Namhlanje, abafazi bajamelana nokubandlulula, ukunyaniseka kunye nokuvavanya kakubi endleleni yabo. Abafilosofi kwiinkalo zabo ezininzi bafanekisela into ebhinqileyo, engalunganga, engalunganga. Sisiphi isizathu salokhu? Ingqungquthela, ukuba ininzi yefilosofi - isayensi yabantu, kunye nexabiso eliphezulu lentlalo? Okanye kunye nenyaniso yokuba abafazi abasabonakali ngokupheleleyo kwihlabathi, ngaba baye bakwazi ukuziqonda zabo kunye neemvakalelo zabo? Kutheni umfazi obhaliweyo okanye umbhali kwimisebenzi yakhe esoloko ezama ukuxelisa amadoda? Zingaphi iigama legama lawabasetyhini awathatha amadoda? Akukho nto. Zingaphi iinkolelo zamadoda abafazi? Kuninzi. Sisiphi isizathu salokhu? Ngaba kukho ukungalingani phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, kwaye ukuba ngaba nguwe: ngaba kufanelekile? Ngaba oku kulungile? Okanye, ngokuchasene noko, ekulandeleni ukulingana, abafazi bayalilibala isiseko sabo, amalungelo abo, ngokwenene, nendlela abafazi ababa ngayo isibindi.
Ubuninzi kunye nobuninzi bukhona kuzo zonke ezikusijikelezayo, kwintanda-ntliziyo, apho i-yin ne-yang ixhomekeke kuzo zonke izinto-le yindoda neyowesifazana. Ubundlobongela kunye nesibindi asinalo intsingiselo ebhaliweyo, inxalenye yesinye okanye enye ikhona kulowo nalowo kuthi, ngamnye, unikwe ezi mpawu zomphefumlo, kuba ezi zigaba zibini zinengcamango eyodwa, le yinkqubo yonke yemimandla ehambelanayo.
Sivame ukugweba ukusuka kwicala lomntu okanye umfazi ukuba uyindoda, nesibindi. Siyakwazi ukugweba le nto, nangokwenene, ngokucinga, ngaphandle kwefilosofi kwi sihloko kwaye singayicingi into yayo. Namhlanje, sibonisa inkoliso yeengcamango kule ngongoma, kunye nokuthambekela kokungafani okwenzekayo phakathi kwezi zigaba zibini. Uninzi lwezenzo zentlalo, ingqondo kunye nefilosofi zilapha kwesi sihloko. Yintoni esiyayaziyo namhlanje? Yintoni le nto: indoda kunye nomfazi?
Umfazi
Ubume besifazana, ingundoqo yendalo yayo, ixabiso layo elibalulekileyo kwiimeko ezininzi ubuhle. Eli xabiso lusezesondo, oluqhelekileyo. Ukuze i-muzhchinakoy ixabiso lakhe imeko yezenhlalakahle, amandla okuphila, aphile. Uninzi lwe-Ozhenschine lugwetywa malunga nokubonakala kwalo. Ukubonakala kakuhle komfazi kuyisipho kunye nokuhlushwa ngexesha elifanayo. Ukuba ngumfazi omhle kakhulu kuninzi kunzima kunjengobubi kakhulu. Abasetyhini abahle banokufumana ingqalelo yabantu, kodwa ngexesha elinye, inzondo kunye nentlonipho yabasetyhini. Umfazi omhle uhlala ekulungele ukuhlamba ngamaqhinga kunye nokuhleka, kuba konke oku kubaluleke kakhulu kumashishini amabhinqa. Kodwa ke, ubuhle bubona buninzi obunaphakade, buya kutshintsha kakhulu kwaye kaninzi lukhokelo oluthile-ukusuka kwisifo, imeko ezimbi zezulu, njl njl. Abafazi abanokungaqiniseki bahlale bengaphuthelwa ithuba lokujonga kwisibuko, balungele. Kubonakala ngathi bahlolisise ukuba babone ukuba ubuncwane babo babaluleke kakhulu. Ngaloo xesha, ukuba umlilo okanye intlekele ethile yenzeke, lo mfazi ulahlekelwe ubuhle bakhe - ngokuqinisekileyo akakwazi ukuwubuyisela. Indoda inokuhlala ikwazi ukufezekisa isimo sezentlalo kunye nemikhosi yakhe, ukuba unayo impawu ebalulekileyo kule nto.
Bathi into eyenziwa yindoda iyasebenza, kwaye abasetyhini abayithandi. Ngothando, abafazi bathatha ngaphezulu, bavumele ukuba bathande kunokuba bathanda. Ibhinqa ifuna ukuhlalutya, ukucwangcisa, ucinge ngeentsapho zayo zexesha elizayo, ukhethe iqabane elifanelekileyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ihamba ngengqondo ngokubaluleka kwayo, umntu ufumana ukuthanda, uthanda ngayo yonke into yakhe.
