Ukuchaswa kuyisihloko esinzima kubazali abaninzi. Ukungaphumeleli kubhekiselele kwimpikiswano - ecacileyo okanye efihlakeleyo - edla ngokukhawuleza ngezinyembezi, amahlazo, ukungathobeli kunye neenkwenkwezi zomntwana othandekayo. Umama noTata bazama ngamandla ukuba bavumelane, bangela ukuba baqonde, bahlambele ngokungakhathaleli baze bahambe kunye ne-blackmail - kodwa kaninzi akunamsebenzi. Yintoni - shiya yonke into? Iingcali zengqondo zengqondo zabantwana zifuna ukuba kudingeke ukuba zithi "hayi", kodwa kufanelekile ukwenza okulungileyo.
Yiba njalo. Uzinzo luyi-axiom apho kunzima ukuphikisa. Isikhundla somzali kufuneka sihlale siqinile, ngoko umntwana uya kuqwalaselwa nayo. Xa uthethe "cha" ngokuqinisekileyo kanye, awuyikudibanisa umntwana - kulula kakhulu ukuba amkele ukugatya okusisigxina kunokuba kukho izigqibo ezininzi ezinokuthandabuza.
Ukujonga imeko. Umntu omdala uhlala ethembele kuye ngokwakhe kwaye ekuthinteleni kwakhe - yingakho emva ngokuzithoba nangenene. Izwi elikhulayo, ukukhungatheka, iimvakalelo ezingadingekile, ukuvutha komsindo, ubundlobongela - uphawu lobuthathaka. Unokwesaba, kodwa awukwazi ukuwahlonela. Zama ukuhlala uziphatha ngokuthintela, umntwana uyaqonda ukuphikisana kwangaphakathi kunokuba kubonakale kubantu abadala.
Musa ukuvusa. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba i-childish shams - ingabonakali okanye inzame yokukhangela ingqwalasela, kodwa ukuvukela kwangempela ukungabi nabulungisa. Inkqubo enobuhlungu kunye nelokushiya inqatshulwa yindlela efanelekileyo yokukhusela umntwana ongavumelekanga. Khumbula: "Ndathi njalo" kwaye "ngenxa yokuba ndimdala" - engavumelani neengxabano ngenxa yokwenqaba. "Ndiyayiqonda indlela oyifunayo ngayo, kodwa hayi, kuba ..." izandile ngcono.