Ungaphila ukuhlukana kwesikhashana?

Kubomi bethu, konke kwenzeka. Ngomthandekayo siyavuya kunye kunye kwaye kubonakala ngathi akukho nto iza kusihlula. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba othandekayo uhamba kwesinye isixeko okanye kwelinye ilizwe, ngohambo loshishino. Ngoko ukwahlukana kuza, okungekuphela kwiveki okanye ngenyanga, kodwa ezintandathu ezintandathu okanye ngaphezulu. Kubalulekile ukugqiba indlela yokusinda ulwahlulo lwesikhashana.

Kunzima ukuhlukana.

Kunzima kakhulu ukuhlula ukwahlula ngexesha lokuqala, kubonakala ngathi intliziyo iya kuphazamiseka. Emva kwexesha elithile, amandla osizi aphelile, kodwa intlungu ihleli. Sinokusinda njani ukuhlukana ukuze imeko iphendulwe? Ndikholelwe, ukuba uphoswa lonke ixesha ukukhala, ngoko ubuso buya kuqala ukubonakala imibimbi. Kwaye, ngokukhawuleza, khawubalekele indlela onokuzonwabisa ngayo ubomi. Ndikholelwe, kwinto yokuba uya kujonga rhoqo kwiifoto uze ukhale emlanjeni awuyi kuziva ungcono.

Zama ngakwelinye icala ukujonga le meko. Umthandi wakho uye washiya, mhlawumbi, ngenxa yekamva lakho, kungekhona ngokwakho. Kungenzeka ukuba ufunda apho okanye ufumane ubomi bakhe kunye, okanye uqhubela phambili emsebenzini wakhe. Ngamanye amazwi, lizama lakho ikamva kunye naye. Ndikholelwe, akunakulungele ukuba aphile ngokuhlukana. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba unexesha elininzi lokufumana amava.

Iyeza eliphezulu kakhulu lisebenza.

Nika onke amandla akho ukusebenza xa usebenza. Uya kuchitha ixesha lakho lokukhulula kwimisebenzi yobungcali. Kungenzeka ukuba uya kufumana ukukhuthazwa, ngoko uyavuya xa uthanda wakho. Ukuba awusebenzi, hamba ngokukhawuleza, kodwa oku kungabikho ukuhlukana okubuhlungu kunokunceda umdlalo ozithandayo.

Mhlawumbi unokwenza umbobo, uhlambe okanye udibanise? Ukuba kunjalo, ngoko awuyi kuba nexhala. Ixesha liya kuphaphazela ngokungaboni, kwaye uya kufumana ukuzonwabisa ngokuphindwe kabini xa ujongana neTV. Emva koko, phantsi kweenkqubo ezizithandayo, umsebenzi uya kuhamba kakuhle. Yimangalisa yindoda yakho, xa ibuya, uya kumnika iisokisi ezitshiweyo okanye i swe swe. Hlanganisa kwiindonga ezifakwe kwisakhelo somfanekiso. Emva koko, oku kuya kuthetha ukuba ucinga ngaye, wayefuna ukumenza ube mnandi kuye kwaye wayekulindele phambili.

Zizinakekele, zisebenzise ixesha lakho lokukhulula ngenzuzo. Ngokufika kwendoda yakho, makube lula. Qala ukuya echibini, ubhalisele ukuvotela, usebenze ekuseni. Zenzele i-hairstyle enhle, hamba ukusilalisa. Uya kuba mnandi. Akukho imfuneko ukufumana iinqayi kunye neesekese, ezikunceda ukujamelana nokuxakeka, kuba ungeze kwivolumu.

Ukuba unethuba, ulungise enye inxalenye yendlu, okanye yonke indlu. Ngoko uza kusebenzisa ukwahlukanisa ixesha. Oku kuya kukumangaliswa kumhlobo wakho. Ukuba uhlala kwikhaya langasese, apho kukho indawo, uzama ukwenza umbhede weentyatyambo ezimangalisayo. Ukutshala izityalo ezingaqhelekanga, qalisa ingadi yeentyatyambo. Kwi-intanethi, unokufumana iziphakamiso ezininzi.

Unxibelelwano kwaye kwakhona unxibelelwano.

Iintsuku ziza kuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukuba ubhalise kwiikholeji zee-accounting, iilwimi zasemzini, izifundo zegitala okanye iiklasi zentlalontle, njl. Ukuba unentombi, unokuyenza kunye.

Kwi-notebook yakho ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana iinombolo zeefowuni zabahlobo ongezathetha nabo ixesha elide ngenxa yokungabikho kwexesha. Ukuba awugcini ubuhlobo ngaso sonke ixesha, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unamandla kangakanani, 'uya kubuna.' Uyakhumbula umntwaneni kunye nentsha ngokubiza abo ofunda nabo kunye nabo ekilasini kunye nokudibana kwinkampani enobungane. Ngabo ungaxoxa kangangoko, xubusha iindaba. Ngabo unokwabelana nosizi kunye nemihlali yakho. Uya kuncedwa ekunciphiseni ukuhlukana kumntu wakho omthandayo ngamazwi anyanisekileyo yintuthuzelo.

Xa ufumana ukuhlukana kwesikhashana, unokuza kunye nemisebenzi emininzi eya kukuphazamisa kwiingcamango zangaphandle. Ukongeza kwinto ephakanyisiweyo, kukho enye eminye imisebenzi. Umzekelo, unokufunda iincwadi ezininzi ezinomdla. Zama ukubhala inkondlo - owaziyo, mhlawumbi unetalente. Ngobusika ukulungiselela iintlobo zeealmon kunye ne-jam. Ukuthetha rhoqo kunye nabazali bakho nabahlobo bakho, mema abazali bakho abesilisa ukuba badle sakusihlwa, njl njl.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuzifumana, yintoni uhlobo lomsebenzi okanye ungasuswa kwizinto ozifunayo. Emva kwakho konke, kwishishini elithandayo, ixesha lidlula lingabonakali.