Ngaba wakha wadibana ne-sex egoists? Njengoko kwavela, abangaphezu kwe-60% yabasetyhini bajwayelene nabantu abanjalo. Nangona kunjalo, masiqale sibone ukuba ngubani, ngokwenene, enjalo.
Ngenkcazo yabasetyhini, umntu olala ngokwesondo ngumntu olwabelana ngesondo naye wenza izenzo ezenzelwe ukufumana ukuzonwabisa kwakhe, ngokuqinisekileyo akaqwalaselanga iimvakalelo zeqabane. Okokuthi, ngokwenene, umntu onjalo wenza isenzo sezilwanyana sokuqala sokwaneliseka ngoncedo lomzimba wesetyhini.
Ngenxa yokuhlala kwam nentlalo kunye nobuntu, ubomi bam bonke baphumelela ukuze abahlobo bam kunye nabahlobo bahlala bevuyayo ukuxelela kunye neengxaki zabo zesini kunye neengxaki, ndicinga ukuba ngaba namava kunye nokuqonda kule ntsimi. Umxholo we-sex egoism uye wahamba ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwiingxoxo zethu ngekomityi yekhofi. Sifike kwisigqibo sokuba phantse bonke abafazi besimo sethu babhekene neengxaki zezocansi. Ngaphezu koko, safumanisa ukuba abanye abafazi abafuni nje ukuphawula ukuxhatshazwa kweqabane labo ngenxa yothando lwabo ngaye, okanye abafuni ukuvuma kwabo kunye nabanye ukuba iqabane labo lakwabelana ngesondo lilala. Kukho, ke, enye inxalenye yamantombazana, ngenxa yokuba bengenalwazi, abanakukwazi ukuba i-egoist iye yahlala ebhedini labo.
Indlela yokuchonga i-sexist egoist?
Okokuqala, u-sex egoist akayi kubuza indlela othanda ukuyenza ngayo, akukho nendawo oyithandayo okanye imimandla yakho enomdla iya kumdla. Okwesibini, uya kukhathalela oko unokukwenza kuye embhedeni (isondo ngomlomo, ukuba uyayithanda, i-anal). Inokwenzeka ukuba, ukuba uthetha into ongayithandiyo embhedeni, uya kuyeka ukuthetha, okanye uya kuzama ukwenza ukuba wenze njalo.
Ngokwenene, i-sex egoists ikholelwa ukuba abafazi bafumana i-orgasms rhoqo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, kodwa ininzi yabo ayicingi ngombuzo we-female orgasm kubo bonke, ngoko ke bafana nabo. Ekubhedeni, ngokuqhelekileyo baziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo kwi-egoists: ababukeli ubuso bomlingani, kuba iimvakalelo zakhe azivumi, ungazami ukugodla i-orgasm ezayo, unokuyalela, xelela indlela omele ulala ngayo okanye ube.
Ungakuphepha njani ukuzingca ngesondo?
Okubaluleke kakhulu, kwimbono yam - kufuneka umntu afunde ukuvuleka kunye nokunyaniseka, ukufunda ukuba angabi neentloni ukuxelela umntu ngeminqweno yomntu kwaye okokuqala ukuzithanda. Ukufumana ebomini bam akubona amava amancinci kubantu, ndandilungiselela indlela endinokuyenza yokuzikhupha. Xa ubudlelwane sele sele buxubusha ngesondo esilandelayo, ndibeka phambili ingcamango yam yobudlelwane obuvumelanayo. Ndiyathetha malunga nendlela ndiphatha ngayo ubulili njengobungcali, ukuba ndikwazi ukuzisa umnandi kumntu, kodwa kuphela xa ndibona kwaye ndivakalelwa kukuba umntu uzama ukumkholisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo isebenza ngokungenasiphelo: ukuxhamla kwi-egoist runs, ukwesaba ngesondo kunye nam, kunye namadoda aneempawu zesiganeko sokuziphatha ngokwesondo, zama ukulandela inkolelo yam. Ukuba, emva koko, ndilele embhedeni kunye no-egoist ongazange aphunyuke kwaye apho i-myory of mind did not produce, andisabi ukuvakalisa kwinkqubo yesenzo endiyithandiyo, andiyikrokra ukuba ndiphazamise lo msebenzi, kuba ndibamba imbono ukuba kungcono ukuba ungabi ngesondo kunokulala ngesondo.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba abaninzi bafazi bakulungele ukunyamekela ukuzingca ngokobulili, bengakhange bacinge ngemiphumo yabo. Bachaza i-orgasm, kuba bayesaba ukubonakala bomelele kwamehlo omlingane. Abasetyhini abangamkeli i-orgasm kwiqabane elizidlayo bahlala befuna ingxaki ngokwabo, kwaye oku kunokukhokelela kwiinkalo ezininzi kunye nokungakwazi ukufumana i-orgasm evela kumthandi omhle. Ngokufanayo, umzimba, isondo ngaphandle kwe-orgasm inobungozi.
