Ukulungiswa komntwana esikolweni: imithetho emihlanu kubazali

Umhla wokuqala kaSeptemba umgcini-mhlaba wokuqala ukuqala kwesigaba esitsha sokuphila: imeko engaqhelekanga, iqoqo engaqhelekanga, imisebenzi emininzi. Indlela yokulungiselela umntwana esikolweni ngaphandle kokubangela ukukhanyela kunye neurosisisi? Iingcali zengqondo zikhuthaza abazali ukuba bafunde imithetho emihlanu elula eya kunceda ukulungiselela ukulungelelanisa. I-axiom yokuqala uyilo lwengaphakathi "yesikolo" ekamelweni: oku kuya kukhawuleza ukuzaliswa kweenguqu kunye nokunciphisa umthwalo kwi-psyche yengane. Isikhala sihlukaniswe kwimida emininzi-yomsebenzi, ukudlala nokuzonwabisa -kuvumela umntwana ukuba alandele umyalelo wedwa.

Umgaqo wesibini umonde nokunyamekela. I-jum's graduate ye-kindergarten isenzima ukujamelana nokuvela ngokukhawuleza kwexanduva. Musa ukusoloko ubeka ityala ngaye.

Umgaqo wesithathu ulawulo olufanelekileyo lolawulo lwemihla ngemihla. Kwishedyuli kufuneka kubekho ixesha lokufunda kuphela, kodwa kunye nokuhamba, ukunxibelelana kunye noontanga kunye neeklasi ezihambayo.

Umgaqo wesine ngumphumo wesigqibo wesithathu. Izinto zokuzilibazisa ezibalulekileyo ziyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bomgcini-mhlaba wokuqala: ishishini elithandayo lifaka kwaye lidibanisa izakhono, likufundisa ukuba ubeke iinjongo kwaye ufezekise ukuzaliseka kwazo.

I-axiom yesihlanu kukudalwa kwesithuba somntu. Umntwana uqala ukukhula kunye nomsebenzi wabazali kukumxhasa ngokuzithemba kule ndlela enzima.