ezinjalo ziba iintlanzi, iikiti, izilwanyana ezincinci okanye abantwana abancinane.
Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba xa umntu ephupha intlanzi, ukuqala kokukhulelwa kubonakala? Akunjalo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba intlanzi kungekuphela kwamaphupha okukhulelwa, eli fayile linokuba nezinye iinguqulelo. Ngomzuzu nje xa ulwazi malunga nokukhulelwa lufanelekile kumfazi, unjengokuthi ufumana le ngcaciso emfanekisweni anokukuqonda ngokucacileyo, kuba sele evile ngeentsingiselo zayo kumama, ugogo okanye intombi. Ukongezelela, umfanekiso weentlanzi awubonakali ngethuba: linye yeempawu ze-archtypal zobomi, ukususela ekuzalweni kokuqala kokukhulelwa.
Wazala indlovukazi ebusuku ...
Ndaphupha ngentombazana encinci emithathu. Wayegqoke iingubo ezintle zeentambo, eneentonga ezinwele zakhe. Kwiphupha, ndaqonda ukuba le yintombi yam yekamva. Kwaye iintsuku ezimbalwa emva koko ndafumana intombi eyanditshilo ephupheni ukuba ndiza kuba nenkwenkwe. Awukwazi ukubona iphansi ngeli-ultrasound. Yiyiphi iphupha enokuqwalaselwa ngokuchanekileyo?
Umbuzo ogqithisekayo owenziwa ngabafazi xa ndikhulelwa kukuqala: "Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukubona ulwabelana ngesondo lomntwana ozayo ephupheni?" Impendulo ilula kakhulu: uyabona, njengokuba siyazi ngaphambili, umzimba womama unolwazi malunga nawaphi amahomoni (abesilisa okanye abafazi) kubangelwa ngumntwana, kuba banesistim ejikelezayo, kodwa umntu akanakukubona .Izibalo zibonisa ukuba iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobungqina malunga nokuba ngubani oza kuzalelwa, inkwenkwe okanye intombazana, ihlala yintlonelo kuphela.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, umfazi ubona ephupheni umntwana ofunayo okanye engazange aziphathe ngesondo. Nangona akayiqondi ngokupheleleyo le nto kwaye uthi akakhathalele ukuba ngubani ozelweyo, eli phupha, njengomthetho, libonisa isimo sengqondo somama ngokwaso. Uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba amaphupha enomxholo ofana nawo amaninzi kula mabhinqa abaqaphelayo okanye abangazibandakanyi ngokubaluleka kwizesondo zexesha elizayo. Okokuthi, amaphupha anjalo abonakalisa ukubaluleka kwesihloko ngokwawo, kwaye kungekhona okwenene ngesondo lomntwana.
Ngaba konke oku kuthetha ukuba ibhinqa liya kukhululeka kunye nomntwana "wesondo ongakhethiweyo"? Ewe, hayi! Loo maphupha abonisa kuphela ukucinga okungenalwazi kumama ozayo, kungekhona isimo sengqondo somntwana wangempela. , ngokugqithiseleyo, kodwa oomasa kwixesha labo amaphupha unomama kakhulu "awela entweni yenkomo" kwaye ngokufanelekileyo uyibone ephupheni ngesondo lomntwana ongakazalwa.
Ngaba uya kuphupha oku!
Ndinephupha elandithusa kakhulu. Ndabona umntwana, kodwa xa ndiza kuye, wayeyidonsa. Ndamzama ukumvusa waza ndaqala ukumgubha. Ngaba kukho into engalunganga ngayo umntwana wam?
Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, abasetyhini banamaphupha apho banenkxalabo malunga nomntwana, banenkxalabo malunga nemeko yempilo yakhe, bayesaba ukumlimaza okanye ukuziva bexhalabile. Amaphupha anjalo abonisa uxhalaba lomama ozayo kunye nomnqweno wokukhusela umntwana. Ukuxhalabisa okwenyukayo kuhambelana nemeko yokukhulelwa: ngeli xesha, ngokukodwa kwi-trimester yokuqala, ibhinqa liye lanyuka ukhathazeka ngenxa yesimo sakhe kunye nemeko yengxaki yomzimba. Awudingi ukunika amaphupha ukubaluleka okukhulu. Xoxa neentombi zakho ezisandul 'ukuza kwaye uzakufunda ukuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa loo maphupha aqhelekanga, kodwa abaphazamisi ukunyamezela nokuhanjiswa kwengane.
Phishekela
Ndihlala ndiphupha ukuba umntu undigxotha, intliziyo yam ibetha ngamandla, ndiyagijima kwaye kunzima ukuba ndiphefumule. Yintoni le nto ithetha ntoni?
Iqhinga leendlela zanamhlanje ekuchazeni iphupha lidla ngokubhekiselele ekubonakalisweni kwimeko yendalo. Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ingakumbi kwi-trimester yesithathu, ngenxa yokukhula komntwana, ukuphefumula kumama kunokuba nzima, ngamanye amaxesha inqanaba lentliziyo landa. Ngethuba lokulala, iimpawu ezisuka emzimbeni ziyaqhubeka zingena engqondweni kwaye zivele phambi kwethu ngendlela yamaphupha axhalabileyo: ukuvavanywa kwengcinezelo, ubunzima, ukuphalaza, njl njl. Kwenzeka ukuba kula maphupha kukho amabali anxulumene nokuvakalelwa kwinqanaba lesisu, umzekelo, ukuphupha malunga nenyanga. Ebudeni bemihla, iimpawu ezibuthathaka ezivela kwi-uterus ekhulayo zingaphantsi komda weembono zethu, kodwa ebusuku, ephupheni, zenza indlela yazo kule fomu.
