Kukho imigaqo emininzi yokuba umntwana wakho kufuneka ukuba azi.
1. Ungalokothi uxoxe nabantu abadala baze bagqibe ingxoxo yabo.
2. Ukuba umntu akanakulungiswa ukuthetha okanye nje akafuni ukuthetha, akufuneki ukuba umntu amkhathaze.
3. Awukwazi ukumemeza kwiindawo zoluntu, phawula ngomunwe wakho.
4. Ngaphandle kwemvume, ungathathi nto into engekho kuwe. Kuphela ngemvume kunye nemvume.
5. Awukwazi ukuthatha izinto ezivela kubantu abangaziwa okanye izinto abanikela zona.
6. Uhlala ufuna ukwabelana nenani labantu onalo.
7. Awukwazi ukulungiselela amakhohlisi kubazali ukuba abazange bathenge into ethile kuwe, kufuneka nje ucele yona kwaye ngexesha xa benethuba, baya kukuthenga oko ucele.
8. Ukuba ubuzwa umbuzo, kufuneka uhlale uphendula.
9. Awukwazi ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kwindlu.
10. Awukwazi ukuphosa izinto ezungeze indlu. Njalo kufuneka ikwazi ukubeka zonke izinto kwindawo zazo.
Ewe, kukho imigaqo emininzi kwaye kwintsapho nganye bayabo. Kwaye umzekelo obaluleke kakhulu, ukuba sifuna ukubona abantwana bethu behloniphekile kwaye balungile, singabantwana. Kufuneka, okokuqala, sibuyele kuthi. Sinokuziphatha njani ekhaya? Sinokuziphatha njani xa si tyelela? Umntwana kufuneka akhuliswe kumzekelo wethu.
Kwaye ukuba sifuna ukufezekisa kumntwana imigaqo yokuziphatha, okokuqala sifanele siphile ngale mithetho ngokwethu. Emva kwexesha, umntwana wakho uya kuqonda konke oku.
Hlalani nenyameko kubantu abakuzungezile kunye nabantu abasondele kuwe.