Yintoni umfazi otshatileyo kufuneka ayenze

Ewe, yintoni umfazi omele enzeyo atshatileyo? Ukunyaniseka, loo mfazi akanamnye umntu! Apha apha apha ukuphazamiseka kuvela.

Ngomyinge wexesha lethu lokukhululwa kunye nolwabesifazane, ngokulandelanayo, xa indalo ebuthakathaka kunye nethenda ebizwa ngokuba "ngumfazi" iye yahlulwa ibe yinto yokuzikhethela, isisigxina, inenjongo kwintlobano yesini, kodwa nangemikhwa yindoda. Ibhinqa elininzi ngakumbi lithatha inxaxheba yindoda kuluntu. Uzuza impilo yakhe, uhambisa umgcini wembethe njengomthi, xa ephendula ukuba akahlali nje apho. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, uya kuzibethela isikhonkwane, ulungise i-taptile, ususe iimpapu, uhlaziye icomputer malunga neenkcukacha ezincinci, uze udibanise ngokulula, kodwa kuya kubonakala iqela elitsha, nokuba kungenjalo. Kodwa kungekudala okanye kamva esi sikhulu esibukhali sithandana. Kwaye kwenzeka into engaqondakaliyo engqondweni yakhe. Ingqondo yakhe iqhuba inkqubo - nbsp; "Iprogram". Kwaye wagijima. Uqala ukuba nomdla kwimibandela engazange ithandwe ngaphambili. Uqala ukwenza izinto awayeze azenze ngaphambili. Ngoko umbuzo uvela - "kutheni?". Yaye yonke into iyilula, umtsalane wothando nomtshato uye wafika kuye. Kuye, yonke into intsha kwaye ayikwazi. Wafumanisa ihlabathi elihluke ngokupheleleyo. Ihlabathi lezonxibelelwano ezihlanganyeneyo, ukuxhoma, ukulungiselela ixesha elide kunye nexesha elide lokucoca emva kwabo. Kule hlabathi, kunzima ukuhlala kuzo zonke iimeko. Emva koko, umtshato ngumsebenzi onzima kunye nobunzima phakathi kwabantu ababini. Le yintsimi kunye nemithetho yayo. Ngoku makhe sibone ukuba ngubani umfazi otshatileyo onokuyenza.

Isenzo sokuqala. Ikhefu livula

Okokuqala, umfazi kufuneka acinge ngokufanelekileyo. Ukucinga, ukucinga okulungileyo, ububele bokwenene-oku kungenxa yamandla amabhinqa kunye neentlungu. Kwaye, oku, kunika ithuba lokuvavanya yonke into esuka kumbono ontle, ukunika uvavanyo oluhle kubantu, kwiimeko, kwiimeko, kuzo zonke izinto ukubona ubuhle, amathuba kunye nekamva elithembisayo. Wonke umntu ufuna ukuhlala kumtsalane omshukumisayo, ngoko-ke kuyamangalisa ukuba amadoda athathwe ngokunyanisekileyo, abafazi abonwabileyo. Akunanto yinto abayithethayo, "Ngubani okhokelwa kuyo, ukuba uya kufakwa." Emva koko umntu uya kujonga ebomini ngokusebenzisa i-lens enhle. Ngako oko, kuloo mtshato akukho ndawo yokuxabana kunye neengxabano.

Isenzo sesibini

Okwesibini, ibhinqa elitshatileyo kufuneka lizalise kunye nabanye ngamandla amakhulu. Cinga ngawe xa ulahlekelwe ngumdla kuyo yonke into entsha, ebomini, ayiyi kuba nezinto zokuzilibazisa kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa, xa ehamba ngokukhawuleza endleleni yakhe yokuphila ekhaya, uyeke ukuya kuyo nayiphi na imicimbi ekhangayo, iimyuziyam, iifriji, imibukiso. Uboya bakhe obuye bayihlambulukileyo buya kuba ngumsila ongaqondakaliyo. Emva koko iya kuqala ukujika ibe "i-jellyfish". Ewe, ndixelele, ngaba uya kuba nomdla kumntu oswele ukomphefumlo wakhe? Ngoko ke, bathandekayo, kufuneka sizihlole, ngokwenyama nangokomoya. "Ingqondo ephilileyo isemzimbeni ophilileyo!". Singena kwimidlalo, siphuze iivithamini, sifunde iincwadi, sifumane iziza ezithakazelisayo, ezithambileyo, ukutyelela zonke iintlobo zezijikelezo kunye nezifundo, ngokubanzi, phuhlisa, musa ukuma, musa ukuhlaziywa!

