Kutheni le ntombazana ihamba ngenxa yesondo esinamandla? Kukho izizathu ezininzi, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, kwaye zibuhlungu kakhulu, sihlupheka xa singayiva impendulo kubo bonke abasuka entliziyweni. Kodwa yintoni omele uyenze ukuze ungakhathazeki ngomfana? Ziziphi iingcinga ezikugubungela imini nobusuku, kukuthintela ukulibala ukulala kwakho nokuphumla kuzo zonke ezi ngxaki?
Andiyithandi. UNGATHANDA. Izandi ezothusayo, awucingi na? Enyanisweni, eli nyaniso libuhlungu kakhulu kwaye alibi. Kwaye ukuhlala naye kunzima kakhulu kwaye kungenakubekwa. Ingqondo iqonda ukuba oku kuyimfuneko ukulwa ngandlela-thile. Yaye intliziyo ayifuni kwaye ayikwazi ukuyeka imizwa yayo.
Ukuze uphile, umntu kufuneka akwazi ukunqoba, mhlawumbi nangona imini ilanga iya kuba yimvula, kwaye le mvula iya kuhlala entliziyweni ngonaphakade.
Kukho inyaniso enye engabhalwanga, ethi uluthando lokwenene alubuhlungu. Indoda yokwenene ayisoze yakha ibhinqa liyakhala. Ngako oko ..
Kwaye ke ingqondo ijika kwakhona. Ngenxa yokuba indoda ethandekayo ayikwazi ukungaqiniseki. Makhe abe ngumnxila, angasebenziyo, kunye neendlela ezintathu ezingaphelelanga, isitshixo esincinci kunye nokungabi nako konke ukulungelelanisa ebomini, kodwa ungokoqobo kwaye uyona mhle.
Okanye, unamandla, unengqiqo, ungenakufikeleleka, unengqondo, ukhethekileyo kwaye awunakulibaleka, ukuba kuye akukho nto ayikho nto, akukho nto iphosakeleyo.
Ngamafutshane, kunokukhetha ezininzi, kodwa isiphetho sinye-ukulinganiswa komntu othandweni, ngokuqhelekileyo kulungelelaniswe, kunye neemeko ezintle zezinto zakhe zokubonga zihlambulukileyo.
Ngako oko: inzame yesibini ibandakanya ukucinga. Kakade. Intliziyo ilwa ngakumbi, kuba ukuba kusebenza, kuya kufuneka ibe nokungathandabuzeki. Ngomfutshane, lo msebenzi awuveli kwimiphunga. Kodwa ndimele ndizame. Yaye xa intloko ekugqibeleni isebenza, kufuneka uyenze oku: thabatha icwecwe lephepha uze ubhale zonke iimpawu ezimbi nezilungileyo zomntu othandayo. Khangela, yintoni enye: efanelekileyo okanye engalunganga. Ngokuqhelekileyo, akukho phantsi. Oku kuqondakalayo. Yintoni enokuyenza into engalunganga kwindawo efanelekileyo?
Ukuba ucinga kanzima, kungenokwenzeka ukuba akahambisani nonke, kodwa akayi kuphahlazeka, akayi kuphupha, kodwa akanakulinganisa, kungekhona, kodwa aphikisayo. Olu luhlu lunokuqhubeka ngonaphakade. Ngokuqinisekileyo, yonke intokazi iya kuba neyantlukwano yakhe, kodwa isiphelo kukuba, emva koko, enye-ayilungileyo, uyindoda nje. Kwaye kwafana nokubeka kwakhe. Kwaye kukho kwaye kungcono. Kakhulu bhetele. Ngaba kuyafaneleka ukuba ubulawe?
Ngendlela, ndifuna ukuphawula ngokukhawuleza ukuba izinto ezikhankanywe ngentla ayithethi nantoni na ukuba umntu wakho othandekayo uyisidumbu, umculi onqabileyo kunye ne-schizophrenic ngokunyaniseka. Akayena nje indoda. Akunjalo onokuhlala kunye nobomi bakho bonke. Inyaniso kukuba zonke iinkalo zayo ezimbi, ngoku zilula ukucinga, ziya kuba zibonakala ngakumbi ngexesha, kuba ubomi buya kuqala, ubomi bentsapho. Zama ukucinga ngomntu othandekayo ekhaya. Kuphela ngaphandle kwemfundiso. Kwenene. Lapha uhlala nawe, uphuze ubhiya, iyunivesithi ayisigqibekanga, akukho msebenzi, abantwana abayiphuliphuli, kuba upapa uhlala, ngoko ke akuyigunya. Kwaye uhudulela yonke intsapho, usebenze kwimisebenzi emithathu kwaye ungadluli usuku xa akuthandayo. Ewe, kukho ukungafani kwaye abantu bayashintsha. Ewe, ukuba akunjalo. Ngaba ungatsho kamva, abantu abadala, abanesilumko kunye namava nabafazi ababethekileyo: kuya kuba ngcono ukuba ndiwe ngenxa yothando. Emva koko ndiza kubandezeleka kunyaka okanye ezimbini, kodwa ngoku ndiyidonsa le suitcase encinane ebomini bam ngaphandle kwipeni.
Ngendlela, unokuthi kwakhona ngoku ukuba intanda yakho ayikho into yokuba ulungile kwaye uyinyani. Ndiyaxolisa, kodwa andiyi kukholelwa. Amadoda okwenene awavumeli ukuba abafazi bahlupheke, kwanabo abayithandiyo. La madoda anobulumko obudalwa bendoda kunye nokukwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuba le ntombi ayihluphekanga. Ewe, ngokwenene, bayakwazi ukuchazela inyaniso yobomi, kwaye emva kokuthetha kwabo intlungu iyadula, kwaye emva koko iphela.
Ngoko cinga ngamabhinqa abizayo, cingisisa.
Kunzima ukubaleka kude nothando. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka ukusinda kule ntlungu, ukuba lo lulo uthando lokugqibela ebomini bethu. Ngoko, eneneni, kubonakala nje kuphela. Uthando olungunaphakade luphela kuphela. Uthando olungavumelekanga kungekudala okanye kamva luphela. Umele ukhuthazele kwaye ufumane amandla kuwe. Kufuneka uphume ebhedeni, uphonsa umsila otywengile, uzibeke uze wenze esitalato. Awunako ukwesaba abantu abasandulana nabo kunye namadoda amatsha. Ngenxa yokuba uthando lokwenene lungaba phakathi kwabo, ngoko musa ukuzidela ukuze nilwe nempumelelo yenu. Ukuba uhlala ucinga ukuba ondiyithandi, awukwazi ukuphosakela kweshumi, ekuthandeni nawe ezindlebeni.