Indlela yokuphuhlisa umntwana ngaphambi konyaka ekhaya

Ukuba ukholelwa ukuba unokuvelisa umntwana kuphela emva kokuba uphendulele unyaka, kwaye uqala ukukuqonda, khumbula ukuba oku kuhlambuluke kakhulu. Ngomntwana kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenze kunye nasebudaleni obudala, ukususela ngenyanga-ngomonde nangokuqhubekayo. Makungaboni ngokukhawuleza umphumo, kodwa ubuchule bobuchopho bomntwana bunjalo kangangokuba bubamba yonke into ngokwayo, ukuze kamva ulwazi olufunyenweyo lubonakaliswe kwiminyaka eyaziwayo. Indlela yokuphuhlisa umntwana ngaphambi konyaka ekhaya - yiloo nto ndiyinikezela eli nqaku.

Mhlawumbi uya kumangaliswa ukuba ufunde izixhobo ezininzi ezingasetyenziswayo ukudala amathoyizi emfundo. Ingxaki - indlela yokuphuhlisa umntwana ngaphambi konyaka ekhaya - iya kuphelelwa ukuba yingxaki ngokukhawuleza ukuba uqhelane neziphakamiso zethu. Uya kuphawuleza ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana wakho uphuthunyiswe kwaye ukhawuleze isantya sophuhliso, kwaye oontanga bakhe basemva.

Mane uqaphele ukuba ukuya kwiinyanga ezilisithandathu kwi-arsenal yamathoyizi, umntwana uya kuba, mhlawumbi, ukuxubha kuphela kunye neentlobo zeebhondi - emva koko, kufuneka, ubuncinane, ufunde ukugcina izinto kwi-handle ukuze ukwazi ukuqhubeka nezifundo.

Kodwa kwiinyanga ezintandathu ukuya kunyaka uza kufumana izifundo ezahlukeneyo.

Masiqale nge-apho ugcina khona zonke iidyski. Indlela efanelekileyo yokwenza oku kuhambelana nebhokisi elinzima (ukuze lingagqithanga xa umntwana esithatha njengenkxaso kwaye eme eduze kwayo, ebambelele kwicala layo). Ngaloo ndlela, ibhokisi iya kuba "umatshini" wokukhula komzimba, kwaye uncede ukugcina yonke into ethanda ukuyihlaziya. Emva kwakho konke, unina onomdla, eqinisweni, kwaye ngaphandle kwaloo suku emva koko, uyawahlambulula kwisisombululo se-soapy - kwaye ebhokisini abayi kuba ngothuli.

Xa ugqibe kwisithuba sokugcinwa kwamathoyizi ekhaya, jonga ngeenxa zonke - zeziphi izinto, ngombono wakho, awudingi nakanjani? Khawubheke nje, ukuba babengenazo iingcamango ezibukhali kunye neengcinci ezincinci, kuba kunjalo nje apha. Okungeyomfuneko, siya kusebenzisa izinto njengento yokuphuhlisa amathoyizi umntwana ukuya kwinyanga.

Ukuba ungumfundi onobuchule kunye nesilwane, okanye wazi nje ukuba ungasebenzisa njani umatshini wokubhala, yenza incwadi encinci yincwadana yakho - iya kunceda ukuphuhlisa ukucinga okungacacanga kunye nomcinge womntwana, ngaphandle kokungahoyiki izakhono zezithuthi ezilungileyo.

Isakhiwo sencwadana sinokuba nayiphi na into - kuxhomekeka kukucinga kwakho. Masithi ukuba kwiphepha lokuqala udibanisa ilanga elikhulu elikhanyayo kunye nemigqomo-imida, apho akufuneki ukuba unamathele kwisigxina esiphezulu. Vumela imilayezo ivuleke ngokukhululekile-uya kubona ukuba umdla umdlalo udlala ngayo. Kwiphepha lesibini, yenza umtsalane weentyantyambo: uthathe iintambo eziluhlaza ukuze udibanise okanye udibanise uphinde uwakhiwe kwimimandla yotshani, gcoba i-daisy emhlophe emhlophe kunye namagqabi amhlophe kunye neengqabunga zokugquma.

