Ukuhamba nomntwana: iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo

Ukuba unquma ukuhamba nomntwana, zama ukunika ixesha elongezelelweyo kulokhu. Wonke umzali omhle uyazi ukuba awukwazi ukuthatha umntwana kwindawo apho isimo sezulu sihluke kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, ukusuka kwilizwe lase-continental ukuya kwiindawo ezitshingayo kunobungozi ukuhambisa umntwana ngeveki yonke, kuba i-immune system ingabandezeleka. Kodwa eYurophu, unokuphelisa iiveki ngokupheleleyo. Amazwe angengowesimo semozulu aquka iNgilandi, i-Ireland, iSweden neFinland. Akukho mntu uyazi ukuba umntwana omncinci uya kusabela njani ekufuphi ulwandle. Ngoko ke, kukulungele ukuya kwiYurophu yaseMntla.


Umntwana ongekho omnye unyaka ubudala akanakukubona ukuhamba kwelinye ilizwe. Ukuba unina uncelise, ke uya kuphawula utshintsho ekudleni. Zama ukutya okufanayo nasekhaya. Phuza kuphela amanzi angabonakaliyo kunye nokutya kuphela ukutya okunempilo nokulula, ukhethe ngokucophelela iziqhamo nemifuno.

Akuvumelekile ukuyeka ukuncelisa iintsuku ezingaphantsi kweentsuku ezingama-30 ngaphambi kokuhamba, kwaye nangaphambi kweentsuku ezili-14 emva kokubuya.

Ukuba umntwana wakho udla ngokufanelekileyo, ngoko-ke ixesha lokuhamba lonke, thabatha ukudibanisa okuninzi, ukuze ungenayo ingxaki. Kwaye ukhethe ngokucophelela amanzi kumntwana, kuba unesisu esisisithakazelo, esilumkela ngokukhawuleza utshintsho, kwaye uya kusindisa umntwana kwi-colic, eguqule rhoqo i-diapers.

Imithwalo yomntwana iphantse amahlanu ubunzima bakhe. Indalo encinci idinga izinto ezininzi. Kulungile ukuba kuwo onke amazwe ungathenga iimpahla esisebenzisayo. EYurophu, awukwazi ukufumana i-diapers ezifanelekileyo, ngoko uqaphele ngaphambi kokuhamba. Zama ukuthatha kunye nawe ngokusemandleni akho, ngokukodwa xa usebenzisa olunye uhlobo olufanayo lonke ixesha. Kule meko, ngokubanzi, kulungile ukuthenga le mpahla kwiholide yonke kanye. Imixube yenkampani enye inokuhluke ngokupheleleyo kwiYurophu.

Ukuba umntwana unokukwazi ukuhamba, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuba ube neembini zeembathulo apho umntwana ekhululekile ukuhamba khona. Musa ukulibala ukuthatha i-slippers kunye nezinye zezinto ezithandayo kakhulu zentsana. Ingakumbi iyakusindisa ukuba umntwana ophethe ithoyizi ethile kwaye ngaphandle kwayo akakwazi ukulala. Kodwa nakuphi na umzekelo ungalahlekelwa yinkomo ephangayo!

Ukuba uhamba ngaphandle komqhubi, buza abameli beenqwelo-moya malunga neemfuno ezikhethekileyo kunye neendawo zabagibeli nabantwana. Ukuba ezinjalo iinkampani ezifana neAeroflot kunye neTransero zinezinto ezintle, kodwa zincinci kakhulu kwaye kufuneka ufike kwisikhumulo sezindiza ekuqaleni. Xa ukhangela ithikithi, unethuba lokumisela ukutya kwasebantwaneni. Ukuba ubalekela kude, kwiklasi yezoshishino kwinkampani ethi "Transaero" kubantwana abancinane inkqubo yokuzonwabisa kunye nemidlalo kunye nemibuzo eqhutywayo. Ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwe-8 ubudala uhlala yedwa kwiplanethi yonke, uya kuqhutyelwa ngumphathi othethekileyo.

Iingxowa zokulala kunye nezikhwama zabantwana abancinci zinikezelwa yi-KLM. Kukho neendawo zokuhamba kwabagibeli nabantwana, zikhulu kuneendawo eziqhelekileyo. Kukho ii-airlines zase-Austrian ezibonelela nge-cradles, kodwa kuphela kwiklasi yezoshishino, kodwa kwinkampani yaseHungary iMalev, ukuba awukwazi ukwazisa kwangaphambili, unako ukuhlala ngaphandle komntwana. Ngokwemiqathango yelizwe lokuthutha, kufuneka kubekho ukutya kwabantwana kwimenyu oyisayinayo xa ubhalela ithikithi.

