Kodwa nangona into ephumelele kakhulu, inganikelwa ngokungafanelekanga, ingalahlekelwa yinto yonke ekugqibeleni iyakhupha intombazana yayo. Kuyamnandi ukuba le pateni isebenza kunye nangendlela efanayo: ukuba awukwazi ukufumana isipho esibizayo, ngoko into engabalulekanga ingaba isipho esinobuqiliba xa uyilungiselela ngenkqubo efanelekileyo.
Inyaniso Yenkunzi.
Nangona ukuba le mithetho yokunika isipho sele isele ijikeleze ihlabathi ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwiincwadi ezininzi zezifundo zengqondo, imigaqo yokuziphatha kunye neendlela zokuziphatha, kunye namaphephancwadi athandwayo, amadoda aphikisana nesilwanyana esaziwayo ayaqhubeka engayithobeli le miqathango ecacileyo. Ngoko, njani ukunika isipho intombazana, ukuze ungamcaphukisi?
Okokuqala, umbuzo obuhlungu ngawo onke amaxesha: oko kukunika. Awukwazi ukunika into eyanikezelwa kumnikeli ngokwakhe. Unganiki nantoni na izinto ezinokudityaniswa nentombazana eneziphene zayo. Izidakamizwa ezichasayo, i-cream-cellulite ukhilimu, i-balm ye-skin, i-gel ehlambulukileyo yesikhumba sengxaki, i-ointment ngokumelene ne-acne, njl. Ngokuqhelekileyo, izimonyo zeentombazana ukuba zinikwe, ngoko-njengesiphoso sokuqala esifana nesichazizo sokuzikhethela ngezizathu zokukhetha oko kukuthi isifundo esithile. Akunakwenzeka ukuba intombazana iya kuqonda isipho, isitifiketi esingakhange sinikezelwe kwendima enjalo. Iziyobisi, izixhobo zokubhema, izixhobo ezincinci zendlu, njl njl. Konke lokhu-kuye ngokwakhe, ayikwazi ukuqonda iimpawu zakhe ezikhethekileyo, iimfuno, iimpawu zobuntu. Le ntombazana iya kukhubeka kunokuba ikholise.
Okwesibini, xa kunika-umbuzo obaluleke ngakumbi kunabanikeli ngokwabo. Umzuzu okufuneka ukhethe okulungileyo, okufanelekileyo, ukulungele intombazana. Akukho mfuneko yokuvusa umthandi ngehora lesi-7 kusasa ukumnika ithikithi yesikhokelo sokuhlwaya. Uya kuvuyiswa ukuba ukhona, ngokokuhlwa-ukuhlala kulo mboniso, mhlawumbi mhlawumbi, sele ekho ngaphandle kwekhwavalier efunwa ngaphambili, owamcaphukisa ekuseni. Ukubonisa isipho ngokuchanekileyo, kufuneka ukhethe ixesha apho uya kuhlala eyedwa, uya kuba nomoya omhle kwaye akayi kuphazamiseka kwisenzo sokunika iingcinga kunye namava akhe. Umzuzu ofanelekileyo phambi kokuba wonke umntu aqale amnike izipho (ukuba ngumhla wokuzalwa wakhe okanye enye iholide ekuhloniphekeni kwakhe) okanye emva kokufumana isipho sokugcina kubahlobo-abahlobo, abahlobo, izihlobo.
Ngaba, ngokwenene, ukunika izipho intombazana?
Impendulo yalo mbuzo, eqinisweni, iyancitshiswa kwiimfuno ezintathu: ngesibindi, ngokuzithemba, ngokumomotheka. Kodwa ininzi yala madoda ayanele. Ukumkothula kwabo kukhangela i-curve encinane, isibindi siphuphuma kwindawo ethile, xa amehlo abanye ephendukela kuye, kwaye amehlo akhe aqala ukwenza izenzo ezingalawulwayo, ephuma kwikona elinye kwigumbi ukuya kwelinye.