Kwiphepha elilandelayo, gcoba ipokethi yecala eliqaqambileyo lesithambo esinyeneyo, "yitshala" kwindawo enkulu ye-zipper - vumela umntwana ukuba azame ukuwuvula. Yaye ngaphakathi kwipokotsana lomntwana kuya kuba yinto emangalisayo-inja elandelwayo eyenziwa xa igxininiswa (i-peeple inokukhishwa ngaphandle kweyiphi into yokudlala). Ikhasi lesine leencwadi yakho lihlotshiswe ibhola elikhulu, lihlanjwe kwiingubo ezinemibala ehlukeneyo, eyahlukileyo ekufakeni. Gcoba iifowholes okanye ibhinqa lakho elincinci elincinci lincinci elincinci - umntwana uya kuba nomdla ekuzameni ukukrazula kwiphepha.

Kwakhona, le ncwadi ingahlobiswa ngazo zonke iintlobo zeentambo kunye neVelcro - ngokubanzi, zonke ezo zifuna ukuvula kwaye zivale ngaphandle kwesandla sakho sonke, kodwa ngeengcebiso zeminwe yakho. Ndikholelwe, incwadi enjalo iya kubakholisa iimvuthu zakho kungekudala usuku okanye ezimbini, kodwa ziza kuba ngumsebenzi othanda ukuphuhlisa unyaka.

Fumana isikhombi esikhulu seplastiki ekhaya (ngokuqinisekileyo, unento efana nale: uyiphonye, ​​kwaye akukho ndawo enye), kwaye uphononongo umgodi kuyo. Kwimingxuma, faka i-ribbon encinci, okanye intambo eqinile kunye neqinile, ekugqibeleni ekubopha amaninzi amaqhosha amakhulu kunye nobuhlalu. Yenza kuphela ngokucokisekileyo - UThixo akavumelekanga, umntwana uya kuluma okanye aphule aze atyeke into encinci! Ukuba wenza konke kwesazela sakho, omncinci uya kuba nomdla kwinqanaba elitsha "," uya kuthintela ubuncinane eminwe ngeminwe kwaye ucinezele kwiintendelezo - kwaye oku kuphuhliso oludumileyo lwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezandla zezandla.

Olunye ulonwabo, nangona kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba lide ixesha elide, liza kuba yintonga yamanqaku amaninzi kunye ahlukeneyo kumacinki amade. Ukugqithisa oku kuluhlu - kungekudala umntwana uya kudlala ngomsila, oya kuzama ukunambitha nokuthinta zonke-zonke iifowuni.

Fumana amakhadi e-intanethi ahlakulela imbono yomntwana usebenzisa ubuchule bukaDoman, phrinta imifanekiso kwiprinta (ewe, kungcono ukusebenzisa umbala, kodwa xa unomnyama nomhlophe kuphela, imifanekiso inokuthi ihlale ifakwe peyinti kunye namanqaku), zibophelele tape kwincwadi encinane - kwaye uyibonise umntwana wakho. Qala ngezilwanyana, uze uye kwiindawo zomzimba. Ngaba kubonakala kuwe ukuba umntwana akanandaba nemifanekiso nhlobo? Khumbula: into ephambili kukuba ubona kwaye uyayiva izimvo zakho. Oku kuthetha ukuba uthatha ulwazi kwaye uyifake kwimemori, ukuze kamva, njengoko ekhula, abuyisele konke akufundileyo. Kodwa xa uqaphela ukuba umntwana akanandaba nemifanekiso - tshintshe ingqalelo kwezinye izinto zokuzonwabisa.

Kwisethi yamathoyizi eya kuvelisa umntwana, kufuneka kube neekhebhu kunye namanye amanani ejometri. Ukuba awukwazi ukuthenga iikhabhi zomveliso wefektri, jonga amabhokisi amancinci ekhaya kunye nesimo esifanelekileyo uze ubambane kunye nephepha elikhanyayo - ezi cubes zilungele! Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba akhe ipiramidi ngaphandle kwayo, kwaye ke-ukuyichitha. Ngendlela, unina abaninzi banenkxalabo yokuba ekuqaleni umntwana uzama ukutshabalalisa ipiramidi eyenziwe nguwe. Musa ukukhathazeka, oku, ngokuchaseneyo, ngumqondiso wokuqala ukuba umntwana ufunda ukudala ihlabathi elikufutshane naye. Oku kuthetha ukuba unomdla kakhulu: uyintoni na ipiramidi kwaye wathini na ukuyenza?