Yintoni ubuhle? Ubuhle kukukwazi ukuqhubeka nokuqhubeka kwenzalo. Ubumnandi bubonakala kuzo zonke izinto eziphilayo, kodwa sibona abafazi behle kakhulu. Abasetyhini banhle kunamadoda, kuba banikela ubomi, banikezelwa iimpawu ezininzi. Ibhinqa lingabizwa ngokuthi liyiziphukuphuku, lingaqhelekanga, lihlaziye, libi, kodwa awukwazi ukuxelela umfazi ukuba uyingozi. Ukumxelela oku kuya kuba nobundlobongela. Oku kuyona nto igxekayo, ephinde iphinde iqinisekise ukuba intloko yowesifazane i-ekrasota.
Kukho iindidi zezilwanyana zezinto kuphela, kodwa akukho namadoda. Ibhinqa linxibe imibala yabantu-emnyama, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, emdaka, kodwa indoda ayikwazi ukunxiba abafazi-i-pinki, imfusa, njl. Ibhinqa ligqoke ibhulukwe, iikhati, kodwa indoda ayikwazi ukugqoka ingubo okanye ingubo, ibonakala ngathi iyinto enyanyekayo kwaye ingalunganga. Ngelo xesha, xa lo mfazi egqoke iingubo zamadoda - sinobugcisa okanye sihle. Kukho imisebenzi nje yabasetyhini, ngokuqhelekileyo ababandakanyi namadoda. Kodwa abafazi bayaziqonda ngokugqithiseleyo ukuqeqeshwa "kwindoda", kubonakala kunomdla, udumo. Iinjineli zowesifazane izandile ngcono kunomntu-unesi. Ukuba sibona i-female silhouette, ngoko siyazi ngokukhawuleza ukuba lo ngumfazi, kungekhona "indoda." Ibhinqa liyakwazi ukubonakaliswa ngemigca ehamba phambili, ngeli xesha ngexesha lomntu lithatha ubuncinane elishumi.
Le ndoda
Indoda ingaba yinto embi, ingabi nesandla esinye, kodwa ukuba ingumntu jikelele okanye umculi omkhulu - umfazi uhamba ngendlela yakhe, uyathandana nentengo yakhe yentlalo. Iindidi zamadoda zinoqoqosho kunye nentlalo. Abaqondi kakuhle "kwizopolitiko zangaphakathi kunye nobudlelwane," ukuhleba nokunyaniseka akude nezinto ezisemasimini. Kodwa umgaqo "wangaphandle" ushishino lwabo. Izopolitiko, ifilosofi yinto ekhethekileyo yindoda. Uhlobo lomntu luyisisitye esiya kumnceda ukuba aphumeze into ebomini. Ingundoqo kunye nobomi bomntu usenza isenzo, ngokulwa, ukufikelela, ukuthatha indawo okanye ingcaciso engatshatanga. Ubuhle bakhe bungenziwa kwakhona ngezandla zakhe. Imisipha inokuphonywa kwiholo, ngoxa ubuhle besifazana bunikwa kuye ngokwemvelo, uyisipho sofuzo, umfazi wobomi bakhe uninzi. Amadoda atshate, abafazi batshatile. Indoda ithanda ngeli xesha, iyakwazi ukuhlala umzuzwana, ukuthanda ngentshiseko nangomdla. Ibhinqa lijonge phambili, iiplani, amaphupha, ihamba emafini. Inembile kakhulu - kufuneka ive, nokuba le nto okanye loo mlingane ulungile, kuya kuthini na kuyo, iya kukunyamekela.
Namhlanje
Sithini uhlobo lomfazi? Ukuqonda kwethu oku kunceda ukuchazela "i-feminine" epithets. Enhle, inene, inomusa, inothando, inhle, imomothekayo, icace njengelanga, inomusa-intliziyo, ukuziva, ukuqonda ... Sibona njani indoda? Unamandla, uphumelele, uthandekayo, uhlale unomdla, unyanisekileyo, uvulekile, ngovuyo, njl njl. Namhlanje, amadoda aya kuba ngaphezulu "okwesifazana" kwaye ngokufanayo: abafazi banesibindi. Wonke umntu ubonakala efuna ukuhamba ngaphaya kwendima yabo. Ngaba kuyimfuneko? Kufuneka uzive ukhululekile kwindlalifa yakho kwaye ungazami ukuhamba ngaphaya kwayo ukuba ukhangele nje ngomnye umntu. Ubuntwini kunye nobukhulu sisipho kwisinye sawo, esimele sifanele siqhayise.