Enyanisweni, kwanele ukuqonda inyaniso elula, ukuze ungesabi ukunika isipho intombazana yakho ethandekayo. Naluphi na ubuhlobo phakathi kwakhe nomthandi wakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bahlala baqhelana kangakanani na, nokuba kwenzekani phakathi kwabo izolo - nganye intombazana ilindele isipho esivela kukhethiweyo wakhe. Kuye, akubalulekanga kakhulu ukuba yintoni ngempela isipho (ukuba asiyisifundo esiyingozi kuye, ngokuqinisekileyo), njengokuba yinyani yokufumaneka kwayo. Wayesele wamkela esi sipho kwangaphambili, wayenomdla kunye naye waza wabuyela umbulelo wokwamkela ukufumana kwakhe. Kwaye iimvakalelo zakhe zokwenene malunga nesi sipho, okhethiweyo akasazi ukuphela kweeholide. Ngako oko, kwaye akukho nto iyoyiko. Kuyafana nezipho ezizenzekelayo, zonke iintombazana ezizilindele ngasese kwiqabane lakhe, kodwa ohlala emmangalisa ngezinto ezingenakwenzeka. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, uya kulonwaba kunye nesenzo sokuqwalasela, kwaye ukuba isipho sonyulwa kuye kunye nengcamango yakhe, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuyiva kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuphendula ngesimo esifudumele kwisipho. Injabulo yakhe kwinkqubo yokunika indoda kuphela ibeka intanda yakhe kwisimo esibuhlungu. Kwaye ukuba ngaleso sikhashana ubonisa ukungaqiniseki, ke wonke umntu ojikelezayo uyacaca: akazange achithe ixesha elaneleyo lokukhetha isipho, ngoku akaqinisekanga ngempumelelo yakhe.
Awukwazi ukufihla amehlo akho, ukunika intombi yakho isipho. Ekugqibeleni, emva koko, wazinikela ixesha elininzi, amandla kunye nengcamango ekukhethiweyo. Ngoko akufanelekile ukuyiqonda umphumo wenzame eyenziweyo-ukukhanya kwayo kwamehlo ama-crystal amaqabunga? Ukuthetha intetho ehamba phambili, ngaphambi kokuba unike izipho, kufuneka kwakhona ukuba ukhululeke kwaye ucoceke, ukuze akwazi ukuva, bonke abadlulayo kunye nabadlulayo. Emva koko, wayeyilungiselela la mazwi. Wayecinga ngeemvakalelo zakhe xa ebhala umbhalo, waphupha ukumncoma kwakhe, xa ebhala iingconywa, wamkhumbula xa ebeka iingcamango zakhe ngokucacileyo, ngamazwi acacileyo.
Iindlela ezilungileyo zokunika isipho intombazana.
Zisebenzise amanani amakhulu amadoda aphumelele ukunqoba ukwesaba kwabo kwangaphakathi kunye nokungabaza, kwaye ufunde indlela yokuphatha amantombazana ngokuchanekileyo kwisitala apho ulwabelana ngesondo olubi. Enyanisweni, phakathi kwabameli abanjalo kwisigxina esinamandla sabantu kukho phantse kuphela i-smoothies. Kodwa yintoni ekhusela ukusebenzisa amava abo aluncedo - umzekelo, kumbuzo wendlela yokunika isipho kumfazi-wena?
Ngoko, amaqhawe amawaka eemvanoveli zothando abanikeza izipho kubalandeli babo abaninzi? Okokuqala, asimele sikhohlwe ukuba isizathu sokunikela singabi nje ngeeholide zaseklasini - usuku lomhlaba wonke lwabasetyhini, uNyaka omtsha, usuku lokuzalwa, usuku lokuzalwa, njl. Ngaloo ntsuku intombazana ifumana izipho ezininzi kwaye zichasene nezifiso zayo, enikezelwe kuye intanda yakhe, inokuthi ilahleke kwinqaba yezinye izinto ezifunyenweyo. Yintoni eya kuba yinto ekhangelekileyo isipho esingalindelekanga, esifikelelwe kumhla ohlobene kuphela nolwalamano lwabo. Into emncinci emancinci ngembeko yeentsuku ezili-10 ukususela kumhla wokuqala wokubanga, isikhumbuzo esifanelekileyo, njengesikhumbuzo soMvulo wokuqala emva kokuhlukana okude. Nayiphi na into ingaba ngumhla wokuqala kweso sihlandlo sokubonisa isipho. Kwaye akukho phantse akukho mfazi onokumelana naloo mma ngaliso.
Okwesibini, ukunika izipho ngokungalindelekanga: ukuvusa ukutya kwasekuseni kwakho okuthandayo, ukubuya esitolo kwimizuzu engama-20 kamva kunokuba uthembise, kunye naphakathi kwegama lakhe malunga nefilimu ebonwayo nje. Naliphi na umzuzu apho umfazi engalindelanga isipho kuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo kwintetho yakhe. Kodwa ngaphandle kokutshutshisa, ngokuqinisekileyo: umkhathaze nge-anyanisi ebukhali, ukuxubha inaliti kwiso, ukuhlutha, njl., - ukwenzela ukuba ubonise ijoka elixhambileyo, akufanelekanga.