Ukongezelela ekuphuculweni kokomoya, umculo uphinde ube negalelo ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo. EJapan, uvavanyo lwaluqhutyelwa, ngeliphi iiklasi zomculo ezaqhutyelwa kwelinye lamaqela eenkulisa, nakwelinye iqela, lifana neqela, cha.
Kamva kwavela ukuba abo bantwana ababenomdla babenomdla ogqithiseleyo, ukuba bazikhumbuza ngokukhawuleza izinto ezintsha kunye nokufunda okungcono kunabantwana ababengenalo izifundo zomculo. Imimangaliso enjalo, eyenziwa yimimculo yomculo, ichazwa yinyaniso yokuba ngenxa yempembelelo entle kwingqondo, ukuxhamla phakathi kweeseliti ze-nerve kwenziwa.
Ixesha elibaluleke kakhulu ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo kunye nenkqubo yesantya yiminyaka yokuqala yesithandathu yobomi bentsha. Yingakho kuyimfuneko ukuqala ukuphuculwa komculo kwangoko msinyane.
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zaqinisekisa ukuba xa uhlamba okanye uphulaphule kuphela iingoma, xa i-crumb isesiswini somama, emva kokuzalwa umntwana uya kubabona kwaye kunokuba ahlale ezolile.
Kukulungele ukuba i-carapuse ibone umculo phambi kokulala okanye ngokukhawuleza emva kokuvuswa. Ingongoma kukuba ngaloo mihla abantwana banesidingo esikhulu senkxaso yemoya. Emva koko baya ekuncedeni iingoma eziqhelekileyo kunye nezivakalayo: zizolile kwaye zinike ingqiqo yokhuselo kunye nokhuseleko.
Kwaba bethu okhulu-ugogo-bazala baqonda ukuba ukuba uhlabelela i-lullaby kumntwana-uya kuhlalisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye alele. Kwaye umculo unako ukukunceda ukugqithisa kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, umzekelo, xa i-colic ixhatshazwa kwisisu, inyoyi iyaxhalabisa, okuyiyo ukugawula enye.
Ewe, iingoma zeLlalaby ekusebenzeni kukaMama zona zilungele ukunika umntwana wakho. Kodwa ingoma iya kuba nefuthe elihle kuphela xa kukunika uvuyo. Ukuba ucasulwa ngento ethile, ngoko i-karapuz ivakalelwa ngokukhawuleza. Hlalani nisoloko xa nifuna kwaye nicula into oyithandayo: xa uhlamba, utshintshe iimpahla, yondla umntwana. Akunjalo ngexesha elifanayo ukuqinisekisa ukuba ingqalelo imivumba yayijoliswe kuphela ekuculeni kwakho. Ingane inokudlala kuphela kuloo mzuzu.
Ngokuqinisekileyo unomdla, yeyiphi impawu yomculo eya kuba nefuthe elihle kwi karapuza yakho. Iiklasi, i-jazz, ithandwa okanye enye into? Iingcali malunga nalokhu zithetha ukuba kuya kuba bhetele kumntwana ukuba uyazi ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kakade, oku akuthethi ukuba i-crumb ifanele ifake iqela elinzima nentsimbi - konke kulungile ngokumodareyitha. Into eyona nto kukuphulaphula umculo kwaye unikezele kumama nomntwana ubuninzi bokuzonwabisa.
Musa ukulibala malunga neetayiti zomculo, ezi zikhoyo kwiimarike kakhulu. Ukususela ekuzalweni, unako ukuxhoma imfono yomculo phezu kwesikhalazo somntwana. Uya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza ejikeleze i-axis yakhe kumculo othakazelisayo. Inqabileyo enemihlali enkulu iya kujonga izilwanyana ezincinci. Njengoko umntwana ekhula, kuya kubakho ukuthabatha amanye amathoyizi afanelekileyo kwixesha elide: amathoyizi "amaculo" athambileyo, amabhokisi omculo kunye nezixhobo, nabanye.
I-karapuzy eninzi kakhulu enjengokudansa ngexesha kunye nomculo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uphakathi kwabo, ke oku kupholile kwaye kufuneka unikeze ithuba lokuhamba phantsi kwengoma rhoqo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukuba umntwana usayazi indlela yokuhamba nokudanisa, ke udanisa eduze kwakhe, ubonise ukunyakaza okutsha, kwaye ukuba umntwana usemncinci kakhulu, ngoko uyithabathe ezandleni zakho kwaye udansa naye. Ukuzivocavoca okunjalo akugcini nje ukuphakamisa isimo sengqondo kunye nokuhlawula ngokufanelekileyo, kodwa nokuphuhlisa ukuva, imemori kunye nokulungelelaniswa kwezinto.