Ukubonakala kwangaphandle, isitayela yenye yezona zibalulekileyo zixhobo zokuphumelela kuyo nayiphi na intsimi: zombini kwimisebenzi kunye nobomi bomntu. Uza kuba nomdla kangakanani kwabanye - kuxhomekeke kuwe.
Ukwakha ubudlelwane bakho nabantu, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba, njengommiselo, ukuqala kokuqala kwenziwa ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kunzima ukutshintsha. Ngoko kufuneka uqaphele indlela ozenza ngayo kwabanye.Abasetyhini ababazi iimfihlelo zesimbo, bangela abantu bawuqwalasele isidima sabo kwaye bangawuqwalasela iimpazamo.
Ukwazi njani iimfihlelo zesitayela somfazi weqiniso? Into eyona nto kukufunda ukuba isitala kwimbonakalo yangaphandle kufuneka ihambelane nomlingiswa wakho, ibonakalise ihlabathi langaphakathi. Emva koko, yintoni isitifiketi esingakhethiweyo? Ukungahambelani ngumfanekiso okhethiweyo wokuziphatha kwakho. Udinga ukwakha isitayela somdlali wakho.
Elinye iphuzu elibalulekileyo kukuba isitala esifubeni kufuneka sifane nokuphila kwakho. Ukuba ungumfazi weshishini, isitayela sakho kufuneka sibe sisigxina kwaye sigxininise. Ukuba ungumama omncinci ehlezi ekhaya nomntwana, okanye umfazi wekhaya, ngoko ishishini liyakufanisa.
Simele siqwalasele iminyaka. Umfundi omtsha makangabonakali "umfazi wesiphambano", kunye nomfazi oqolileyo intombazana. Bobabini, bembethe ngale ndlela, abayi kufeza injongo yabo, kodwa baya kujonga.
Iindleko kufuneka zifanisane neemeko apho okwangoku. Xa ukhetha isigqibo oza kujonga namhlanje, kufuneka uqwalasele oko uza kwenza namhlanje. Isitayela sezemidlalo esifanelekileyo ukuhamba kwelizwe singabikho kwindawo e-ofisi, kwaye izicathulo eziphezulu eziphezulu, ezigqithiseleyo ukuhamba kwindalo, ziza kubangcazela ubuso bakho bohlobo.
Isitazana sabasetyhini sinqunywe ngokuhambelana kwezinto kwiidrobe zabo. Ngoko ke, xa ukhetha into entsha, nokuba uyakufanelana nawe, kufuneka ucinge malunga nokuba le nto ingaba yintoni. Emva kwakho konke, izinto ezithile zewadi, nangona ukuba ziya kuwe, akunakwenzeka ukuba zihambelane. Into ethengwe ngaphandle kokuhambelana nokuhambelana kwayo nezinye izinto, ihlala ixhomeke kwikhefu ixesha elide, kuba ayisoloko ikwazi ukuhlaziya ngokukhawuleza ininzi yearrobe.
Ewe, ke, musa ukulibala malunga nemilinganiselo kunye neentlanzi zokubonakala kwakho. Awukwazi ukugqoka izinto nje ngokuba zibonakala zizihle okanye zifashane nawe. Izambatho kufuneka zigxininise isidima kwaye zifihlile iimpazamo. Musa ukugqoka iimpahla ezingafanelekanga ubungakanani okanye umbala. Akufanele uthande iingubo ngokwazo, kodwa indlela ojonga kuyo.
Xa wenza i-wardrobe, ungayikhohlwa malunga nokuba izihlangu zakho kufanele zifanisane nesitayela okhethile.
Indlela yokwenene yabasetyhini ayikwazi ukudaliswa ngaphandle kwezixhobo zokusebenza. Awukwazi ukugqithisa ukubaluleka kwazo. Izixhobo ezingenakwaneleyo zinganakuzitshintsha zonke iinzame. Nangona i-accessory yinto enhle ngokwayo, kodwa ayihambisani neendleko zakho - ziya kuthungula zonke. Kwaye, ngokuchasene noko, izixhobo ezikhethiweyo ezifanelekileyo ziya kunika umonakalo wakho.
Zama ukucinga into ekhethekileyo, ekhethekileyo kuwe kuphela, ukudala ukugqwesa okukhethileyo kwimeko yakho, sebenzisa ezinye zeemfihlelo zakho.
Khumbula ukuba kusezinkcenkceshini eziqhele ukubeka inhlalakahle kunye nesimo senhlalakahle yomntu. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukugxininisa indawo ohlala kuyo kuluntu, oko kuya kwenziwa kuphela ngoncedo lwezixhobo zokusebenza. Musa nje ukulibala malunga nekhwalithi, ingqiqo yenani kunye neengqiqo.
Akubalulekanga, kunokuba iingubo ezikhethiweyo zikhethiweyo, izinto ezinjengesibophezelo sezinwele kunye nokugcoba. Kubalulekile ukugcina izipikili ngokulandelelana, tyelela i-hairdresser rhoqo.
Musa ukulibala malunga nokuzenzela. Yena, kunye neendleko zakho, kufuneka uhambelane nendlela yokuphila, ubudala kunye neemeko, ugxininise isidima kwaye ufihlile iimpazamo. Ubumba obumhlophe, obuchaphazelekayo kwiqela, eofisini liya kujonga.
Khumbula ukuba umbono wesimboli awubandakanyi nje ukubonakala. Umvuzo, intetho, indlela yokubamba, unokugxininisa umfanekiso owufuna ukuwenza, kodwa unokukutshabalalisa.
Ezi zezi ezinye zeemfihlelo zendlela yangempela yabasetyhini. Ukusebenzisa kwabo, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukwenza isitayela sakho esiyingqayizivele, ubonise abanye isidima sokubonakala kwakho kunye nobutyebi behlabathi elingaphakathi, isikhundla sakho sokuphila kunye nesimo senhlalakahle.