Okokuqala kufuneka sikhumbuze ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukufundisa umntwana indlela yokutya ngokufanelekileyo. Yena ixesha elide wenqabe ukubamba iipuni kunye nokunyuka izandla zakhe kwisitya. Nangona kunjalo, oku akufanelekanga ukuyeka abazali, bonke abantwana kufuneka bazidle. Ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukuphosa yonke into ukuze ugweme i-porridge ethulise ijusi, kodwa awukwazi ukwenza njalo nangayiphi indlela. Yintoni eyenzeka ngenye indlela? Umntwana akafuni ukutya. Esi sizathu esona sizathu - ukunakekelwa ngokweqile.
Ukunyamekelwa kwabazali kulungile, nangona kunjalo, oku kukhokelela kwimiphumo emibi. Kwintsapho enenkathalo kunye nokuthanda ngokugqithiseleyo, umntwana ophangiweyo ukhuliswe kancane kancane. Akaphulaphuli abadala, akafuni ukuzondla kwaye uya kuhlala eqinisekile ngokukhusela abazali bakhe. Ngenxa yoko, akayi kuba ngumntu wangempela. Awukwazi ukuthetha ukuba akudingeki ukuba unakekele abantwana, yonke into kufuneka ibe ngokumodareyitha. Kwakhona, xa umntwana enqaba ukuzidla ngokwakhe, kufuneka wenze okulungileyo.
Izigwebo ziyamkeleka kuphela kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, nangona kunjalo, maxa wambi kufuneka zikhunjulwe. Wonke umntwana kufuneka adle, kwaye oku kusebenza kumntwana osemdala (1 - 2 iminyaka). Kancinci kufanele ukuzisa abantwana kweli nqanaba - ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukunika i-spoon ezandleni zakhe, bonisa ukuba ungayigcina njani. Gwema ukutya okucebileyo kunye neemaphephethi akusayi kuphumelela, kodwa, umntwana uya kukhula enempilo kwaye enempilo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha ixesha elide ukuba lihlupheke, kuba kwimibandela yokuqala yokuphuhlisa umntwana ngokwakhe unomdla rhoqo kwihlabathi elijikelezile. Uzama ukuzama nokuzama konke ebomini bakhe, ngoko uya kuthanda ukuzidla.
Ewe, musa ukwenza enye impazamo enkulu - guqula i-spoon kwisitokisi. Isiqalo sezinto umntwana uzama ukuzenza rhoqo, ngamanye amaxesha izinto zetafile zivela ekamelweni lakhe, apho zingenasidingo ngokupheleleyo. Iimeko ezinjalo kufuneka zime, zichazele abantwana ukuba kuyintoni na okuyimfuneko yokwenza nale nto okanye loo mbandela. Akulungele ukwenza oku, ngakumbi xa useneminyaka emncinci, ukuba ulahlekelwa lo mzuzwana, abazali bakho baya kujongana nokungaqondi kakuhle, mhlawumbi nokuba nomsindo. Kuphela ukunyusa uthando lwabo oludlulileyo, abantu abasondeleyo baya kukwazi ukukhulisa umntwana ngokuchanekileyo.
Ukuba, ngexesha, kwakungenakwenzeka ukufaka ukuzimela kubantwana, ubomi buya kuba nzima nakakhulu. Ukutya umntwana ufuna ngokungaqhelekanga, kuba uyaqonda ukuba emva kokuba abazali bakhe besondla. Akusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuba ujezise, kodwa unokubonisa ukuba unokufumana ukutya okumnandi, umzekelo, isandi semvelo, ngezandla zakho. Ukwenza oku, kukwanele ukulungiselela kuphela isidlo sesidlo samhla esiya kudla umntwana, kodwa into enomdla. Ewe, uya kufuna ukuyifumana, kwaye ngaloo mzuzu kuyimfuneko ukubeka "umbuzo ngomgca". Akunzima ukwenza oku, kuba umntwana sele esele atywe, kwaye ukula ukutya akumlimazi. Ngoko, xa umntwana efuna ukuba "athambile", unquma ukuzidla. Ngexesha elide, liya kuba ngumkhwa kwaye lichaphazele konke ukutya.
Mhlawumbi esi sixhobo esiyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa sisetyenziswe kuphela yimpazamo enkulu kwimfundo. Hlalani nibheke phambili, ukuze ningavumeli ukuba ngaphezulu, okuchaphazela ukuziphatha kwabantwana. Akunzima ukwenza oku, kuba uthando luhlala luzama ukuphuma ngaphandle kwaye luyamkela umntwana. Zithintele, ngaphandle koko iziphumo ziya kuba zingathandeki.