Ukunxibelelana nomntwana ngaphambi kokuzalwa

Namhlanje, onke amaziko okulungiselela izibini zokuzalwa komntwana kunceda abazali bazayo ukuba baqhagamshelane naye.

Ukujonga oku kubantu abahlukileyo, umntu uthatha uxubano nomntwana ngaphambi kokuzalwa engenangqondo, bathi, akukho mntu othetha naye, abanye bathetha nomntwana ngokubetha isisu.

Masizame ukubona ukuba kunokwenzeka yini ukunxibelelana nomntwana ngaphambi kokuzalwa, ngokunokwenzeka, nokuba ngaba kukho na ukuqonda kule nto.
Namhlanje, ukuba kwiiveki ezingama-6 umntwana uphendukela ekukhanyeni unokwethenjelwa. Kakade kwiiveki ezi-10-11 uvakalelwa, ukufudumala, intlungu, uxinzelelo kwaye uyaziphendulela. Umntwana uphenduka xa ungeyithandi. Xa uneminyaka eyi-18-20 umntwana ubonisa umlingiswa, unokutshutshala, ukwesaba, uvuyiswe. Ngeli xesha, umntwana uva, uyakwazi ukwahlukanisa amazwi, unokuthanda umculo othile. Kuyaziwa ukuba umntwana uyathanda umculo omculo ngaphambi kokuba azalwe, abantwana bakaVivaldi kunye neMozart bakhetha. Kwiintsana ezinyangeni ezintandathu, i-vestibular apparatus iyaqhubeka, iyahlula indawo yomzimba kwindawo, kwaye ijika. Ngexesha elifanayo baqala ukunambitha, kwaye ngenyanga yesithoba, uvakalelo lwevumba.

Ngoko, akungabazeki ukuba kukho umntu ozakuthetha naye.

Thetha nomntwana.

Abazali bexesha elizayo bafanele bathethe umntwana ngokuzwakalayo, kuba indlebe yindlebe ekhulisa umntwana, kwaye ngexesha lokuzalwa usenokukwazi ukuwaqonda ngabazali ngamazwi abo kunye neengcamango zabo. Kwindlela yokuphanda kwatyhilwa ukuba abantwana abantwana abaye baxoxwa ngabazali ngaphambi kokuba bazalwe bakhala kakhulu, baphulaphule ngakumbi abazali kuba ixesha elide kunabantwana abangazange baxoxe nabazali babo ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Ukuthetha nomntwana, mxelele ukuba ulindela njani kwaye umthande, ukuba uzive ufudumele kwaye unesihe kuye, ukuba uyona mhle, unobulumko, unetalente kunye nezinye ezininzi.

Izifundo zomculo kunye nokucula .
Indlela efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana nomntwana ngaphambi kokuzalwa kucula. Ngexesha lokucula, umfazi uvakalelwa iimvakalelo zakhe kunye neemvakalelo ezingakumbi, okubhetele kangcono ukubonwa ngumntwana, kuba akayiva kuphela ilizwi lonina, kodwa naye uvakalelwa ukugungqa, ufumana impembelelo emzimbeni wakhe.

Mamela umculo, ngokukhawuleza ekusebenzeni komntwana onokuqonda oko akuthandayo. Ukuthanda abantwana kubanzi: abanye bakhetha umculo othulileyo, ngelixa abanye bathanda kakhulu amandla, isigqi, isithathu sithandayo 'ukudansa' kwaye sihambe kancane kumbetha.

Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafakazela ukuba abantu, umculo weklasi ngaphambi kokuzalwa kunokuqinisa amandla omntwana, xa uphulaphule umculo onjalo, umntwana unxibelelwano olusondeleyo lwe-hemispheres ye-cerebral. Abantwana abanjalo banako ukufunda, ukufunda nokufunda iilwimi zangaphandle. Zineentsimbi ezidumileyo zomculo.

Ukukhulisa ngaphambi kokuzalwa.
Kucacile ukuba, xa uxoxisana nomntwana ngaphambi kokuzalwa nokukhuliselwa kwakhe. Emva kwakho konke, kwinkqubo yokunxibelelana, umntwana unikezwa ngendlela yokuthetha, ingcamango yomculo.

Uphuhliso lomntu omncinci, ingqondo yakhe incike kwimpilo kamama. Ngasentla sichaza ukuphuhliswa kwezinto zokugcina izitha zomntwana, kwaye oku kufuna ukunyakaza. Umntwana uyasabela kumanyathelo ahlukeneyo kamama, utshintshe isikhundla xa unina ethembela, uguqula ukuhamba, uphenduka kanye kunye nonina. Oku kulungiselela umntwana wakho ngokuzalwa, kumfundisa ukuba azive ephezulu nangaphantsi, kuba uya kulungelelanisa ukunyakaza kwakhe, akwazi ukugqithisa kwaye ahambe, kwaye kungekudala ahambe.

Ukwenza i-gymnastics, umama wesikhathi esizayo uyaqaphela ukuba ezinye izinto zifana nomntwana, kwaye abanye abayithandi, ngoko ke oomama kufuneka bavumelane nomntwana - into enokuyenza ngokuthe ngcembe, phucula ngakumbi, njl. Lo luhlobo lokunxibelelana nomntwana, kuba benza i-gymnastics kunye.

Xa uqala ukuthetha nomntwana?
Unxibelelwano luya kuqala nangaphambi kokuba umntwana aqale ukuva, uvale umnxeba, ukuziva kwethu ukuhamba kwakhe okubuthathaka kokuqala.

Intliziyo yomntwana iqala ukubetha ngomhla we-18, iphendukela kwimpembelelo yeemvakalelo neemvakalelo zomama. Oku kuchaza ukuba kutheni abafazi besoloko beva umntwana ngaphambi kokubonakala kwempawu zokukhulelwa.

Ubulumko bendalo buyamangalisa: lusinika iinyanga ezilisithoba ukuthetha nomntwana kwaye sisetyenziswe kwimbono yengomso ozayo. Kule ndlela yokunxibelelana, sihlakulela iimpawu abazali abazidingayo: sifunda ukuqonda iimvakalelo zethu neemvakalelo zethu, umonde, ububele kunye nokuthobela, sisondela ekubeni ngabazali abalungileyo kumntwana wethu.