Ngaba usandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa kunye nesoka lakho okanye uxabana nabahlobo? Emva koko, uNyaka omtsha uza ngokukhawuleza, kwaye akukho mntu unokubhiyozela ngawo. Akukwenzi ukuba ube yedwa, kukukhulula. Kulo busuku obungummangaliso nolumangalisayo, unokwenza izinto zobuqili. Unyaka omtsha uza kunika into emangalisayo.
Awudingi ukukhangela inkampani "ethile". U-Eva onguNyaka omtsha unyanisekileyo. Kuphela kufuneka udibane naye nabathandekayo bakho. Kodwa kubi kakhulu ukuzithwala. Musa ukubuhlungu okanye uzizwe uxolo. Uyavuya! Kwaye lixesha lokushiya iziphepho ngo-2013. Ngenxa yokuba u-2014 usithembisa isiganeko esihle. Mhlawumbi uhambele kwindawo entsha, uxabana nabahlobo kunye nezihlobo, wahlukana nomhlobo wakho, kodwa oku akusisona sizathu sokungena kwixinzelelo. Uza kukhanyisa lo Mnyaka omtsha! Si thembisa ...
Okokuqala, kufuneka uzibuze umbuzo "Ndingathanda ukuthetha njani isiJamani?". Ngaba ufuna ngokwenene inkampani okanye uyavuyela ukubhiyozela le holide? Siqinisekile ukuba xa ufuna, unokuzifumana uluntu, apho baya kuvuya. Umzekelo, ohlobo olukhohliweyo kunye nabaqhelana nabo oye wahlala ushiywe ngaphandle, kodwa ngubani okulungele ukukufumana. Okanye izalamane ezingabangela uxanduva lwakho. Mhlawumbi wabizwa ukuba ubhiyozele le holide ngabahlobo abaye bathuthela esinye isixeko. Yiya kubo.
Musa ukucinga ukuba xa uwedwa kuNyaka omtsha, ngoko ulahlekileyo ngokupheleleyo. Yazisa ezi zihlandlo xa ungahlala kunye nawe. Abantu abaninzi abayifumani. Jabulela into yokuba unokwenza nantoni na, nayiphi na i-vinicto ayikwazi ukuthetha nantoni na. Konke kusezandleni zakho.
- Ulale. Unako ukunethezeka ebhedeni elifudumele nelomnandi, nantoni na. Unokulala yonke imini. Awudingi ukukhawuleza naphi na, akusiyo imilingo? Yonke iphupha.
- Ibhati kunye ne-foam. Akudingeki ukuba ugijime malunga neengxubusho kwaye ugqoke. Masibuthe ukuhlamba okutshisayo kunye ne-foam ephoqayo, kongeza iincinci zamatye e-aroma, ukhanyise iintonga ezinamakha kwaye ujabulele le nkqubo. Siza kubandakanya umculo omnandi kunye ophumayo, uthele i-champagne okanye iwayini ibe ngilazi. Kuhle.
- Ukubhalela kuwe kwikamva. Mhlawumbi abaninzi baye bakuva oku. Uhlala kunye neengcamango zakho wedwa kwaye unokuzivakalisa ephepheni. Senza uluhlu lonyaka ozayo. Kwaye ngoDisemba 31, 2014 uza kufunda le leta kwaye ubone oko ukwenzile kuloluhlu. Kuya kubakho umdla.
- Ukubukela ibhayisikobho. Faka phakathi iifilimu zakho ezizithandayo eziza kukumomotheka. Zithulule iglasi ye-champagne kwaye uhlale ukhululekile. Ixesha lokuzonwabisa liza kudala imihla yokuzonwabisa.
- Ungaya kwiklabhu. Ngoku kukho ithuba lokuya kuyo nayiphi na iklabhu kwisixeko, apho kuya kuba namaqela anomsindo kunye neeninzi zeeflekhi. Unokwenza i-smart make-up, yifake ingubo egqwesileyo kwaye uye kwiklabhu, apho ungonwabile kwaye ufumane iinjongo kwi-Eve yeNtsha. Imidaniso inikezelwa kwaye kungekhona nje kuphela.
