Umzimba onobuhle, onempilo, olungele kakuhle
Okokuqala, bahlangana kwiingubo. Ingaphandle yinto ebalulekileyo yintoni esibheka ngayo njengento ehlaselayo okanye ekhangayo. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba abantu ababukeka benomdla banethuba elikhulu lokuphumelela, xa kuthelekiswa nalabo abakhutheleyo ngokwabo. Indoda ezithandayo "yedwa" kwaye ngubani oziqhenyayo ngesisu sayo esikhulu senyosi - ebuthakathaka, akayikuqhuba iqabane lakhe elide elinemilenze kwiindawo zokutyela ezinokungcebeleka kwamanye amazwe, kodwa zihlala kwiingubo ezisezantsi. Ukuba umntu unamandla, uhlala etyelela i-gym, uhlala ehlola yena kunye nempilo yakhe, uya kulungelelanisa "olwabelana ngesondo" kuye.
Izambatho zendlela
Izambatho zamadoda njengowomzimba wesibini, uhlala ubamba isohlo kwintlanganiso yokuqala, kuyinto engokwemvelo, ukuba awuqhelani nayo echibini okanye elunxwemeni. Njengomphumo we-muzhchinas ephumelelayo, umntu unokubona ngeempahla ezikhethiweyo kwaye ezikhethiweyo kakuhle, ezifihla ngobuchule iimpazamo zeli nani kwaye igxininise isidima sayo. Unako ukugqoka izinto eziphezulu, kungekhona kwimizila eyaziwayo. Kodwa into eyona nto kukuba ayikho impahla yabathengi, igxinwe kwisiseko seemarike ngabafuduki. Unesimo sakhe, angabi ukumemeza, angaboni, kodwa ulandele ngokugqibeleleyo imfashini yefashini yakutshanje. Esigubungwini sakhe kukho isitifiketi esihle kakhulu, kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zemozulu, kukho iimbini zeekhati ezifanelekileyo kunye naziphi na izihlandlo, i-sweaters, i-trousers.
Ngokwemvelo, amadoda ahlala esinika inkathazo enomdla kubantu, ngokuqhelekileyo awela kuma-stylists amnandi kunye nekontraver ezayo kunye ne-orientation. Ngoko ke, umsebenzi womfazi kukunceda amadoda ekukhetheni iimpahla. Ngubani, ukuba ingekho intombazana, unokubona ukuba i-nasam empeleni iya kumfana kwaye imenza ibe namandla kangangoko. Udinga ukuthatha iipenki zakho ezimangalisayo, khokela umthandi wakho kwiindawo ezilungileyo, unobtrusively ukuphakamisa oko ungathanda ukukubona kuyo. Musa ukulibala ukuba ukhetho lomntu kufuneka luyenze kwaye, ewe, mdumise rhoqo!
Imiba yomfanekiso
Kwinqanaba elidlulileyo kukungeza iintlobo ezimbalwa ezigunyazisiweyo, ukukhupha umntu kunye nazo zonke iigiblets. Le ngxube yexesha, umlindi, iisokisi, izicathulo, isikhwama, isikhwama, iingubo, i-tie. Yithi, kuluhlaza ukugqoka kwiingubo zikaJacob Bond, okanye kwi-towels, ngelixa ubeka ii-socks eziluhlaza kakhulu, iinqanawa ezincinci zesiTshayina okanye ikhonkco elikhulu elingenasiphelo kunye nomnqamlezo omkhulu, kunye umshumayeli weSwitzerland. Zonke ezi nkcukacha zimele zibe yingqiqo, umgangatho, ngokufanelekile kumfanekiso.
Ukuchaneka nokuchaneka ngokubonakala
Iphuzu lesine esiza kuqhubeka sicinga ngalo: kumntu ophumelelayo konke kufuneka kuphelele, kwinto yonke into encinane. Iveki, iveki edlulileyo, ihembe, iphunga lesifungo, i-otrosshie izipikili-zonke ezi zikhupha umphefumlo wecala lomfazi, njengegosa lezithethe eziqaphileyo, iingqondo ezingenzi kakuhle kumadoda (ininzi ixesha elithathayo ngaphandle kwamadoda abantu, awaziyo kwaye ingakumbi ayithandanga). Ewe, ukuba "unxilisayo" unobunono kakhulu kwimicimbi yokuhlamba izicathulo okanye ukuxilisa, le nkqubo iya kufuneka ifakwe kwiimilinganiselo zakho ezibuthathaka. Kuya kubakho okuchanekileyo: xa sibona umntu okhangeleka (kungekhona nakubheqa), sicinga ngento eyenziwa ngumfazi wakhe, ukhangeleka kuphi? Inqununu yabasetyhini yokugcina ucoceko kwizinto zamadoda.