Umthendeleko weentaba!
Ndaphupha ukuba ndaya kwi-buffet kwaye ndaqala ukubeka ukutya kwisitya. Ndibeka ukutya okuninzi, kwaye andinakuyeka - ndifumana indlala enamandla. Emva koko andinakufumana indawo yokuhlala phantsi ndize ndiyidle, kunye nokutya kwiplani iyavumba kakhulu kwaye iyinambitha, ukuba ndifa nje ngendlala.
Ngethuba lokukhulelwa zonke izitho zengqondo ziyahlaziywa. Ixesha elizayo umama uhlala ebona ubuchule obukhethekileyo bokunuka, ukhethe izinto ezithandayo, ngamava ngokubanzi ukwandisa ukuvakalelwa kwemvakalelo yomzimba.
Ukubonakaliswa okunjalo yimiphumo yokuhlengahlengiswa kwendalo, bonke abasebenzayo ngeli xesha lijolise ekudaleni iimeko ezifanelekileyo kumntwana. Ngokomzekelo, umama olindelekileyo kufuneka akhethe ukutya ngokucophelela ukuze ambonelele ngesondlo kunye nazo zonke izondlo kunye neemavithamini ezifunekayo, kwaye oku kuncedwa kukuxakeka kwento evumbayo.
Ukongeza, amaninzi amabhinqa akhangela ukwanda kwindlala, ngokukodwa kwisiqingatha sesibini sokukhulelwa, okungenako ukuchaphazela umxholo wamaphupha. Ukuba ephupheni silambile, siphupha izinto ezahlukeneyo zokutya. Kwaye ukuba ngaba ngezinye iinkqubo zikhona "iimveliso" ezingavunyelwe, apho umama ozayo ngenxa yezizathu ezithile unyanzelekile ukuba anqabe ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ngoko aqale ukuphupha njalo, kumaphupha anjalo kukho ukwaneliseka okwenzisayo kweemfuno zikamama.
Lowo owaziwayo ngaphandle
Andikuliphupha ngomntwana wam esizayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngamaphupha am, andiziboni. Ndixelele, ngaba oku kuqhelekileyo?
Nqabile njengoko kubonakala ngathi, umntwana ozayo kunye neemeko zokukhulelwa abambalwa abone abafazi besesikhundla. Amaphupha anjalo aqhelekileyo kubomama sele sele benabantwana. Kubonakala ukuba oku kubangelwa ukuba ukuvela kwamava omama kwenza kube lula ukudala ingcamango yomntwana ozayo. Ngendlela, amaxesha amaninzi abantwana baphupha uhlobo oluthile lwezithombe ezilandelayo: ama-kittens, amantombazane nezinye izilwanyana ezincinci.
Ubukho bamava buchaphazela neendlela zanamhlanje ukuchazwa kwephupha lokubeleka: abafazi abangenanto abayithandi ukuba bazalwe, kwaye iingcamango zabo malunga nesiganeko esondelayo zihlala ziguqulwa zibe yibali malunga nokubamba umntwana ezandleni zabo okanye ukuthambisa umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa.
Ukuba awuphupha nantoni na
Ndandisoloko ndiphethe amaphupha aqaqambileyo, kodwa iiveki ezimbalwa ngoku andizange ndibone iphupha elinye. Kungekudala, andilali kakuhle. Mhlawumbi oku kuhambelana nexesha lokukhulelwa (iiveki ezingama-38)?
Kakade ke, amaphupha aqhubeka ephupha. Ngoku nje abakhunjulwayo. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Isizathu sokuqala sokuba abantu bangazikhumbuli amaphupha ukukhathala okuqokelelwe emini. Xa ukhathele ngumntu, ukhumbula amaphupha ambalwa. Akumangalisi ukuba ngalezi zihlandlo zokukhulelwa ude ukhathele ngaphezu kokuqhelekileyo. Isizathu sesibini sisitshintsho kulwalamano phakathi kwezigaba zokulala kumama ozayo. Kwi-trimester yesithathu, abasetyhini balele ngokubalulekayo, ukulala kunye nokulala kwangaphakathi. Ukulala nokuvuka komama kudibaniswe nolawulo lomntwana, kwaye umzimba womfazi ulungele le nto ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Ukukhulelwa kubonakala kulungele ukuphendula ngokucacileyo kwimpawu ezisuka kumntwana, nakwiphupha. Ngeli xesha, isigaba sokuphupha ngamaphupha sifutshane, kwaye amaphupha angaba ngumzobo, angabikho, kwaye ke akakhunjulwa.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, nokuba yintoni na, khumbulani ukuba ngoku wena kunye nosana kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthula konina wam nomoya. Ungakulibali ukuba amaxesha amaninzi amaphupha ayingcamango yemiba yethu yemihla ngemihla, kwaye zama ukucinga ngokuphindaphindiweyo malunga noko kukunika umdla. Jabulela amaphupha akho!