Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa iindlela ezininzi zokwenza oku kwaye ngexesha elifanayo zifunde ukulawula ukuqonda kunye nemizwa yabo.
Ngoko, ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo: njani ukuphuma kwiingcinga ezimbi? Ukuze kuphazamise iingcamango ezimbi, iingcali zeengqondo zeluleka ukuba ziqonde ubunzulu babo. Emva kwakho konke, iingcamango ezimbi zizo iingxaki ezingaxilwanga, ezo zinto eziye zazingacacanga ngathi, kwakunye neengxaki ezinokuthi ziye zaya kwi-subconscious. Kule ndlela kulandelelana ukuba ukuze unqande ukuhamba kweengcamango ezimbi, kufuneka uqonde ubunzulu babo, ukufumanisa ukuba zivela phi kunye nesiseko saloo nto ikhula ngayo. Hlaziya uhlalutye ukuhamba kwele ngcaciso: ziphi iingcamango zakho ezifana noko zikunjalo, zama ukuqikelela ukuba yiyiphi ingxaki yesigxina abangayithwala ngayo. Ukufumana, zama ukusombulula, ukukhumbula okokuqala, emva koko oko kwenzeka, yintoni isizathu sokuba oku. Xa ufumene isisombululo kwingxaki, uya kulahla iingcamango ezingendawo ezikunike zona.
Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba into embi iya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo kuwe, kwaye ingqondo ihlala izaliswe ngokugqithiseleyo ngeengcinga ezimbi zezifundo ezahlukeneyo. Ziya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo kuwe, kwaye ukuhlangabezana nabo kuba ngumsebenzi ongenakwenzeka. Abafilosofi bathi akukho nto isasazeka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye akukho nto inzima kunzima ukuyimisa.
Ngokomzekelo, cingisisa ngokubanzi ulwandle, ihlathi okanye olunye uhlobo oluhle, ngaphandle koko, uvale, uzibandakanye kuyo ngokuziqonda kwakho, uzivelele kule ngcamango. Ngoku khawucinge ngendlala enkulu kule mvelaphi, yenza yonke into, cinga ukuba ibukeka njani. Ngoku ugijime uze ucinge onke amanqindi. Unokutshintsha itempo ngokuyibeka ngokukhawuleza ukuba uhambe ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngokulandelelana.
Cinga nje isandi kunye nekhakiti, yenze yonke imifanekiso. Emva kwexeshana, zama ukuyeka i-pendulum, kwaye uya kubona ukuba kunzima kakhulu, kungenakwenzeka. I-pendulum, edityaniswa ngcamango yethu, iyaphela ukuthobela, kwaye maxa wambi kunzima kakhulu ukucinga indlela iqala ngayo ukuyeka. Lo ngumzekelo wokuba kunzima kangakanani ukucima ingcamango okanye imbono. Kodwa kunjalo, sinokukufunda oku.
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba uyaba lusizi kwaye iingcinga ezimbi zigqithise, unokuba uxhalabele ngakumbi, khumbula oko kukulethela uvuyo olukhulu okanye ukuzonwabisa. Le ndlela yindlela efanelekileyo kwaye isebenzayo ekunceda ukujongana rhoqo nombi. Ngokomzekelo, uthanda umntu ohlaselayo, okanye unencwadi ethi uyintanda ebuntwaneni obuyifunayo ngokuzonwabisa, kwaye kukunika ukumomotheka, ukuvakalelwa.
Enye indlela enhle yokwenza oku kukukwenza into edinga ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo kunye noxinaniso. Xa ujolise ukubandakanyeka kwishishini elithakazelisayo okanye elincinci, ngoko uphazamiseka kakhulu emva kwengqondo yakho, uzalise intloko yakho kunye nezo zinto eziyimfuneko eziya kwisisombululo somsebenzi owenziwa.
Iingcali zengqondo zincoma nendlela yokubonakalisa. Iingcamango ezimbi zivela kwimoyiko ephazamisayo, kwaye uloyiko luvela kwintliziyo yokungaqiniseki. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo uziphindaphinda ngokubaluleka kwakho, malunga neemfanelo zakho, uqiniseke ngakumbi kwimilinganiselo yakho.
Ukuphelisa iimbono ezingapheliyo kunokuthi kube ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: zibonise ukuba ilanga elikhulu kunye elikhanyayo eligcwele amandla enamandla, lithwala kakuhle kwaye luvuyo, lukhanyisa ukukhanya kunye nokufudumala okukhulu. Khawucinge ngeengcamango zakho ezimbi ngeentsholongwane ezincinci ezikufutshane nawe. Xa ucinga ngokukrakra, ucingisise ngakumbi le miqatha - ibe ngcono. Kungekudala uza kubona ukuba izilumko zakho zibukeka zingangenangqondo, zingakanani ukuphazamisa kwakho, kwaye zifunda ukuhleka. Indlela enhle kakhulu yokulwa noloyiko kukuhleka. Cinga ukwesaba kwakho into encinci kunye nehlekisayo, uyibeke kwisambatho esimangalisayo okanye ufanise imeko ehlekisayo - iya kubonakala ivele kuwe ngokukhanya okuhlukile. Ukuhleka ukwesaba kwakho, uyayinqoba kwaye uyichitha. I-Satire iyisityebi esihle sokujongana neengxaki ezinjalo.
Ngokufanayo, izixhobo ezilungileyo zokulwa nezicamango ezimbi zi ... ezilungileyo iingcamango. Buza ukuba bangaphambuki kunye nazo zonke izinto ezimbi ezivela entlokweni yakho, cingisisa kakuhle. Funda ukujonga kwelinye icala lenkcitho, oko kukuthi, icala elifanelekileyo. Yiba nethemba ngakumbi, kwaye uza kubona ukuba kuzo zonke iingcamango nezicamango ezimbi olwa nazo, kukho ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nemiba, kwaye kukho ezinye zazo kunokuba ucinge.
Ngokomzekelo, uhlala ucinga ngeziphoso zakho, ungayithandi ubuntu bakho nomzimba, ngamanye amaxesha ucinga ukuba ungumuntu obuthathaka kakhulu owaziyo, uchathukiswa kukuba unobungozi ngaphezu kwabanye. Uhlala uzigxeka, jonga iimpazamo zakho, eziza kukujika entloko yakho kwaye zingakuphumli. Yintoni enokuyenza kule meko? Khangela iimpawu zakho ezilungileyo, ziqwalasele ngaphesheya. Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana iimpawu ezintle ngokwalo, okanye ukuba awuqinisekanga ngokwakho, cela umbono wakho ngabahlobo bakho ngawe, kukuxhasa kule nto. Baya kukuxelela oko bakuxabisa ngako, kutheni ungumuntu kunye nomntu, omele uhlonishwe ngawo. Uza kubona ukuba iingcamango ezingalunganga ziza kudala.
Indlela yokujongana neengcinga ezimbi? Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba zingagxininisi kubo kwaye zizalise ubomi babo ngemibala efudumeleyo kunye nemibala epheleleyo. Musa ukunika iingcamango ezibuhlungu zeso sihlandlo ukuba zivele, zizungeze ngezinto ozithandayo, zidibana nalabo abathandayo, kwaye ziya kudala umoya apho kungayi kuba khona indawo yokungafuni nokukhathazeka. Apha zilapha, ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo: indlela yokuphuma kwiingcinga ezimbi.