Ukungena

Inqaku lesibini elimnandi ligeleza kwisithathu - sisekela ubuhle kunye nempilo. Umntu uthanda ukuhambelana, ukuvisisana ubudlelwane, kubantu, kwimeko. Emva kwayo yonke into, ubunjani kuthi ekuqaleni babeka ukuvumelana, ukuhambelana nokulinganisa. Uzibambile kangangoko uzijonga ngokufutshane umntu, kwaye kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Kulula, sifuna ubuhle, ngokukodwa ukucinga ngobu buhle kumntu. Sithandwa ngabantu abalungileyo, bakhangwa ngokuvisisana kwabo kwendalo kunye nobabalo. Enyanisweni, kunzima ukugcina uxhulumano phakathi kwakho, makungabikho nje ukugcina uxolo phakathi kobudlelwano. Emva koko, ukuhlala ndawonye, ​​ukuhlala kunye kunye nokucinga rhoqo. Kwaye akuqhelekanga ukuba ngethuba elithile le ngcamango ayikwazi ukuzisa loo nto, okokuqala. Kwaye konke oku kubangelwa kukuba, ukuzisebenzisa kunye nokubona omnye umntu njengento eyaziwayo, abafazi baqala ukungayinaki imbonakalo yabo kwaye imihla ngemihla ingaphantsi kuncinci ukunyamekela. Ngaba lo ngumfazi otshatileyo? Ngoko ke, ubuhle, impilo kunye nokuzilungisa - inxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bentsapho epheleleyo.

Isenzo sesithathu

Ngaba uyazi ukuba kuseyintoni ebalulekileyo ebusweni beentsapho eziphilileyo? Uhluke. Abantu bakhula, bahlakulele, batshintsha iimbono zabo kwizinto ezithile, iimfuno zitshintsha. Ngoko kutheni ungenise ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nokuzimela. Ewe, ubomi bemihla ngemihla kufuna kuthi ukuchaneka kokucinga, ukuzithemba kwisenzo, umbutho kwimicimbi, ukulungiswa kwimeko. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza okanye ngoku kamva ubomi obunzima bemihla ngemihla buqala ukukhupha ngaphandle, kwaye siya kuba iirobhothi. Ngoko ke, simele sijonge, sijonge ngeenxa zonke, sicinge ngento efanayo nomphefumlo oyifunayo. Kungaba nantoni na, kunye nesidlo sothando nje ezimbini ngenxa yokukhanya kwekhandlela, kunye nohambo olucwangcisiweyo ukuya kwi-cinema, kunye noxinzelelo lwengqondo kunye nebala lokudubula, i-carousels kunye ne-sweet cotton wool. Mhlawumbi uye wafumana ingcamango okanye iphupha, ukuphunyezwa okufunekayo intanda yakho. Cinga ngako ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye khumbula into.

Ikhefu livala

Ukuba ukubonakalisa, umfazi otshatileyo waqonda ngokucacileyo ukudala indalo. Uyazi ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuhlamba izinto ngaphakathi, ukuba amaqabunga eklabishi aya kufutshane xa unokongeza ii-kroti kunye ne-anyanisi ekugqibeleni inyama, uyazi ukuba abantwana abakulula ukuvelisa. Uyazi ukuba i-tupps ayikho imifanekiso, uyazi ukuba yintoni ummandla, umniki-mphathi kunye ne-Skype, yintoni uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, kwaye ngokubanzi kukho amagama amaninzi.
Kwaye kunomdla kuwe ukuba le ngcamango yamadoda alawo mabhinqa atshatileyo. Ngandlela-thile ndabuza umyeni wam ukuba, ngombono wakhe, kufuneka umfazi otshatileyo enze ntoni? Kwaye uyayazi, impendulo yayilula kwaye ngexesha elifanayo linyanisekile - "umfazi otshatileyo kufuneka enze into ebalulekileyo yowesifazane, engcono kakhulu!". Ngoko ke, bathandekayo, fundani ukuba bhetele kuyo yonke into!