Mhlawumbi wonk 'ubani ubuncinci bodwa ebomini bakhe bemi ngaphandle kwesibonakaliso: ngaba ndiyivalile igesi? Ngaba i-heater yavalwa, ngaba umnyango uvalelwe? .. Ukuba oku kwenzeka rhoqo, eli nqaku likulo.
UMBHALO WENKQUBO
"... Awuyivali insimbi!" Ukucatshulwa kwaphulwa njengokwenziwa kombane. Okwangoku, xa uLudmila ebhasini, amalamlilo atshabalala, uziphosa kwiipaleni, kwaye indlu yonke isele ishushu ... Lo wesifazane wayenobuthathaka obukhulu kunye nentliziyo. Yeka! " Wememeza umqhubi.
Ukubamba iteksi, uLyudmila waphuthuka kwigumbi elisezantsi. Dumisani uThixo! Akazange acime kuphela intsimbi, kodwa ayibeke endaweni yayo. Njengoko kunjalo. Kwaye kusoloko kubuya, kungakholwa ...
UKUKHELA KWEZIKHAKATHI
Ngokuqhelekileyo le meko ivela kwi-overloads, kaninzi ivakalelo. Kuyafaneleka ukuphumla, ukubeka imiba yakho ngendlela, indlela yonke into ehamba ngayo. Kodwa ukuba lo mkhuba uhamba phambili, ukwesaba kaninzi, ubuyela ekhaya kaninzi, okanye ukugqithiseleyo, khumbula ukuba wonke umntu uyacima-ecima-evaliweyo, kodwa ngokuchasene nengqiqo, ukuxhalabisa ukuxhalabisa kukuxhomekeke kuwe-kubalulekile ukucinga ngendlela yokuzincoma.
Ukuxhalabisa kuyinto eyona nto ingavaliyo. Umntu akafumani indawo, akakwazi ukugxila kuyo nayiphi na into. Kodwa ukuba ubuza: "Yintoni na oyikisayo?" - akakwazi ukuphendula ngokucacileyo.
Kunzima kakhulu ukunyamezela i-alamu engenamkhawulo, ekhululekile. Lo ngumntu kwaye ufuna ukunika intsingiselo yekhonkrithi. Oku kubangela ukwesaba okubhekiswe kwinto ethile. Kwaye into evelele kuyo wonke umntu ukwesaba ikhaya labo.
Ukujamelana naloo mvakalelo, wonke umntu uvela ngeendlela zakhe: umntu uza kubuya ukujonga ukuba yonke into ihlelekile, umntu uvela kunye nemikhuba ("Ukuba ndibona imoto emihlanu eneenhlanhla ezinenhlanhla - yonke into iya kulungile"). Kodwa kunceda isikhashana. Emva kwexesha elithile, i-alamu igxotha ngamandla.
UMLILO NGAPHAKATHI
Xa sikulungile, siphila apha kwaye ngoku, singakhange sihlakulele kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye singakhathazeki ngekamva. Izinto ezininzi zenziwa ngokuzenzekelayo, ngaphandle kokungabaza. Kodwa ukulungiswa kwengqondo: isinyithi ifakiwe? - yavalwa. Nangona asikhumbuli umzuzu xa sisusile iplagi ekuphumeni, umphefumlo usazolile.
Ukuba umntu uhlala engxwelweni engapheliyo, kwaye intloko yakhe ixutywe ngeengcamango ezinzima, ingqondo iyala ukugcina ezo zifana ezifana nomnyango okanye isinyithi. Emva koko enye ingcinga ngokukhawuleza yanele ukufumana i-alamu. Kwaye kukho kakade i-palpitation, i-shiver, loo mntu ukhawuleza aze ahlasele ekhaya. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba yonke into ihlelekile, ubonakala ehlaziya. Kodwa ... uvakalelo kwinto eyenze yanda. Kwaye xa ixesha elizayo ngesizathu esithile ahluleki, ukuyikwesaba kwakhe kuya kuba likhulu elinamaxesha angamaqatha kwaye libuhlungu. Nanku ukuhlaselwa kwentliziyo kungekude.