Ngendlela, ukukunceda ukuphuhlisa ikhono lokudala kumntwana unyaka kuya kunceda iikomityi zeplastiki eziqhelekileyo - isicatshulwa esincinci nesebenzayo ekuphuhliseni umntwana ekhaya. Myeke omncinane azame ukubeka iglasi enye kwelinye, kwaye kulo okwesithathu, yesine, njalonjalo de aze athuke. Kwaye emva koko, mcele ukuba athathe enye ngexesha. Xa lo msebenzi ubetha umntwana, myalela ukuba abeke iilazi ngeyodwa. Makhe ahlole, ufunda imithetho ebalulekileyo ye-physics. Qinisekisa ukuba iplastiki ephosakeleyo ayiphuli - iindawo zayo ezibukhali zingalimaza umntwana, kwaye umnqweno wakhe wokudlala uya kuphazamiseka.

Ngokuqinisekileyo sele usuqalisile ukondla umntwana wakho ngokutya kwasebantwaneni ezithengwa kwiivenkile? Kakade ke, iibhotile zeglasi zingenakunceda kwimidlalo, kodwa ungasebenzisa kalula ii-caps. Cima umbala wemifanekiso elula ngobungakanani besikhombiso - kwaye ufake kuwo. Lezi zinkozo ezinkulu kunye ezihlekisayo. Ngendlela, kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi ukuwabeka kwisikhwama okanye into enesinyithi - emva koko, xa bebetha isinyithi baya kwenza eso sandi sonorous! Ingane iya kuvuya.

Ndiye ndakucebisa ukuba ukhangele iibhokisi ezinomfanekiso wecube ekhaya ukuze uwasebenzise ekwakheni ipiramidi okanye indlu. Kodwa ukuba unayo ibhokisi yezinye iimo kunye nobungakanani - uphathe umntwana wabo ngesibindi. Gcwalisa ibhokisi ngeefowuni zokubetha ezifanayo okanye amathoyizi amancinci - makangabatshintshi umntwana, shiya. Kwaye kukho, ubona, funda ukuvula ibhokisi: unomdla kwizinto zangaphakathi-ngaphakathi?

Ekhitshini kukho izinto ezininzi ezingathatha ingqalelo yengane yakho ixesha elide. Umzekelo, iipane zemilo eyahlukeneyo. Imibala kunye nobukhulu - phakathi kwabo inkunzi inokuyibhobhoza amathoyizi akhe ukuba azuze kamva. Kwakhona abantwana bathanda ukudlala ngeepuni: qiniseka ukuba unike umntwana okanye i-aluminium, okanye, mhlawumbi, iplastiki - makafunde ukuyigcina. Kwaye kufuneka ubonise umntwana ukuba angasebenzisa njani ukusika, umzekelo.

Ukuba awuyikwesaba ukuba umntwana unokutshiza iphepheni yakho okanye i-linoleum phantsi komgangatho wezindlu - ngokuqinisekileyo ufake amanzi entombeni (i-ceramic, ngoko ayiyi kuphula, okanye i-aluminium engcono) kwaye uyinike yona. Abantwana bayayithanda kakhulu amanzi - baphinde basele baze bayigwebe, kwaye bazame ukuyifumana kwisiphathi. Vumela umntwana ukuba aqonde ukuba yintoni amanzi kunye nendlela yokusingatha ngayo. Musa nje ukuthatha intloko ukunyanzela umntwana, ukuba uchithe amanzi amaninzi - uya kumcasula umntwana, kwaye akayi kuphinda afune ukuzonwabisa nekomityi.

Awuyi kukholwa indlela inomdla ngayo inkqubo yokuguqula nokukhupha ingqayi kwibhotile. Bonisa kuphela umntwana amaxesha ambalwa-indlela yokwenza ngayo, kwaye awukwazi ukuthatha okungaphezulu kuye, mhlawumbi ikhefu okanye ibhotile ngokwayo-kuya kukhangela umsebenzi wakhe. Ukuba kukho iibhotile ezininzi zeplastiki endlwini yakho, zama ihafu uzalise izitya ezahlukeneyo okanye amathoyizi amancinci, ubuhlalu - inkunzi enkulu leyo iya kuthatha umntwana ihora!