Umzala wam unomsebenzi omkhulu kwiiyunithi, wavelisa i-cyst kunye ne-fluid accumulation. Xa ephendukela kumgqirha ngombuzo: yintoni i-cyst eyayivela kuyo, ugqirha wathi okokunganeliseki ngesondo. Ukuvuswa kwezesondo kufuneka kugqitywe ngokukhutshwa, i-orgasm, ngaphandle koko ii-ovari zihlupheke. Kwaye udadewethu wayiqonda ingxaki yakhe: iminyaka emibini nesiqingatha wadibana nomfana kwaye wayehlala elala naye, ngaphandle kokuzonwabisa. Ngaphandle, loo mfana wayenomdla kakhulu, kunokuba wayenomdla wokuthuthumela emzimbeni, kodwa isenzo socansi naye sasisoloko sifanayo: ukunyakaza kwakhe kwakunokukhawuleza kunye nesigqi, i-orgasm yayimhlasela emva komzuzu nesiqingatha. Udadewethu wayengazange abe nexesha ngale ndlela kunye nexesha elifutshane ukuba afumane i-orgasm. Okokuthi, iminyaka engamashumi nesiqingatha yokunganeliseki ngokwesondo, yamkhokelela kwisifo se-ovari.
Ndazibuza ngokuphindaphindiweyo abahlobo bam umbuzo-kutheni badibana okanye bahlala nendoda, besuka nabo besini kunye nabo abangafumani nantoni na? Abaninzi bayesaba ukuhlala bodwa, abanye bakholelwa ukuba bayamthanda umntu, abahlobo abaningana bacinga ukuba banetyala lokungahambi.
Enye yam intombi iyanqabileyo kwaye i-sexy, eyayisoloko ihlala kwinkampani yamadoda, unyaka odlulileyo wavuma ukuba wayenabalingani bezesondo ezingamashumi amathathu nesibhozo ebomini bakhe kunye nabathandathu babo kuphela bakwazi ukufumana i-orgasm! Ndatshwenyeka, andizange ndicinga ukuba unokuba neengxaki zolu hlobo, nangona kunjalo, wayesoloko wathi umntu ongenamthandi embhedeni, ubuhlobo abuqhubeki kwaye buyakwazi ukuyiphonsa emva kokuqala ukulala ngesondo. Kungekudala ndidibana naye, kwaye saphinda sathintela kwesi sihloko. Unditshele ukuba, kuvela, isizathu saso, kodwa kungekhona kwimizimba yakhe, kodwa kwisengqondo. Kwiinyanga ezintathu ezedlulileyo wadibana nomntu owaba ngumthandi omkhulu. Ukungaqhathanisi ngaphandle, waqonda inyaniso yokuba unokuphumelela ibhinqa, ukuba ngumlingane ofanelekileyo wesini, ukuphulaphula iminqweno yowesifazane. Wafundisa intombi yam ukuba angabi neentloni ngaye ebhedini, kungabi neentloni ukuthetha ngeminqweno yakhe, malunga nokuba kuya kuba mnandi njani kwaye xa kukho i-caresses eyongezelelweyo. Ngesizathu esithile baqhekeza, kodwa emva koko intombi yathi ikwazi ukufumana i-orgasm nanoma yimuphi umntu, ngenxa yokuba wavuleka kwaye ekhululekile ebhedini, engathandabuzeki ukuthetha ukuba iqabane lenza into engalunganga.
Oko umhlobo wam undixelele ndibangela ukuba ndicinge ngezinto ezininzi, kwaye ndaqonda ukuba ngaba besetyhini bamele babe yinkosikazi yimeko kunye nobuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye namadoda, kuba amadoda ngexesha le-orgasm bafumana i-orgasm kwiimeko ezingama-80 ngaphandle kwekhulu, kunye nabasetyhini kwiimeko ezingama-40 ikhulu. Kubonakala ukuba ukuzingca ngokwesondo kunokunqoba okanye ukulahla kumlingane wakho ngaphandle kokuhlazeka xa uxoxa ngesihloko ngokunyanisekileyo naye.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, sesaba ukwamkela iqabane elingenalo i-orgasm, kodwa lixelisa kuphela, ngaloo ndlela luchukumise loo mntu ukuzingca embhedeni, oko kukuthi, kufuneka kube nephosakele kwaye ivulekele. Emva koko, ukuba unamahloni okulala nomntu olele embhedeni, ke uzive ukhululekile ukuxelela indoda indlela othanda ukuyenza ngayo, kodwa kungekuthi - kungeyonto nje. Ewe, kwaye loo ndoda ngokwabo kaninzi akakwazi ukuqiqa ngeeminqweno zethu kwaye aziphathe njengendoda. Ukunyaniseka kuyisisiseko kwisini esiphumelelayo ukuze kuphephe ukuzingca ngesondo. Kwaye kufuneka kwakhona ufunde indlela yokuzithandayo, ukungabi noyiko kwiminqweno yakho, ukuba ungabi namahloni ngawe embhedeni kunye nomntu, kwaye ke uninzi olumnandi olwenziwe ngesondo luqinisekisiwe kuwe. Kwaye akukho kuzingca!