Ungayifaka njani i-alamu?
- Zama ukunyamekela kakhulu kwizenzo ezenza ngokuzenzekelayo. Ukucima isinyithi, qaphela ukuba intambo iphela. Ukuvala umnyango, ukukrazula kathathu ...
- Kukho indlela enjalo: ukukrazula iplagi, ukujika ikhilo kwiskhiya, uthi ngokuvakalayo: "Ndiyicime insimbi." Ndavala umnyango. " Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ingcinga-ingabaza ikhanya, uyakhumbula ukuba yonke into yenziwe ngokuchanekileyo.
- Ngamanye amaxesha nokuba inkolelo yokuba indlu iyilungile ayinakusindisi kwixhala. Ukuba uphonswa ekutshiseni okanye kubanda, ukukhathazeka ngokukhathazeka, ukuthuthumela, ukusebenzisa iindlela zokuphumula, ukuthatha ipilitian tablet.
- Ungasebenzisa ukuqeqeshwa ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngamnye wethu unayo okanye unendawo apho siziva siphephile ngokupheleleyo. Ngokomzekelo, ebuntwaneni kwikhitshi kagogo okanye ebhedeni, efihliweyo ngentloko. Zama ukususa le miva kaninzi.
- Ekugqibeleni, cinga nje ngento enhle, uzama ukubulala imifanekiso embi ebonisa umdla. Yaye ukuba ingcamango ibuhlungu, yithumele: "Phuma!". Kubalulekile ukwenza njalo emva kokuba i-alamu ikhutshwe. Inkqubo ihleka ngokukhawuleza, kodwa, ngokungaqhelekanga, isebenza.
- Kuthekani ukuba uziva ungonwabi ufuna ukuya ekhaya ukujonga yonke into? Ngokuqhelekileyo bathi: "Kungcono ukubuyela kunokunyamezela yonke imini." Nangona kunjalo, ukuba iimbuyekezo ziba ngumkhwa, zama ukuyeka kude kwaye uzixakeke ixesha.
Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, simele senze konke ukunciphisa ukukhathazeka. Kakade ke, ubomi basoloko bangela ukuba sithinte. Kodwa unako ukubeka ucwecwe: ungayifunde kwimaphephandaba amaphepha engxelo yolwaphulo-mthetho, ungaboni abaqaphi, uxoxisane nabantu abahlala benakho konke okubi. Njengoko bethetha, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubomi buyinto engatshitshisiyo - kuyatshisa ukubukela iTV.
- Gcina umkhondo wento othetha ngayo ngawe. Ngokuqhelekileyo siyaqiniseka ukuba kwiimeko ezinzima into ephambili ukuphuma. Kodwa oku kudla ngokukhawuleza ukuzithiba: ukuthetha ngokungapheli ngeengxaki zabo, umntu akahlazi phantsi, kodwa udideke ngakumbi. Zama elinye iqhinga: "Ndiyazi ukuba ndinenkinga, ndiziva ndixhalabile, kodwa ndiza kuzama ukujamelana nayo ngaphandle kokubandakanya abanye." Ngamanye amaxesha, ngokwakho ingozi, kufuneka ufune ukumemeza: "Yeka, hamba!".
- Ukongezelela, ukuba ufuna ukulahla uxhalaba, thatha umgaqo ukuba ungapendeli iingxaki zakho ngemibala eqaqambileyo: "Ndiziva ndixakekile!" Anginayo imali! Umyeni wam ungoyilo! Akunandaba nokuba ufuna ukuthetha la magama, yima. Ukuxhalabisa kuxhaswa yiengxelo kunye neengxaki ezikufumanisayo.
- Yaye khumbula: akukho mntu owaziyo okuphambi kwethu. Sinelungelo lokukhetha: ukumela ikusasa ngemibala ekhanyayo okanye emnyama. Njengoko sicinga, yindlela esivakalelwa ngayo. Kwaye ukwesaba ukumodareyitha akuyingozi.