I ngcaciso
Ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba sikuxelele ngabafazi besabekayo kwihlabathi, sagqiba kwefilosofi encinci, ngenjongo yokufumanisa into ebaluleke kakhulu, oko kukuthi, ngokuchanekileyo ukuqonda ukuba yintoni esithethayo ngokutsho kwegama elithi "lisoyiko". Indlela efanelekileyo kunengqiqo ukuzisa okungafaniyo kweli gama, kwaye mhlawumbi uthi "isetyhini" okanye "inhle." Apha ungatsho ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba oko kuthiwa "abesetyhini abasabisayo" abanalo nayiphi na impawu yesibheno sangaphandle, kwaye musa ukuvelisa iimvakalelo, kwaye nangona kunjalo, kungabangela ukungahloneli ngokupheleleyo.
Ngendlela, akuyimfuneko ukuba abafazi abadumileyo balahlekelwe isikhalazo ngenxa yokusebenza kweplastiki okanye inombolo yabo. Emva kwakho konke, kwiingqinisiso, ezibonisa abantu ababi kakhulu, njengamaxesha eenkwenkwezi abawa phantsi, abhalwe paparazzi ngaphandle kokwenziwe okanye kwiimeko ezininzi ezinqabileyo kwiholide. Kwaye into yokuba ababukeli bajwayele ukucinga kwiikrini zethelevishini, njengabesifazane abafanelekileyo kunye nabafanelekileyo abahambahamba bejikeleza iphepheni ebomvu yaseHollywood, kwaye baziva bexhala xa bebona ngaphandle kokwenza. Yingakho ipaparazzi idla ngokubamba iinkwenkwezi ekhaya ngeenjongo zokuthengisa kangako imifanekiso kwaye ibhaptiza oku okanye loo mdumo ngowesifazane owonakalisayo emhlabeni. Ngendlela, akusiyo ingqalelo ukuqaphela ukuba udumo ngumthwalo onzima, apho isinyathelo esinye esingalunganga kwaye uya kuthiwa "sidalwa esibi".
Bangobani, bayesabisa kweli hlabathi?
Ukushiya okwesibini ukusuka kwizigubane ezingathandekiyo, ndifuna ukubuyela kwimibuthano kwaye ndiqaphele into yokuba abasetyhini baseRussia abakhuthelwa ngabo bonke abafazi behlabathi, kuba abameli bethu besini esithandanayo babonwa njengona nto ibonakalayo. Kodwa, ngokweengcali, amazwe anjengeBrithani, i-Afghanistan, iMelika, iTurkey, i-Jamani, i-China kunye ne-Indiya yayincinci kakhulu, kuba la mazwe ayebonakala ngokubonakalayo ngokubhekiselele kwinani labasetyhini ababi.
Izidumi
Ngoko, ukuthetha "ubuhle" obungathandekiyo behlabathi kwaye ungayikhumbuli loo nto ibhinqa ihlabathi lonke, u- Joselyn Wildenstein , akanakuthetha nto nhlobo . Ngendlela, kwada kwangoku awaziwa ukuba yintoni enye uJoselin eyayigubungela ihlabathi lonke - ngobubungqina bakhe okanye imbonakalo embi. Kwaye konke kwaqala ngento yokuba i-Wildenstein yatshata ngokutshata kwintsimi yorhwebo owamvumela ukuba enze nantoni na ayifunayo. Ngoko wahlawula yonke into "engenakulimala" kwindlela ebonakala ngayo, eyona nto eyona nto eyona nto ebalulekileyo ukuba uJoselin sele sele ebeka kuqala ukulinganisa kwabesifazane ababi kakhulu ngonyaka. Uyazi kakuhle ngemali eninzi, unokuthetha ngokukhuselekileyo, wazikhukhumeza. Kwaye oku kudibene nokusebenza okungalunganga, yonke into yayicatshulelwe. Lo mfazi wayefuna kakhulu ukuba njengengonyama, kuba indoda yakhe yayithanda kakhulu ezi zilwanyana. Ngenxa yoko, wachitha i-dollar engama-million dollar kuyo yonke imisebenzi, ukuguqula ubuso bakhe ebusweni bowesetyhini kakhulu. UJoselin watshintsha ukubonakala kwakhe phantse minyaka yonke, kodwa umyeni wakhe akakwazanga ukumelana. Emva kokuqhawula umtshato, uJoseline Wildenstein wadibanisa ubomi bakhe ngokubonisa ibhizinisi waza wafumana indawo "yeengonyama."