Khangela izindlu ezindala kunye neemagazini ezingenasidingo kuwe-vumela umntwana ukuba azame ukuzijonga. Ngokuqinisekileyo, amaphepha omshicilelo aya kulungiswa, kodwa i-crumb iya kuhlalisa into enokuchazwayo - emva kwayo yonke, amaqabunga enqabileyo ngokukhawuleza phantsi kweminwe yakho. Yaye indlela ehlekisa ngayo iphepha eliqhekekileyo!

Mhlawumbi isicatshulwa esilandelayo siya kubonakala singaqhelekanga kuwe, kodwa kunye nomqulu oqhelekileyo wephepha langasese, apho umntwana ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuhamba khona, uya kulungelelaniswa nophuhliso lomntwana - uya kubona! Emva koko landela inkqubo yokuzikhulula ekuqaliseni iphepha-kwaye sele sele sele uyikhulile ngokwenyama kunye ne-savvy.

Thatha ibhokisi lebhodi lebhodi eliphakathi, yenza izimbobo ezimbalwa kuyo, kwaye ufake iintambo ngaphakathi. Vumela iingcebiso zabo zikhangele ngaphandle kweemingxuma: uya kuqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho unzima ukufumana i-ribhoni eneeminwe encinci kwaye akhiphe ngaphandle kwebhokisi.

Thabatha isitya sakho somthi kwi-chiffonier (nangona kungcono ukuthatha into encinci "inqabileyo", umzekelo, i-panamka) kwaye ubonise umntwana ukuba abeke njani entloko. Yibeke kumntwana, uthi: "Nanku, i-Yaroslav igqoke i-panama ... Kodwa umama unxibe i-panama!". Emva koko vumela i-crumb izame ukukudonsa iPanama ngokwakho. Makuze akwazi ukwenza okokuqala, kodwa kungekudala ukugqithiswa kwamapenki amancinci kuya kuphucula, kwaye akayi kukuphosa intloko yakho!

Kuyamangalisa ukuba abantwana banobuthakathaka beesokisi - banomdla kakhulu ekudlaleni nale ndeyile: emva koko, banokuyibhola ibhola, isikhokhelo, okanye nje ukugxotha kuyo.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, unayo ibhokisi enkulu yezixhobo zasemakhaya (umzekelo, isethi seTV) ekhaya lakho. Beka phakathi kwegumbi, kwaye inkunzi iya kuba nomdla kuyo. Uya kuzama ukunyuka ngaphakathi kwindlu ephucukisiwe. Jonga nje ngononophelo ukuze umntwana angaliwa!

Isifundo esifanelekileyo endlwini apho kukho umntwana omncinci, kufuneka kube neebhola ezahlukeneyo. Ubuncinane amabini amancinane kwaye ankulu. Eyokuqala kwezi zi nokuba neeplastiki ezithambileyo - oku kukuthengwa kakuhle. Le nto yokudlala iyakwenza kube lula, kodwa i-massage ephumelelayo kakhulu yeemvuthu isebenza.

Musa ukuzisola ngemali, kwaye uthenge idodoli kumntwana, mhlawumbi umnikazi weenwele ezinde. Ukuba unonyana okhulayo, kwaye ukwesaba ukuba uyihlo uya kulwa nokufumana loo nto, thabatha i-pupsa. Kwimizekelo yeemidlalo ezinjalo "ze-humanoid" ungafundisa abantwana bakho izenzo ezahlukeneyo. Ukudlala nedonsa, zama ukuyondla, uthi: "ULala uyadla - kwaye iYaroslav idla," ukumbeka ukuba alale: "Lyalya bayu-bai, kunye neYaroslav bayu-bai." Ukubetha idoli entloko, ukuyihlamba okanye i-gymnastics, hlamba ubuso bakhe ... ngokuqhelekileyo, yenza iipopu zonke izinto ozenzayo nomntwana wakho - ngoko kuya kuba lula ukuba aqonde zonke ezi zenzo kunye neenkqubo. Awuyi kubona ukuba uya kulala nganto xa ekhwela idonki kunye naye ecaleni lakhe ecaleni.

