Yintoni endiyenzayo ukuba ndibuyisele intanda yam?

Kuthekani ukuba ubuhlobo obubaluleke kakhulu kuwe kwaye iindlela zaphela? Indlela yokusinda ukuhlukana nomthandane wakho, indlela yokubuyela kwindawo epheleleyo. Kwakhona, ujabulele ilanga, uhlabe iintaka, iintyatyambo kunye novuyo olulula. Ukuba umntu obathandayo akuphosa, ihlala ibuhlungu, kodwa ubomi abupheli apho. Ukuba ubeka umgudu okwaneleyo, ngoko unokubuyisela umthandi. Uyakubona kwakhona amehlo akhe, ubambe umlomo wakhe, ubambe ngobumnene aze alale ecaleni kwakhe.

Ngoko, isigaba sokuqala sokuhlukana siphelile. Awusayi kuzigcwalisa ngezinyembezi ezivuthayo ezivela kwenye uhlobo lwefoto yakhe, awufaki kwiindawo apho wawuhlala khona, uyeka ukumgxeka ngenxa yezinto zonke, ukukhangela iintlanganiso, ukugxeka, ukuhlambalaza. Isigaba sokuqala siphelile. Ukuqinisa isiphumo kufanelekile ukwenza izinto ezininzi eziza kukunceda ukhangele imeko yonke indlela entsha kwaye ubone ukubonelela kokuhlukana kwakho. Jonga ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwisithombe sakho esifanelekileyo, jonga kwi-albhamu kwiholide yakho. Vumela kwakhona entlokweni yakho kuya kuba nemihlali emihle malunga nendlela ovuyayo ngayo. Khumbula uvuyo kunye nokulangazelela, umnqweno wokuhlangana nentanda yakho. Ngoko, ngomnqweno wokubuyisela indoda yakho ethandekayo, oku kuya kukunceda kakhulu. Ukujonga iiminqweno kuyindlela enamandla yokubuyisela umntu. Ucinga ngento. Ukuba uhlala emela ndawonye, ​​ukuba ubuye, kuya kuba njalo. Nangona kunjalo, ungawushiyi yonke imizamo yakho kwindoda enye. Jonga ngeenxa zonke, mhlawumbi omnye wabantu bakho abadala beliphupha ukuphuma kunye nawe ngosuku? Xa umfazi exelelwa ukuba azalisekise, umnyamekele, unempembelelo entle kwintlalo-ntle, imizwa. Ukuzithemba ngokwengeziwe. Le nyathelo lokuqala ukubuyisela indoda yakho ethandekayo.

Ngomzamo wokubuyisela umntu wamaphupha akhe , kukufanelekile ukunikela ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo ekubonakaleni kwakhe. Mhlawumbi isizathu sokuhamba kwakhe kukunyaniseka kwakho? Yiya kwi-salon yobuhle, ubhalisele kwiziko lempilo. Kuwe, ngoku ngoku kufikelelekile ukuba wenze ngokwalo ubuhle obukhoyo. Akukho mntu uya kukukhohlisa ngezinto ezintle zobusuku, unikele ubhiya kunye nokulimala, okuvela kuyo iipounds ezili. Phinda uqale uthetha nabahlobo ongazizange udibana nabo ixesha elide, kuba lonke ixesha lokuphumla lisetyenziswe kwinkampani yendoda. Yenza ubomi bakho bube mnandi kwaye butyebi. Emva koko awuyi kuba nexesha lokuva, iingcinga ezimbi. Hlaziya, zama ukufumana isizathu sokuba indoda yakho ikushiye. Mhlawumbi uzingca, ungasayi kuba ngumfazi wendlu enhle kwaye indlu yakho inokutshatyalaliswa ngokupheleleyo? Mhlawumbi awukwazi ukupheka? Emva koko, bhalisela iikholeji zokupheka okanye uqeqeshe ekhaya kwiintsapho okanye ngabahlobo. Mhlawumbi wayenentlungu nawe? Emva koko qalisa ukufunda, ube nomdla kwihlabathi kunye nento eyenzekayo malunga nawe. Nantsi into enokuyenza ukuze ufumane intanda yakho.

Kubalulekile kungekhona nje ukufumana impazamo yakho, kodwa kwakhona ukukulungisa. Musa ukuphindaphinda kwixesha elizayo, akunandaba na lo mntu okanye ngezinye, kodwa ngegama elifanayo, awuyi kuphinda ufike. Yiloo nto akufanele uyenze ukuba ufuna ukubuyisela indoda yakho ethandekayo. Yiba ngumfazi olula, odlalayo kunye onomoya okhuselekileyo, vumela indlela yokubonga yindoda ibheke kuwe. Kuyinto enhle xa bejonge kuwe njengendawo engenanto, kodwa njengoMfazi. Funda ukuba yiyo! Xa usebenza kwilizwe lakho langaphakathi, ungalibali ngokubonakala kwakho. Ukuzibandakanya rhoqo kwimidlalo, zibukele ngokwakho, tyelela i-gym, kwaye ngenyanga uya kukwazi ukuzibona. Ukuba ngumfazi okhethwe kakuhle kwaye uyintle kakhulu. Oku kwongeza ukuzithemba, amandla kunye nekhontrakthi. Kufuneka uhlale ukhangeleka kakuhle! Nokuba uhamba nje kwisitolo! Unokugijima kwindawo yangaphambili ngethuba kwisitrato okanye udibana nomhlobo wakhe, oya kumxelela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ungubani. Ubumnandi obumnandi, ukuzithemba, iingubo ezintle, ukubonakala kakuhle-kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo indoda yakho iyafuna ukukubiza, udibana kwakhona kwaye ube nawe.

Yintoni enokuyenza xa indoda ethandekayo ikuphosa - ungakhathazeki kwaye uyazi ukuba nanini na umzuzu ungalungisa yonke into, ususe iimpazamo zakho, kwaye ube yinto enye kuye. Xa bemxelela ukuba ubukeka bukhulu kangakanani, uya kuba neengcamango "zokuba ndilahlekelwe." Ngoko, akukho dangali. Konke emandleni akho!