Izihlandlo ezimbi kakhulu zivela xa indiza iya kuhamba kwaye ihleli phantsi. I-Avromya, xa indiza isemoyeni, umntwana akayi kubona. Kodwa abazali baya kuba nzima ngakumbi: abantwana abaninzi abahlali phantsi kwaye abazali kufuneka banikele ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Ukuba kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo abantwana baphatha ngokuzinzileyo kwaye bafana nabo, ngoko kwi-ndege kunye nephakheji yabantwana enikezelweyo abayi kuba neengxaki. Ukuba oku akunakunceda, zama ukumkhohlisa ngeyona nto oyintandokazi okanye ithoyilo entsha, engayiboniyo. Kukho ii-airplane ezinjalo ezenza uhambo lwabantwana kwi-plane kwaye zize zikhokele kumqhubi kwi-cabin yakhe. Kodwa kuphela kuthatha imizuzu embalwa, ngoko cinga ngokucophelela malunga nokuba uya kuphi. Kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba kuya kufuneka ugcine kwaye ujonge umntwana ngeeyure ezingama-4, okanye mhlawumbi 8.

Ngoko ke, ukuba ufike ngaphandle kwesihlalo sabakhubazekile, ngoko na kwilizwe laseYurophu ininzi yale ndawo yokuqeshisa iyafumaneka, kodwa kufuneka ube nekhadi lesikweletu. Kuhle ukuba ne "kangaroo" okanye i-rucksack eluhambweni. Ukuba uhlala ungasebenzisi izinto ezinjalo, zama ukuzifundela umntwana ngaphambi kokuhamba. Akukho mntu uyazi ukuba umntwana uya kukhululeka kuyo.

Kungcono ukuhlala kwintsapho yomhlalaphantsi okanye ihotele encinci phakathi kwesixeko. Nazi iinkonzo zokubakho abantwana, ngaphezu kweR4 4 ngeyure awunakufumana. Kodwa oku kuseNtshona Yurophu. Nakuphi na kwidolophu yesiphondo unokufumana umfana othile kumfundi okanye umfundi wesikolo esiphakamileyo kwaye uhlawule isigxina sakhe. Iinkonzo ezinjalo eGrisi, eTurkey, eCroatia, i-Israel yinto encinci. Yaye ukuba unqamle ngaphandle kwehotele ebiza kakhulu eHungary okanye kwiRiphabhlikhi yaseCzech, ngoko-ke uya kufuna i $ 1.5 ngeyure.

Ukuba ufuna ukufumana into encinci, kodwa uphezulu, ke uye kwiYuzhno-Vostok. EIndiya, eThailand naseBali, umntwana wakho uya kujongwa ngamashumi ama-25 ngeyure. Ngaphandle kokungazi ulwimi lwakho, baya kuhlangabezana ngokuthe ngqo nale nto.

Ukuba iintsana zakho zihamba kakuhle, ziza kukuhlawula ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye zize zicele ukuba uthathe umfanekiso. Ingabi nabubele umntwana ngenjongo yokufumana umgangatho wokushisa omkhulu, ngoko kungcono ukuba ungayi ebusika. Kungcono ukuya entwasahlobo okanye ukuwa. Unokwazi ukuya kwi-South-East, ukuba kungenjalo ukukhawuleza ukubuyela. Abafazi abanobuhlakani benza okokuqala-kuqala umntu uhamba nomntwana, kwaye okwesibini kuza emva koko kwaye uhlala ixesha elide kwelinye ilizwe okanye abazali kunye nootatomkhulu baya kubuyiselwa kubazali babo. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-occlusal. Ungalibali ukuba abanye abantu baya kufuna imvume yokuhamba nomntwana wakho. Futhi ugcine uze uhambe kwakhona ekhaya, kuba kunokufuneka.

Ukuya kwamanye amazwe, izitofu zingafuneka. Xhumana phambi kogqirha ophilisa umntwana wakho.

Ukuhamba okunjalo njengeendawo zokuhlala zaseTurkey, iYiputa, i-Israel, iSyprus, iCroatia, umntwana uya kutshintshwa, kunye nokuhlala kumazwe angaphandle.

Ungakulibali ukuba utshintshe loo nto kungekhona wena kuphela, kodwa nakumntwana, ngoko ke unokubhathela ingqalelo ngakumbi kwintsana. Bafuna ixesha eliphindwe kabili ixesha lokuba batyekele kwimozulu. Yinakekele ukuba umntwana akahleli, musa ukuyilayisha kakhulu ngomsebenzi kwaye masiqhubeke. Kodwa ukuba uyahlukileyo, akafuni ukulala, umenze angabalulekanga. Kungcono uchithe iiyure ezimbalwa kunye naye kwindawo ephelileyo, upende, udlale kwaye uya kuzincama aze azame ukulala xa kunesidingo.

Abantwana bathanda kakhulu ukukhetha yonke into, ngokukodwa ukutya. Ngako oko, akukho imfuneko yokutya izitya zangaphandle, ezingayaziyo. Kwaye ukuba iintsuku ezimbalwa umfana omncinci angadli, musa ukunyanzelisa. Akuyi kuba yingozi kuye. Qaphela izinto eziqhelekileyo: iibhanana, inyama, isonka, ushizi, iipulo, njl.

Ukuba unemisebenzi eninzi ehleliweyo, yabela ixesha lokutyelela iindawo zokudlala eziqhelekileyo kunye nabantwana bendawo. Kumntwana kuya kuba ngaphezu kokuthakazelisa. Uninzi kunabo bonke, ukhumbula ukuba abanye abantwana abakhulumi ulwimi lwakhe, kodwa oku akuyi kuba ngumqobo wokudlala kunye.