Ngoko, imfashini - umendo, ukuthatha imvelaphi ye-couturier. Ngubo abanikeza "isiqalo ebomini" kulolu hlobo okanye olo hlobo lweengubo kunye nezicathulo, kwizixhobo ezahlukeneyo. Namhlanje, abafazi bathanda imfashini, kubalulekile kubo: ngaba ngabayilaphi abayilayo namhlanje, bazama ukufanisana nefashoni.
Isimboso sinxulumene ngqo nembonakalo yethu, kodwa isahluke ngokuthe ngqo kwimbono "yefashoni" - ayikho ihlabathi jikelele. Ngoko, kuya kuba ngumkhangeli ongeyintombazana eyayijikeleze i-boutique, yathenga zonke iingubo eziphathekayo kwaye yayihlotshiswe ngeengubo ezivela kwihlabathi lempahla yezinto zokugqoka. Isitayela kukukwazi ukudibanisa, ukudala umfanekiso ococekileyo, ongabonakaliyo, kodwa ukhathazeka kakhulu.
Ubuhle kunye nayo yonke ingqiqo ecacileyo kwaye ingunaphakade, njengehlabathi. Emva koko, wonke umntu unalo ubuhle. Kukho, kunjalo, oko kuthiwa "imigangatho yobuhle". Sithetha malunga neerameters "90-60-90" kwaye ukuxhamla ngoku kuyaxhomekeka. Kodwa ngaba wonke umntu onje? Ibhinqa lihle kakhulu njengoko indoda enhle icinga, kwaye ayifuni ukuthanda imilenze emilitha emitha kunye nesinqe esivumelwane kakhulu ukuze ingaphuli ...
Yiyiphi "ubuhle", kwaye kutheni enendawo ekhethekileyo kwinqaku? Inyaniso kukuba kukho ukutolika ezininzi kweli gama. Abanye bathi ubuhle bubungqina obuqilileyo nolutsha. Le nto into eyenziwa nge-motley kunye nobungcali. Abanye bayavumelana nokuchazwa kweklasi yegama elithi "ubuhle", esithi "iindawo zokunethezeka", kwaye kuthiwa yizinto ezibiza kakhulu, ezibandakanya iingubo ezibiza kakhulu, kunye nezinto ezidalwe ngabaqulunqi abaziwayo kunye nabaqulunqi. IsiFrentshi sichaza eli gama ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Bona, njengabaqondiyo bokwenene befashoni, isitayela, ubuhle, ubuhle, bakholelwa ukuba kwizinto ezintle zokuziphatha zingaphezu kwezinto zobuntu zangaphandle. Ubuhle babecinga ubuqhetseba ngobuhle, buzaliswe ngothando kunye nokukhohlisa. Kodwa bonke bayavuma ukuba ngokugqithiseleyo ukunyamekela ukunyamekela, ukuzama ukuphuma, ukuba kubambelele. Ewe, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngolu hlobo, kuba iilwanyana kunye neentaka zitshintsha umbala wazo kwaye zisasaza imisila yazo, abantu bangathini ...
Abavulindlela bokugcoba ngokuqhelekileyo babonwa ngokuba yi-cinema, kuba iingubo zabo kunye nesimboli babehlala beqwalaselwa ngenyameko, baxoxwa kwaye babekhonza njengemodeli. Ngaloo ndlela, ekuqaleni kwekhulu lamashumi amabini isitayela sevampu sibonakala; Iifama zeenciniba kunye neengubo zoboya zithandwa kakhulu kwi-30s. Kwaye kwakukhunjulwa ama-forties ngenye indlela eyona mizekelo yezinto ezilungileyo. Ukugqoka okunxibileyo ngokucutha okunzulu, ngaphezu koko kuhamba kwiiglavu ukuya kwintendeni kunye nomlomo ococekileyo ngogwayi. Kwaye kwiminyaka engama-80, yonke into yaba yindalo, eyayiba ngumgangatho wesini. Le nto isithende esiphezulu, i-skirt encinane, kunye neyona nto ibalulekileyo - umzimba ococekileyo, iingubo ezithandekayo, ubucwebe kunye nenani elimangalisayo, njl. Ubomi obuhle kangaka obunomntu wonke.