Kungenzeka ukuba, kwiesheluli ezinakho-izikhumbuzo zothuli, ezinikwa ngabahlobo beeholide: amahashe, izinja, iibhere. Zisa ezi zixhobo kwiimfundo kunye nosana: bavumele ukuba bazive, bahlole. Jonga kuphela ukuba akazami ukutshiza emlonyeni wakhe okanye ukutshaya izipho - kodwa, le memori!

Khangela abahlobo abanabantwana abadala, ibhokisi kwi-Kinder Surprise. Uzakufuna iziqwenga ezingama-6, kuxhomekeke kwisifiso sakho kunye nomoya. Ukuba uyazi indlela yokudibanisa! Ukubopha le mibhobho ngemisonto enemibala, uzibophe ngentsimbi enye - uya kufumana inambuzane. Ngomdwebo wokuqala wokugqithisa (okanye ukuthunga abo bathengiweyo) amehlo nomlomo - vumela inambuzane yakho imomotheka kumntwana. Unokwenza kuqala ukugcwalisa ibhokisi ngokuthile okugqithisileyo, ukuhamba okukhululekayo.

Kumdlalo kunye nomntwana, ungasebenzisa ezinye izinto ezininzi: ii-combs, i-rubber peeples, isibuko, isitya kunye nelineni apho umntwana uya kuzama ukukrazula yonke into kwaye akhuphuke apho. Umntwana unako ukuzithiba ngokuzenzekelayo zonke iintlobo zeentambo kunye neerbhoni kwiingubo zakho, bhinqa intsimbi encinci kwaye ngokukodwa - cinga iifoto! Bonisa iimvumba kaninzi i-albhamu yentsapho - kunye neentsapho kumntu uyazi, kwaye zihlekise uzuko!

Kodwa kukho imingcele embalwa apho umama angayifumana ingqalelo, efuna izinto eziphathekayo zokuphuhlisa imidlalo kunye nomntwana wakhe. Ngokomzekelo, kufuneka wenze imidlalo ye-veto ngeentambo kunye neetambo-kuba abantwana bangakwazi ukuwafaka ngephutha emacaleni abo. Akuyimfuneko ukunika umntwana ezandleni zedokethi yokuhlaselwa, apho kukho izinto ezincinci - i-crumb ingayigwinya, kwaye iya kugqirha.

Ukuba unika umntwana ipeni - yitsala intonga ngaphandle kwayo, kuba umntwana angakwazi ukuzama i-office ukunambitha, kunye ne-paste - into enjalo ayinakunceda, ngaphandle koko, intonga inesakhiwo sokugquma.

Ungavumeli umntwana wakho adlale ngegrafu yekhilimu-unokuyivula kwaye agwinye ukhilimu, oya kubangela ukuba utywala emzimbeni womntwana wethenda.

Kwakhona kunqweneleka ukunciphisa umnxibelelwano womntwana kunye nephepha elisetyenziswe kumshicileli, kunye neencwadi ezinamaphepha amancinci - konke oku kunokunciphisa iminwe yengane, ngaphandle koko, abantwana bazama ukutya iphepha.

Ngokusemgangathweni, ukuba uqaphele kwaye uqaphele, akufuneki kubekho iingxaki ngeemathoyizi ezivela kwiindlela ezilungelelanisiweyo - qiniseka ukuba izinto zikhuselekile, ngaphandle kwamacangca abukhali kunye nemida, ngaphandle kweenkcukacha ezincinci. Yaye ukhumbule ukuba umntwana ongcono kakhulu ukhula eluthandweni nasekunyamekeleni, kunokuba enze imisebenzi enyanzelekileyo engamniki unina. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba unomnqweno wokufundisa umntwana wakho, makube nguyihlo okanye ugogo. Emva koko unako ukunika umntwana kwiziko eliphuhlisayo-elungileyo, kukho ininzi kuwo nasiphi na isixeko!

Yaye ukhumbule ukuba xa unyaka unyaka malunga ne-70% yolwazi oluyisiseko kunye nezakhono zentsana - ungavumeli le nkqubo ithathe ikhosi yayo, kwaye ukusuka kwiimvuthu zakho umntwana oyinyaniso uya kukhula!