Kubalulekile kwakhona ukuba umyalelo womntu ophumelelayo ulawula kuyo yonke indawo: kwi-suitcase yokuhamba, kunye nediski, kunye nemoto.
Ukuthetha kunye nokuzithemba lonke ixesha
Ngokubonakala ngathi, sibonakala sihambe ngaphaya kwexesha, ngoku siyakwazi ukuthetha ngento ebalulekileyo njengengxolo yendoda. Indoda ephumelelayo iyabumnandi kakhulu ekunxibelelaneni, iyazi ngokwabo malunga nemithetho yomthetho. Wayehlukanisa iimpawu ezinjengokuziphatha, ukuthembeka, ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka nokuzithemba.
Ndifuna ukuphawula ukuba oku kuxhomekeke kuthi. Ukuba ufuna ukuba indoda yakho ihlonipheke, ihlakaniphile kwaye iselula, wena ngokwakho kufuneka ube yileyo.
Ngenye icala lempumelelo
Indoda ephumelelayo ininzi yakhe inguqulelo, kwaye nayiphi na intombi ayifuniyo ukumthobela, yenza iimpazamo, kodwa ihamba rhoqo emva kwayo. Izithethe ezinjalo zigcinwa kumazwe asempuma: akukho mntu akanakuphikisana nembono yendoda - uhlala echanekileyo, kwaye lona wesifazane unelungelo lokuqonda, intuition kunye nobuqili. Kwili hlabathi lanamhlanje, ngelishwa, baninzi abantu abancinci kumadoda abangagcini ilizwi labo, abakwazi ukuthatha uxanduva loxanduva. Nangona uphumelele kakuhle, impumelelo yangaphandle yentlalo, abaninzi bala madoda ngaphakathi kwabo bancinane. Emva kokufikelela kwinqanaba elithile lempumelelo, bawela umgca othile, kunye kunye ne "inkwenkwezi zabo" banenani elikhulu lomtshato kunye nezibophelelo zesithathu, abaxanduva lwabantwana babo. Ngenxa yoko, elinye ibhinqa liyesaba ukuba lihambe emva kwendoda enjalo, ininzi yabasetyhini kulo mzekelo baqala ukuzama ukuzinelisa.
Imali enkulu - zilingo ezinkulu
Izimpawu ezingapheliyo zamandla zidumo, udumo, kunye nakwabaseTyhini aba sisisigxina esincinci sokuthi "ndiya kuba nabantwana abaphumelelayo nabaphumelelayo," "ukuba umntu uphumelele kakhulu, ngoko unamandla kakhulu", "akanako ukuthatha indawo yokugqibela kuluntu , kuthetha ukuba akayi kutya ukuhamba nobomi. " Nangona kunjalo, abantu abazityebi ngexesha lethu babangela ukwesaba okukhulu. Uninzi lwabasetyhini lukhetha umntu ofumana umyinge ongaphantsi kwentsapho kunye nolwalamano olunzulu. Abantu abanemali eninzi baphila ngokupheleleyo kwimigaqo eyahlukeneyo, kwihlabathi elibiweyo, abakwazi ukunyamezela imithintelo emininzi. Akuyi kuba yintlonelo kwintombazana eklasini ephantsi kunye nendoda yeli klasi - lo ngumbuzo omkhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amadoda anjalo ayavuya xa efumana iqabane labo. ungqongqo, ongayi kumnika ithuba "lokusula iinyawo zakhe," ukunyamezela ukunyaniseka kwakhe ngenxa yemali. Ngokwemvelo, kukho ukungafani, apho ubudlelwane obumanyeneyo bomtshato obuninzi obunokutshatyalaliswa buhlala ixesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, abafazi abanjalo kufuneka benze umsebenzi wengqondo ngokwabo, babe namandla kwaye bangabi noluvo oluvakalayo.