- Yiya kumthi weKrismesi. Kwi sixeko ngasinye kukho i-herringbone kwisikwere. Ngomhla woNyaka omtsha, baququzelele inkqubo enemigangatho kunye neengoma. Ngoko kutheni ungonwabi kwaye ungayi kumthi weKrismesi? Thatha i-champagne kunye neesekese. Kuya kubakho abantu abaninzi, ngoko awuyi kuba yedwa.
Ukuba uhlala ekhaya, upheke zonke iintandokazi zakho ezizithandayo. Yaye ukuba awufuni ukupheka, zonke izitya zingalawulwa kwivenkile kunye nokuhanjiswa kwekhaya. Kwaye phakathi kobusuku, yenza okulungileyo. Kuya kuzaliseka, qiniseka! Iminqweno eyathethwa yintliziyo ecocekileyo ihlala izaliseka.
Zilungiselele isipho sonyaka omtsha. Le nto iya kukukhulula xa iwashi lixabana 12. Unokuhlangana noMnyaka omtsha ngu-Skype. Thatha okumnandi uze ubize i-video ingxoxo kubangani okanye kwizihlobo zakho. Xa iwashi liphukile, pha kamisa ingilazi uze utshilo.
Yiya kwinethiwekhi yentlalo, uya kubona ukuba bangaphi abantu ababhiyozela iholide, njengawe. Ngoko ungadikibala. Bhala kubantu ongaziqhelanga nabo rhoqo, bavuyiswe. Xoxa nabo, buza indlela abayigubha ngayo ieholide. Mhlawumbi uya kudibana nabo ngalobo busuku.
Ukuba uye wacinga ngale nto ixesha elide waza wagqiba ekubeni awuyi kubhiyozela uNyaka Omtsha wedwa, ke lixesha lokuphuma "kwibhokisi" yakho kwaye ujonge i-adventure.
- Kwiifom, unokwenza umxholo othi "Unyaka omtsha: ngubani oza kuba yinkampani yam?". Ewe, le nto yingozi, kodwa le holide yithuba lobudenge. Ngoko ke ukuba uphumayo kwaye ungeyihlazo, ngoko le nto inokukukhetha. Unokuya kubhiyozela nabantu abangaziwa ngokupheleleyo, nabo banyanisekileyo.
- Unokuba yi-Snow Maiden. Hlela ubusuku bezenzo ezilungileyo. Thenga ii-confetti ezininzi, ii-chocolates, ii-cookies kunye neemkhumbuzo. Banike abantwana, abantu abangenamakhaya. Sivuyisele ngeli holide, yondla ikati kunye nenja, uthumele ugogo kummandla. Yiba nguSamantha Klaus. Okanye uya kudibana nendoda enhle, ngoko yenyuka uye kuye uze uyiphathe nge-candy.
- Bhalisa amakhadi okubulisa kubamelwane bakho. Kinteyim kwiibhokisi zeposi. Baya kuvuya.
- Unyaka omtsha unokubhiyozelwa ngabazali bakho abathandekayo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba lo ngumntwana, ngoko ungumntwana. Emva kwakho konke, akukho mntu ubhetele kunokuba abazali bakho abayikuqonda. Baya kuhlala besithandayo, nokuba sithini na. Ngoko ke, ukuba akukho zicwangciso ze NG, ngoko uye kubazali bakho abathandekayo, baya kukufumana ngokuvuyela.
Yintoni ongayenzayo kuMnyaka omtsha?
- Ungakhathazeki ukumema umntu ukuba a tyelele. Akukho nto iya kuvela kuyo. Ukuba umntu akafuni ukukumema, ngoko wayezizathu zakhe. Kubalulekile ukuhlonela nokwamkela oku, nangona kubuhlungu. Emva kwakho konke, awuyi kuvuya kwiholide yomnye. Ukubhiyozela kuyimfuneko kuphela kulabo bantu ongekho nto.
- Kufuneka ukhethe inkampani eyaneleyo. Akuyimfuneko ukuqonda isicatshulwa esilungileyo. Ukuba le nkampani yakucasula kwangaphambili, ke akunakulungele ukuyiphawula ngokuchanekileyo. Yonke into ayikwazi ukuphuma kakuhle.
- Sihlalisa zonke iinzame zokudakumba ukukubamba. Yenza ihlazo kwaye ungazixolisi. Eyona nto imnandi. Ngokufanayo kuya kumnandi, kholwani.