Ngenxa yoko, akusiyo yonke into efunekayo ukuba ukwazi ukufunda ezinye iingcamango zabantu, udinga kakhulu kakhulu - ukumbona okufutshane, ukunyamekela, ukuqonda abanye kunye nengxenyana encinane ye-intuition. Emva koko, kukho inzululwazi eya kukufundisa ukuba uqondisise abantu, ufunde ulwazi ngomntu ngobuso bakhe, ubuso, impawu. Le nzu lulwazi ayikho. Ngokunceda unokufunda yonke into malunga nokuthetha okungabonwanga ngomlomo.
Ngoko, sibuyele kwinto esele saziwa kuyo isibini esisekhoneni. Umbono womntu ukhankanywe ngokuthe ngqo kwintombazana leyo, ngethuba ingxoxo isandla sakhe siphakanyiswa, ngokunyamekela ukunyathela kumlingane njengokungathi kwintliziyo, ibonisa isundu ngokupheleleyo. Oku kubonisa ukuba amazwi akhe anyanisekileyo kwaye anyanisekileyo, kwaye uthembekile. Umzimba wakhe uphuthunyiswe phambili, njengokungathi uzama ukuthetha nentombazana, kwaye naye, waxhomeka phambili phambili, onokutolika njengomdla omnye nomnye ngesihloko sale ngxoxo. Intloko yentombazana eyayibukela ngasecaleni ithi ufuna into engakumbi kunokumkholisa. Amagxa akhe ayancipha, izandla zakhe azihlali. Wabeka isandla esisodwa kwisikhwama, enye enye emzimbeni. Ezi ntsingiselo zithetha ukuba intombazana ikhululekile kunye naye, uhlala epheleleyo kwaye epheleleyo. Ukususela kwinto esiyibonayo, sinokugqiba ukuba le nto ayikho ngaphandle kweyintandane yintanda.
Yaye ukuba ubeka ingqalelo kwiqabane elihambahamba nathi, kwakhona indoda kunye nomfazi. Umzimba wonke womntu ubonisa ukuphazamiseka azivelayo-ukususela kumagxa aphakanyisiwe angenalutho kunye nokunyusa intloko ukuze umlomo uvalwe ngokuqinile. Uziva engakhululekile, amahlombe akhe aphakanyisiwe ayisalathisi sokwesaba, kwaye umlomo wakhe ucinezelekile, kwaye kwaye akanako ukuzithetha. Nangona intetho yeqabane lakhe ayivazwanga, uyabona indlela ikhangeli lakhe likhutshwe ngayo kwaye iimbombo zazo ziphakanyiswa, kunye nemibonakalo ibonakala kwibhulorho yempumlo. Akungabazeki ukuba lo mfazi unomsindo. Uyancipha, aze aphakamise isandla sakhe, isundu, kwaye oko kukuvimbela ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa engalunganga. Zonke ezi zinto zithetha kuphela ngento enye-esi sibini esandula kutshitshiswa.
Ukukhangela kwi-cafe, unokufumana imimiselo engakumbi yokuhlalutya. Enye yeetafile ihlala ngamadoda amabini. Omnye kubo, umfana osemncinci, uzama ukuchazela into ethile kumntu oneminyaka ephakathi. Le ndoda ibonakala ijongene, ixhasa idama layo ngesibindi. Isandla sesibini esibekwe phezu kwetafile, sithembele umzimba wakhe wonke. Imizamo yenkwenkwe yenkwenkwe iyayixabisa, amazwi akhe ayamthakazelisa kumphulaphuli.
Amadoda amabini angama-middle-middle age in suit suits ahlala kwelinye itafile. Akulula ukuqonda apho iimbono zabo ziqondiswa khona, omnye komnye, okanye kumacala. Kodwa kuyacaca ukuba omnye wabo uzama ngokucacileyo ukushiya esinye kwisidenge. Isaziso, sifihla umlomo wakhe, sithume isandla sakhe, kwaye njengokungathi ngokukhawuleza ukutshiza iphunga lakhe ngexesha elide. Yonke le miqondiso ithetha ukuba le ndoda ixoka ngamabomu. Kwaye ukutshitshiswa kwentamo yakhe kuthetha ukungaqiniseki nokwesaba. Umnxibelelwano wakhe uhleli, ukuxhomekeka emncinci, ngaloo ndlela ukwandisa umgama phakathi kwabo. Isandla saloo mntu sithatha intloko yakhe, isalathisi somnwe sisesitini sakhe, kwaye umnwe omncinci uthinta umlomo wakhe ncinane. Loo mqondiso ubonwa njengophawu lokungabaza, ukubonisa ukungathembeki ngokumalunga namazwi omnxibelelwano.
Unxibelelwano olungenziyo ngomlomo luhlobo lwezonxibelelwano ngaphandle kokusetyenziswa kwentetho, njenjalo, oko kukuthi, ngoncedo lwezandla, ukunyakaza, ukubonakalisa ubuso, ilizwi leemvakalelo, ukugada kunye nemiqondiso. Kwizenzo zomntu, iimpendulo zakhe, ubuso, ubuso, kulula ukubeka ingcamango yomlingiswa wakhe, indlela asebenza ngayo, kunye nokuhlola kwakhe okwenzekayo. Amatyala aboniswayo kuphela yincinci encinci yezinto ezinokufundwa ngokujonga indlela abantu abaziphatha ngayo kwaye bafunde yonke into malunga nokuthetha okungabonakaliyo. Ungalibali ngokuziphatha kwakho. Musa ukuphepha ukubonakalisa imfesane, kodwa ungabonakali uhlazo nokungahambi.