Ukulandela amanyathelo akhe ngokuzithemba umhlolokazi wenkokheli yeqela eliqhelekileyo elithi "Nirvana" Courtney Love . Emva kokuba ephile iminyaka engama-17 ngaphandle komyeni wakhe othandekayo, wayebonakala ejwayele ubomi obungenasiphelo, nto leyo eyathintela kakhulu ukubonakala kwayo. Yiyiphi imo kuphela emele ekhupha umlomo kwi-silicone.
Awuyidlulanga "u-odority" kunye nodade we-designer wefestile owayedumile wase-Italy uGianni Versace, uDonatella Versace. Ngomzuzu uDonatella uqhuba ngempumelelo imicimbi yomzalwana oshonile, ekubeni ngumyili wezakhono kunye neempumelelo. Nantsi nje isibalo seoplastiki esele sishiya uphawu olubi ebusweni bakhe. Kodwa konke akuthinteli i-Donatel ekubeni yik icon yangempela yesitayela kunye nobuhle.
U-Amy Winehouse kunye nobomi bakhe basendle, obubandakanya utywala, ugwayi kunye neziyobisi ezinzima, waba negalelo waza wenza umculi onetalente ukuba abe ngumfazi ongenakuthandabuza.
Yiyiphi imilinganiselo ngaphandle kwentombi ye-Ozzy Osborne enkulu neyoyikisayo uKelly Osborne . Naphezu kwayo yonke into kaKelly ekhangeleka kakhulu kwaye umnqweno wakhe ophawulwayo (ngoku kutshanje, le ntombazana yalahlekelwa isisindo kwaye yakhupha iittoti zayo), iintsapho zeentsholongwane, njengesijeziso esibi, simlandela.
Kodwa intombi yomkhiqizi owaziwayo emhlabeni u-Aaron Spelling, uTori Spelling kunye nobuhle bakhe akazange ahluke. Ngombulelo kuye uyise, owamnceda ukuba abe ngumdlali weentlambe ngethuba lokuphila kwakhe, wenza ngeefilimu. Inxaxheba yakhe inkolo yendima yeDonna kwisiqendu esidumileyo se-90 esabizwa ngokuthi "iBeverly Hills 90210". Zonke izidlo ze-actress kunye nophenyo lweplastiki azange zenze ubuhle kuye.
Yile ndlela uluhlu lwethu oluthambileyo lwabahlali ababi kakhulu. Ukuzisola kakhulu okanye ulonwabo, olu luhlu alubandakanyi ezo nkwenkwezi, eziza kubakho ubuso babo, ziphazamise ixesha. Ngaphandle koko, iyakwazi ukuqhubeka ixesha elide.
Kwaye into yokugqibela endifuna ukuyifaka, iinkwenkwezi ezininzi zifuna ukuba neenkalo zabo ezahlukileyo, zikholelwa ukuba ziya kuba zibonakala zibalaseleyo. Kodwa akusoloko kubancedisa, kodwa kwenza ukuba ukuthandwa kwabo kungathandabuzeki. Enyanisweni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba loo nto "ubuhle" ihluke ngokupheleleyo kubo bonke. Kwaye ukuba ngaphandle ungathandeki, zama ukufumana ubuhle bakho phakathi kwakho, kuba ukubonakala kusekude nekhompyutheni esiye sikwazi ukubonakalisa ngabantu abadumileyo, ngaphandle kokuba idatha yabo yangaphandle izuze udumo lomhlaba kunye nokwamkelwa!