Kodwa kuthekani ngokumnandi namhlanje? Ngelishwa, imimiselo yegama yekhulu yethu inyuke kwi-feminism kunye nobuhle ukuya kwiindawo ezinobungozi kunye nokuziphatha. Kwihlabathi lezintlonelo zeenkwenkwezi, ubuhle bulahlekelwa yendalo. Izambatho zazingapheli ngenxa yokuba zikulungele kwaye zintle, kodwa ukubonisa konke okubaluleke ngakumbi. Kwiimfashini ezifake imfashini zihlela into efana nokusebenza kwezemidlalo, wonke umntu kumaski kunye neengubo zakhe zidlala nzima. Ngeli xesha eli lizwe langaphakathi lifihliwe kakhulu.
Yintoni esiyifumanayo? Ubongoza ingcamango yokuba ubuhle obunjalo abukhoyo namhlanje. Kodwa kunjalo, kunjalo, oko kuhlukile. Abanye abantu bayidlala, kwaye abanye bahlala. Kufana nefashoni yangoku - umntu ulingisa ngokungazicingeli, kwaye umntu unendlela yakhe.
Ukuba ungumntu othembekileyo kwaye ufuna ukuba mnandi, phuma kwisihlwele, wamkele kwihlabathi elihle. Into ephambili kweli hlabathi leli galeko kukuba yinto engokwemvelo, ingabi yinto engabonakaliyo, kwaye ingasebenzisi izikhundla kunye nokukhumbula izibhengezo zezikhumbuzo ezikhunjulwe phambi kwesibuko.Akukho mfuneko yokuthatha umzekelo kwiinkwenkwezi zokubonisa ishishini. Bahlala kwihlabathi labo, kunzima kakhulu kwaye kaninzi kubangelwa imithetho ekhohlakeleyo yomdlalo. Banyanzelwa ukuba "bafanele", kwaye bangahlali ngokuqhelekileyo. Kwaye bonke bakwenza oku kuphela ukuba bafake iifoto zabo kwiimagazini ezincinci. Ukuba zathethwa malunga nokushicilela kunye noluntu lwabo, ezi ziyimithetho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba ulingana nabanye, uvele ulahlekelwe ngokwakho, ukuthanda kwakho isitayela. Kwaye ukuba ungeyena elinesibhozo, qalisa ukucinga ngentloko yakho. Ngaba ufuna ukulidla ilifa lobuhle? Phambili! Akunandaba nokuba yeyiphi ihlabathi kunye naluphi uhlobo lwabantu abakungeze. Unokubhenqa izigidi kwaye ungabonakali, kwaye ungathenga into engabizi kakhulu kwaye ujonge kuyo njengempawu yefashoni. Emva koko, siya kukuxelela indlela engcono ngayo ukufezekisa oku. Ngoku siza kukunika ingqalelo ezinye iingcomo ezisebenzayo eziza kunceda wenze amanyathelo okuqala endleleni.
Enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kumnandi. Kwaye, njengoko uyazi, akukho buhle ngaphandle kokuzilungisa. Kubalulekile ukukhumbuza, nokuba bhetele, ukubhala phantsi kwidayari umakisha okhanyayo. Ukuze ungene kwiinqanaba zobomi obuhle, kufuneka ube yi-chic ne-sexy. Udinga ukunyamekela umzimba wakho, ukujonga ukubonakala kwakho, ekugqibeleni, qalisa ukuzithanda. Akukho sambatho ayiyi kunceda ukuba unemibala enwelekayo yesikhumba, isikhumba esingenangqumbo, izipikili ezihlambulukileyo, kunye nobunzima obunzima bangela ukuba buhlungu. Indlela oza kuyinyamekela ngayo umzimba wakho ayinandaba. Unokuya kwi-salon enobuhle, kwindawo ye-spa okanye kwi-Fitness Centre okanye mhlawumbi uza kuba ekhaya. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba umfanekiso wakho wonke ukhangeleka.
Ukwenzela intombazana enhle idlala indima ebalulekileyo ekubonakala kwayo. Kuye, kungekhona isitayela esifanelekileyo somfazi. Okukhethekileyo kwintombazana enjalo iya kuba yinto eyenza i-unobtrusive and soft-make-up. Amehlo angagxininiswa kuphela ngumjikelezo wee-eyelashes kunye nomgca ococekileyo we-pencil kunye neyeeye eyelashes kunye ne-mascara. Kwaye ukuba umlomo ungalondolozi imali, uthenge ukukhanya okugqwesileyo okanye umlomo. Qiniseka ukuba ukhetha itoni efanelekileyo. I-sexologists ithi imilomo ithetha nje inyaniso malunga nobulili besini.