Abantu abahamba ngokumomotheka ngobomi babumbanisa imibono ekhethekileyo yehlabathi. Bonwabile ukuba baye bakwazi ukuhlakulela imikhuba eye yabancedisa ukuba bahlale phezulu kwimpumelelo ixesha elide kwaye banako ukujamelana naluphi na ubunzima obuphihliweyo. Siya kukunika ingqalelo imikhuba engama-10 evelele kubantu abonwabileyo.
- Akunakuthandabuzeki nento abacinga ngayo ngabo ngasemva kwabo. Sonke sasizisebenzisa ukuthobela ingqalelo komnye umntu. Kodwa kukho abantu abaninzi kwaye wonke umntu unokucebisa oko kubonakala kulungile kuye. Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuba siyakukholisa wonke umntu kunye nawo wonke umntu? Wena-yenza njengokuba ubona kufanelekile. Nangona oku kuyinyathelo eliphosakeleyo, yonke into iyalingana, yinto enokubaluleka.
- Unokukhangela kwimeko ukusuka kwicala. Akukho ukuthengiswa kwepesenti, okanye i-100% yokulwa. Ngako oko, isisombululo esona sihle kukuhlala kude. Yilo ndawo ekunceda ukwenza ukhetho olungenayo kwaye ungachithi amandla akho naphina apho uphazamisa khona, akufanelekile.
- Ungakhathazeki ngamathuba alahlekileyo. Uthando olungathembekiyo, ukudumala kumntu owaziwayo, iimfihlo ezingazange zinikezelwe ngumhlobo ongcono. Sonke siyazigweba ngenxa yale nto, kodwa akukho ziphumo ezingenamsebenzi kunoko.
- Bayakwazi ukubonga. Oku akusiko ukubonga oku kwenziwayo "ngenxa yoko kwamkelwa," kodwa lowo uvela entliziyweni. Ukubulela kunokwenza izinto ezimangalisayo. Into yokuba xa sinovakalelo olufanayo, sigxininisa kwizinto zobomi bethu kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, sitsho njalo. Nibonge oko kwenzekayo kuwe nokuba akukwenzekanga okwamanje. Yaye yonke imihla ngaphambi kokulala, fumana ubuncinane izizathu ezi-5, oza kukubonga ngazo.
- Ndigcina ingqiqo. Emva kokuba sifunde into entsha, ukuvakalelwa kwintleko akuhlali ixesha elide kunye nawe. Kwaphela. Unamathela kwiimvakalelo ezinjalo ngeendlela zonke. Khumbula iixesha zokubhiyozela ixesha elide. Amava ajabulisayo aya kuqala kwimemori yakho inkqubo yokufezekisa ukunqoba okutsha. Uya kuphinda ujonge iziganeko ezimnandi ebomini bakho. Beka iinjongo - kwaye ufezekise ngempumelelo. Kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ekuphandeleni ulonwabo, asinaso ixesha lokuzonwabisa. Oku kusenza singonwabi.
- Bayazihleka. Ukuzinyameka kumgangatho omhle. Kwaye abantu abakwaziyo ukuhleka ngokwabo bayazikhusela. Iingcali zengqondo zithi ukuzithethelela kukuphawu lobunzulu. Ukuhleka ngawe - eli thuba linikezelwa kuphela ngumoya oqinileyo kubantu abanamandla kunanoma yiyiphi inxaxheba. Ngubo banamandla amakhulu, isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo nokuqina.
- Phila namhlanje. Abantu abacinezelayo iimpazamo ezidlulileyo kunye nokwesaba ukuba kwixesha elizayo baya kuhamba ngegama elifanayo abahlali kulo. Bakhubazeke ngenxa yokoyika, abanakuqonda ukuba akukho nto ngaphandle koko.
- Qhubeka ufunda. Iincwadi, izinto ezithandwayo zokuhamba, ukuya kumazwe ahlukeneyo, ukuphuhliswa komsebenzi omtsha, umnqweno wokufunda ongaziwayo kwaye uyamangalisa, njengokuba ishumi, kwaye kwiminyaka engamashumi asibhozo-le ngenye into evelele kubantu abonwabileyo. Nguye owanceda ukuba bazibonele ebomini aze aguqule kwi-wave wave.
- Ababa nomona. Sivame ukuziqhathanisa nabanye abantu, kwaye sifuna ukuqhubeka nantoni na kulabo benza kakuhle. Ukhuphiswano oluphilileyo alubi nakakhulu, kodwa luhlala lukhula lube luyinkimbinkimbi enkulu. Umntu unqabile ukuzaneliswa kunye naye kwaye uqala ukukhwele abanye, uzibeke intlungu kunye nokudumala. Kodwa kukho umntu omnye kuphela kwihlabathi omele ubeke ingqalelo kwaye uzifanise - nguwe. Kuphela kungekho okwangoku, kodwa kwixesha elidlulileyo. Kwaye ukuba namhlanje unokuba yinto encinci kwaye ibe yimpumelelo - unokuzikhwele, ngenxa yokuba awumi.
- Bakhetha ukukhetha abahlobo ngokuhlakanipha. Kufuneka ukwazi ukuqonda abantu. Ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwabo bafuna uncedo lwenu kunye nabo bahlala bekhangela iingxaki zabo. Into eyingozi kunazo zonke abo bahlala bekhalaza ngabo kunye nobomi babo kwaye bakholelwa ukuba baye bawa lixhoba lezinto ezenzekayo. Balekela kude ngaphandle kokucinga. Xoxa kunye nalabo abavutha amandla okonwaba. Baya kukwabelana nawe ngqununu yomsindo ovuyayo. Xoxa nabantu abanobubele - ngokuhamba kwexesha lo mboniso uza kudluliselwa kuwe. Ukuba uhlambalaza, khetha amakhoradi avuya.