Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafakazela ukuba malunga neepesenti ezingama-90 zabantu abaqhagamshelana nabo ababizo. Kodwa ungayiqonda njani loo nto indoda ifuna ukuthetha ngayo, xa ethetha nawe? Indlela yokufunda ukwenza umsebenzi womtshina wamanga? Ulwimi lomzimba luyinkcazo.
Yonke into umntu aziva ngayo ibonakala kuqala kwinkqubo yesigqirha yengqondo (ikhanda). Kwaye emva kwee-nanoseconds ezimbalwa - engqondweni. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuziphatha kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zomzimba zinyaniso.Kubonakala ngathi akunzima ukuba ngumtshini wamanga. Kufuneka nje ukuba ukwazi ukuthini intshukumo. Kodwa iingcali ezinokuqeqeshwa ngokugqithiseleyo zichonga intsingiselo yomzimba womntu ngama-60-70 ekhulwini. Nangona kunjalo, unokwandisa amathuba akho kwaye ufunde ulwimi lomzimba womntu. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ukhangele ukuziphatha kwakhe kwindawo eqhelekileyo, qwa lasela ixabiso lewayini ekunxilweni, ukukhanyisa okungahambi kakuhle kwigumbi kunye nezinye izinto. Ngamanye amazwi, kubalulekile ukujongana kakhulu kwikhethiweyo yakho. Kwaye emva kokuzama ukuzimisela ukuziphatha kwakhe xa kukho into engalunganga.
Mbuze oko wayehlala ephupha khona ebusaneni bakhe. Makhe aphumle kancane, aze ahlalutye indlela yakhe yokuziphatha kumanqanaba alandelayo: imeko, ukuhambelana, induduzo kunye nentsebenziswano.
Umzimba wakhe ukhululekile kangakanani okwangoku? Ukuba ufuna ukuguqa kuwe, uvula iinyawo zakhe kunye nesifuba kwisikhokelo esilungele kuye, ngoko kukho umnxeba. Ukuba ufihla izandla zakhe kuwe, uzama ukuguquka, udla ngokukhawuleza, xa ekhangele kuwe, ngoko ngelo xesha akanakukhathazeka.
Kuthetha ntoni? Ukuba umhla wokuqala umntu unentlonelo, uzama ukuphepha ukunxibelelana kwamehlo okude, ama-fidgets kwisihlalo, ngoko oku kuziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo. Kodwa ukuba uyayinqumla ingalo yakhe esifubeni okanye abuyele, akafuni ukuthetha nawe, uthetha. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukutadisha impawu yakhe, kufuneka uhlole imeko. Mhlawumbi i-cafe ibanda kakhulu.
Ukubambisana: amagama kunye nezenzo kufuneka zihambelane. Ukuba uthe ukhululekile nawe ngoku, kodwa umbono wakhe ususwe ekuphumeni-oku kuwuphawu olubi. Ukuba uyavuma nawe, kodwa uyagubungela intloko intloko - oku kubi.
Intlangano. Imizimba emininzi ifundwa kangcono ngokudibeneyo. Ukuba umntu akafuni ukuphendula imibuzo malunga nomfazi wakhe wangaphambili, oko kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kodwa ukuba emva kwalo mbuzo uphenduka, ukhangele kude, uzive ngeempumlo okanye i-lobes yeendlebe, unqonkqoza ngamadolo, ngoko akubona konke okulula! Unokukufihla okuthile kuwe.
Smile. Ngaba yinyani? Ingaba ixhala ngeliso? Ukumomotheka okwenyaniso kuya kuphazamisa kuphela umlomo, kwaye ukusuka kumomotheka okwenene kubonakale kumancinci amancinci kwimbombo yamehlo. Akunakukwazi ukungena kwiingcamango zengcali.
Impumlo. Xa umntu ephazamiseka okanye enomsindo, ngoko kukho ukwanda kwenani lentliziyo, amaqanda akhe avule. I-Tors ijonge kuye kwinqanaba lomdla. Kodwa ukuba umntu uyaphambukela kwingxoxo, akayi kugxila kuye.
Inyawo. Bayakwazi ukukuxelela ngeenjongo zangempela zeqabane lakho. Ukuba iinyawo zakho zikhangele ngecala lakho, ngoko ke unomdla wakhe. Ukuba uthe wakushiya ngengqondo, iinyawo zakho ziya kujonga emnyango.
Izandla. Ukuba izandla wazibeka etafileni ngezandla zakhe phezulu, ngoko ke umntu unomdla kuwe kwaye uxolo olupheleleyo. Izandla ezifihliweyo phantsi kwetafile zibonisa ukuba umnxibelelwano ufuna ukufihla into ethile. Kodwa mhlawumbi umntu unomdla.
Chukumisa. Nabani na umntu ufuna ukuthintela into ayithandayo. Ngoko abantu bahlelwe. Ukuba uxhaswa esikhwini okanye uthinte isandla, lo luphawu lomdla omkhulu kumntu wakho. Izandla ezifihliweyo emva komva wakho zibonisa ukuba akunqweneli ukuba usondele kuyo. Imilenze edibeneyo ibonisa ukuba uzibona eyinkosi yimeko. Ukuba uwela emilenzeni yakhe, umlenze ulele phezulu ufanele ujongene nawe. Lo ngumqondiso omkhulu.
Amehlo. Ukuba umntu uthetha into engeyonyani, uya kufihla aze abukele kude. Kodwa oku kwaziwa ngokuba ngabaxoki, ngoko abanqweneli ukuzingcatsha. Ukujonga ngqo emehlweni akho, baqala ukuxoka. Bona ukuba kaninzi kangakanani i-satellite yakho. Isantya sifikelela kumaxesha angama-10 ngomzuzu. Ngokuqhelekileyo - umntu uthi inyaniso.
Mamela ngokucophelela kumntu. Buza imibuzo ecacileyo kuye. Ukuba ukusuka kwimpendulo uqala ukuphepha okanye, ngokuchaza, uchaze into ethile ngokubanzi, ngoko uyazi ukuba ufuna ukukhohliswa.
Ulwimi lomzimba wakho. Njalo gcina umzimba ukhululekile kwaye uvulekile, ukuba ufuna ukwenza impembelelo komnye umntu. Ukuba uthembela kuwe, yenza njalo. Igalari yewayini kunye newayini ngexesha elifanayo, jonga imiqondiso yakhe kunye nezwi lokumxelisa. Kuya kubonakala kuye ukuba ufana kakhulu, zifana nomnye, zixhunywe "ngumtshini omnye".